What happens to a child who has never been praised by his parents

Your child's progress comes from your reward, not from scolding.

Parents should pay attention to their own behavior and attitude. Often beaten and scolded at home, compared with the outstanding students in the class, and often expressed dissatisfaction with him in front of the child, this will only hurt the child's self-esteem, make the child give up on himself, lose confidence in learning, have no interest, and create a vicious circle. Therefore, parents should pay attention to their words and deeds, and must look at their children with a positive attitude, believing that their children can be changed.

When the child is even a little bit better than before, parents should give appropriate encouragement and praise to make the child realize that he is slowly changing. Parents should learn to compare their children's present with their past, not with other classmates, because every child is different. Parents should also strengthen their children's good behaviors in a timely manner and punish bad behaviors appropriately.

When your child doesn't finish their homework, never give a predetermined reward. When children have changes at home, parents can contact or communicate with teachers, so that teachers can give encouragement and praise at school or in the class, and reinforce their good behavior in time.

Withdrawn personality, no self-confidence, low self-esteem, and does not like to be separated from outsiders.

Children who have not been beaten mean that they are too well-behaved, and they will suffer in society, and they will not be able to distinguish what is worth making and what is not worth making friends!

If parents don't praise their children, in the eyes of their children, they will never be valued, and they don't know what to do and what not to do! There is no purpose in life!

People who never get the love of their father and mother will have low self-esteem, loneliness and even autism.

Since I was a child, my parents, especially my dad, have always been criticized, some words are particularly ugly, and I have begun to scold me with ugly words before I understand things clearly, resulting in my personality has always been very inferior, speechless junior high school or elementary school, and the back of high school is a little better, because it is boarding in school, away from the so-called family, after work, at home and into a dead loop, I really don't know how long I can survive.

Being a parent must be good for your own children.

Praising other people's children may be to motivate you to learn with me.

You should relax and praise it, anyway, you are their child, and they will always love you after the Dan key.

You should behave well, let your parents see your shining points, and don't blame your parents, it's just that they are too anxious and hope you can do better.

You should tell parents that the child is very much like us, he has many good qualities in him, and he is often praised by teachers. I appreciate the good things in my child.

Parents have been praising other people's children, and they feel that their children are useless, so Yin Chai Qin has to talk to your parents about it, in fact, your own children are also very good.

In fact, many parents will talk about their children in this way, you can communicate with your parents openly, say what you think in your heart, and ask them to respect you more.

Then you should be yourself and don't have any extra thoughts about it.

You can negotiate with your parents and tell your parents that this way is wrong and will affect your mentality, or you can try to divert your own mental strength in the debate.

Adjust your mentality, communicate more with your parents, and sometimes tell your parents about your emotions, so that this situation will change.

In fact, this is the most harmful way of education for children, and it is recommended to directly block the remarks of parents.

I should work hard to improve myself, make myself better, and study hard, so that my parents will praise me.

1. Care for children and want to motivate children to be motivated, but in the wrong way, some parents are in a good position for their children, and their original intentions are good, but they often use the wrong way. I think that this method can motivate the child and make the child motivated, but I ignore the child's feelings. Because there is no standard, it is a group of children of the same age, and there is always a more prominent child in this group, and this child often becomes the standard in the minds of parents.

2. The psychology of comparison, the inferior nature of human nature.

3. "Other people's children" will only make children feel inferior.

No matter what the purpose, it will only bring negative effects to the child, hit the child's self-confidence, and make the child fall into a deep inferiority complex. This also has a certain impact on the child's interpersonal communication, which will not only make the child's personality become withdrawn, but also make the child jealous, and also make the parent-child relationship more unstable.

Every parent should see the strengths of their children, and parents should accompany their children to face difficulties when facing them. Instead of cracking down, such parents can only say that they have done bad things with good intentions, and they are also righteous relatives. It's also unfair to just praise other people's children.

As a person who has come from the past, every child is fragile in their hearts, and they also hope to get the support and attention of their parents, only in this way can they inspire their children to grow better.

In fact, the mentality of parents is just the feeling of hating iron and steel. Because parents have high requirements for their children, and they are also afraid that their children will fall behind others and grow up unproductive.

It may be that parents have high expectations for their children, or it may be that other people's children are indeed excellent, and parents find it difficult to accept the mediocrity of their own children.

This is because parents think that other people's children are particularly good, and they think that other people's children are better than their own children, so they will say this.

Introduction: Children want to be affirmed by their parents and want to be praised by their parents, but most parents have never praised their children in front of others, and more are to belittle their children, do you know the specific reason? Let's find out today.

Many children work hard in order to get praise from their parents, but parents turn a blind eye to their children's efforts, but blindly hit the long-term past, which will cause children to be lost and self-deprecating. Neither successful nor unsuccessful people have ever been praised by their parents. Because parents feel that modesty is a virtue and criticism is a spur, otherwise it will make the child very proud and arrogant, and there is no way to make the child better.

In fact, parents are not blind to their children's efforts, but they don't dare to express them too much, otherwise it will have a negative impact on their children, but for children, parents' affirmation and encouragement are an important force for them to walk.

Although excessive praise will make children have problems, will make children complacent, but never praised, but also a little pitiful, it is recommended that parents must praise their children appropriately, so that children have both the motivation to act and the ability to actively correct mistakes. Traditional Chinese education is implicit and introverted, not good at praise, and I don't know when to praise, how to praise, if there is a child in the future, he will definitely be praised, but it will definitely not let him know too much about his efforts, parents see and have the direction of efforts. Whether it is too derogatory or too praised, it is very influential for children, so parents must find a suitable way of education for their children, do not belittle too much, and do not need too much praise, so that the child's growth path is getting better and better.

Because some parents are very humble, they are afraid that their children will be very arrogant, so they are not willing to praise their children in front of others.

Because parents don't care about some of their children's performance, parents feel that their children are not particularly good, so they are reluctant to praise their children.

Because their parents feel that their children are excellent or not, only they know whether they are good or not, and comparing their children with others will only bring a certain amount of pressure to their children.

If you praise your child in front of others, it will make others feel particularly incompetent. It will also make others feel that this parental idea is not very good.

Nowadays, many children are compared, if it is the winning side, it is good, but there will always be children who are the losing side. So why do parents keep praising other people's children and feel that their children are useless?

Other people's children are always excellent, and we can often hear these words. Some parents always praise others in front of their children, never praise themselves, more like others are their children. This kind of parent often has a very strong comparison mentality, and he hopes to use the comparison of two children to make his children ashamed, so that the children are hit hard and want to work hard.

It is undeniable that there will be such people who will be beaten like chicken blood, but parents are fully sure that it must be their own children. They are more often hurt by their parents, feeling that their parents look down on them at all.

Parents who like to praise others can only see the strengths of others, after all, the shortcomings of others will definitely not be revealed to outsiders. Although my own child is not a bad one, I always feel that my child is not as good as others, and I can see the shortcomings of my child at home every day, and there is no doubt that the advantages of others are magnified, and the shortcomings of my own children are also magnified. However, the situation is very different.

One is good and the other is bad, which leads to parents feeling that their children are useless.

Every parent has their own goals in life before they become parents, but they don't have them to accomplish them. And when they give birth to a child, they will subconsciously drive the child to progress in this direction, completely ignoring what kind of person the child is. They don't think about the child's interests and hobbies, they don't think about whether the child really likes it, they just want to force the child to become a very good person to fulfill their unfulfilled wishes.

In this way, when I see other people's children working harder and getting closer to their goals, I feel that my children are even more useless.

This is because these parents want to motivate their children in this way, so that the children will be ashamed, and they want to motivate the children to work hard, but they ignore the impact on the children.

This is because many parents can't see the advantages of their children, and can only see the shining points of other children, and can't look at their children comprehensively, so there is such a situation.

Because parents hate iron and steel, and parents are not good at all for their children, they feel that their children are sorry for their own dedication and training.

Good boys are boastful.

Parents are too strict with their children, and children will feel that they are not good enough in their hearts from an early age, and they will not be praised and recognized by their parents, so they will have low self-esteem and timidity, and they will naturally continue their parents' parenting style when they grow up to others or their own children, and they will be harsh on their children.

Children should be praised appropriately, otherwise when they grow up, they will have an inferiority complex and feel that they can't do anything, and their parents have never praised them since they were young.

No, children need criticism and correction when they grow up, and they also need encouragement and praise, they will lack self-confidence when they grow up, and they are more likely to go to extremes than ordinary people.

If a child has never been encouraged by his parents since he was a child, then this may cause him to have low self-esteem, make him lose self-confidence, and feel that he is not recognized by everyone! It's certainly not right for parents to do that!

Of course it's not right, the child thinks about the most things, he will have your rebellious mentality, which will lead to self-pity, low self-esteem, not like to talk, cowardice.

No, the most important thing is that it will cause children to have low self-esteem, no self-confidence, no way to do anything in the future, all good luck will leave you, if you understand now, you must correct yourself in time.

Parents are right to do this, because excessive praise is counterproductive, and if the child feels proud, he will have a sense of satisfaction, and he will be absent-minded about everything from now on.

One may be that parents are not good at words, and the other may be that parents are afraid of their children's pride.

Parents praise other people's children, and there is an element of hatred for their own children, and they are even more suspected of flattering others.

Modesty is beautiful, and you can't say that other people's children are bad outside! So I can only talk about my own children. Parents just say this outside, but in fact, they like their children very much in their hearts.

People generally have the psychology of being far away and smelly, and they always feel that they are all very good if they are not in front of them, and they always hope that their children will become better and work harder, motivate them to work harder and move forward in a better direction, and hope that children can learn hard and strive to keep up with others as an example.

Because I want to save face. They feel that praising their children will make people think that they are not modest, and suppressing children will make them feel that they have a high status and face at home.

Because traditional Chinese education pays attention to children's failure to fight, many people will not praise their children, that is, they are afraid that their children will grow crooked and too proud.

Most Chinese parents still maintain the idea that "humility makes people progress, and pride makes people backward". They are more strict with their children.

They feel that it is more important to remind them of their shortcomings than to praise them when they are successful.