I don t need comfort at all, your comfort, I don t need it!

If she doesn't say anything at all, it's not worth it. For some of them, the so-called can't comfort you at all. Don't think that the so-called happiness can only be obtained from her.

This way you will be more tired. Giving too much will make you more tired. Actually, I don't know what to say.

There is no one who is who. There is a passage.

In fact, there is nothing in this world that can necessarily hurt you.

As long as you're cold enough, indifferent enough, cold enough to stop caring about everything.

As long as you slowly polish your heart into a smooth and hard stone.

As long as you think of yourself as dead, then there is nothing in this world that can hurt you, and if you don't want to feel so much pain from others, then, don't give so much love to others.

See what you think.

Dude, sympathy, I've been in a similar situation. After I confessed, she didn't agree, so I said I'm sorry, okay to keep our friendship. Later, it would be good to develop slowly.

It's love, there is no way, but you have to think about yourself. If you love her, you will boldly confess, and see her reaction, if it is still the same, then forget it. Life is short for a few years, and it is not wasted.

Some girls like a lot of boys around her, and no one wants to give up. The most hateful!!

So far, I have been a class leader and teaching assistant in 10 sessions of the writing camp, and I have met 3,000 students.

In this process, many classmates slowly became friends with me, so, sometimes, if I accidentally talk about my recent situation, there are good things, but more bad things, they have experienced some unfortunate ......

At this time, I will be very uncomfortable, so I will try my best to comfort the other person, and Qizhen will say some positive words, such as, "Take care of yourself, take your time, the future is promising" and so on.

They usually thank me, and then we end the chat.

But many times, I also often ask myself, is my comfort someone else needs? Does my comfort work?

The answer is yes.

Although I can't really help them, I am at least giving them positive guidance, and at the same time, I am also a listener and provide them with catharsis. So, I think I'm still useful to them.

But I once saw such a sentence: "I don't want you to think, I want me to feel." ”

Whether or not my words work is ultimately a matter of their own choice.

Many times, I am also confused, should I comfort others? Now, I am slowly finding the answer, and I need to be reassured, even if it doesn't make a big difference, but as long as I do my best, the pomace will then learn to protect myself.

I don't comfort others, and I'm afraid of being comforted.

This "won't" has both a technical and a subjective aspect.

I can feel the sadness of others, but I can't empathize with them, at this time, it seems that what I can do is very limited, and comfort is only to relieve my own sense of powerlessness, but it is of little use to others.

Whenever I encounter my friend's pain and sorrow, I can't seem to do anything but accompany him silently, because I can't say nutritious comfort, I feel guilty for my incompetence, and I am worried that my friend will think that I have ignored him at a critical moment.

When everyone else is around their friends or encouraging them to cheer me up or comforting me warmly, I look very disagreeable when I stand aside, and it's not that I don't want to be comforted, but I really don't know how to comfort them. Although comfort does not seem to have any substantive meaning at the moment, it can make the other person feel the presence of a friend in form.

I also have subjective times when I don't want to be comforted, and this is mostly for those close to me, especially for Kago.

He didn't do well in the exam when he was a child, and when he came back, he would cry, so I let him cry, neither foolishly coaxing nor comforting.

When he stopped crying, pull him over and talk to him and ask him what he planned to do. What do you think? Help him analyze the problem and support him to solve it by himself, no matter how much others think, it is not as clear as thinking about it himself.

There was a big exam in high school, it is estimated that he felt that he was winning this time, but the result was a mess again, and he was depressed when he came back, he didn't say that I didn't ask, and finally waited for the teacher to send the score, he couldn't help but lose control of his emotions.

I didn't say anything comforting as usual, and he asked me rhetorically, why don't you see my efforts, and there is not a word of comfort.

I said, in fact, you don't need comfort, you just need to vent your emotions, and supporting you to solve problems is much more effective than comfort.

In fact, I am more afraid of being comforted, because I am afraid of being defeated by a simple word of comfort.

I don't comfort others, because I'm afraid that others will talk about emotional feelings, and I'm at a loss;

I don't want to comfort don't grind the key people, because I know that you don't know how much it hurts if the needle doesn't poke at you;

I was also afraid of being comforted by others because I didn't want others to see my pain and helplessness.