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Because now there are more and more people in society who stand by and watch, and then suddenly if someone does a good deed, everyone will think that this person is different from themselves, and then it is too prominent, they will not agree with it in their hearts, and then they will feel like a fool.
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Because many people feel that doing good deeds will not get any benefit, so they treat many people who do good deeds but do not ask for anything in return as fools and feel that they have no brains and will only give the same as fools.
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Because there are a lot of bad people in this society, they will deceive through the weakness of human nature, and then someone sees it and thinks that it is stupid to do good deeds.
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Maybe in society, everyone pays attention to interests, and when you unconditionally help others, others will think that you are very honest and easy to bully.
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Because there are too many in today's society. It's all false. Like there are often people begging for money on the street.
Some are people who really need help, and some are doing business on it. Give the money, people say you're stupid. Don't tell others that you're too ruthless.
There is no sympathy at all.
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Because there have been incidents of helping the elderly and being blackmailed before, and there are many such good intentions that are not rewarded, everyone is reluctant to do good deeds, and people who do good deeds have also become "stupid" and "self-inflicted" under this social atmosphere.
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Because many people in society now are egoistic and money worshippers, so in their eyes, you are a fool if you do good deeds.
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It is stupid to pretend that there is no "evil" in human nature, to blindly do good with a kind of ignorance of human nature, or to indiscriminately impose on others what you think is "good for you", and to complain about people's unpredictability when you do not get the desired response.
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This is a strange phenomenon, in fact, regardless of what others think, I think being a "fool" at least proves that I am still a person with a conscience.
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In the eyes of others, this kind of person is just full of food and nothing to do and no money, and you can't get anything and what else can you do.
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Why is it that in today's advanced science and technology, people's kindness is not as good as before? : I want to tell you first what kindness is: pure heart, sincere and gentle, and not malicious.
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More than half of my life has passed, and I have encountered many things that have not been reciprocated for my kindness, sometimes I think about it, I am very sad and confused, but I have never regretted it, because I think kindness should not be greedy for returns, and kindness cares about gains and losses, and it loses the original meaning of kindness. So, even though my kindness has never been rewarded, I will continue to be kind.
I really feel that people's hearts are sinister and human nature is ugly. If such a demon exists for a long time, our world will be more indifferent, and we will be more dangerous.
Therefore, I sincerely hope that everyone can be kinder, less malicious and more understanding of those who do good deeds, and our world will become more and more loving!
Every kindness should be treated gently.
There is an old saying in China, don't take the good as small, don't take the evil as small, the ancestors have long told us that to be a man, even if it is a small good deed, we should do it, and no matter how small the bad thing, don't do it.
Some, however, seem to have forgotten all about it all.
They find all kinds of nitpicking and even make all kinds of vicious speculations about people who do good deeds, but they are very good at slandering others on the Internet and insulting the kindness of others again and again, which is really scary.
What the hell is wrong with this world? Why is there always someone who finds fault with those who do good? Why is it that there are always people who don't do anything themselves, but always point fingers at those who contribute?
Being scolded for doing good deeds, they have already gone to the scene to help and be scolded, what have those who are hiding behind the network doing?
I really hope that we will not be led by those who have ill intentions, and we should all be grateful to those who have done good deeds and good deeds, because they warm others with their kindness and actions.
Maybe they don't do it perfectly, and they can't do it to meet everyone's requirements, but as long as they are well-intentioned, they should be encouraged and praised, because every kindness deserves to be treated gently.
Whenever I see someone scolding those who do good deeds, I will have a fear in my heart, that is a fear of an indifferent world, because the more such remarks are made, it means that in the future, there will be fewer people who are willing to do good deeds, and our world will become more and more cold.
Everyone longs to be understood, and those who do good deeds are no exception, and if they do good deeds and are scolded, what a chilling thing it is for them?
I really hope that everyone will stop accusing those who do good deeds, kindness is no size, even if they only donate 10 yuan, it is a kindness, and they should be thanked. Because all great love is originally formed by the convergence of small love.
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First, the answer. First of all, I want to clarify my opinion, and the answer is no. The world is so big, there are so many beings, and everyone is a single person, and they all have different ideas. But doing good deeds and doing good deeds I personally believe is the embodiment of the morality of the Chinese nation, and it is also the soul of the Chinese nation.
Taizhou Ying Shangshu, when he was in his prime, he lived in the mountains to study, and often heard ghosts and monsters at night, but he was not afraid. One day, he heard a ghost talking: A certain woman has not returned for a long time because her husband has gone out, and his aunt thinks that her son is dead, and forces him to remarry, and tomorrow night she will come here to hang herself, and I will be replaced by someone from now on, and I can be reincarnated.
When Ying Shangshu heard this, he immediately bought the field, got four taels of silver, and forged a letter from her husband and sent it to her house. Her mother was a little skeptical when she noticed that the handwriting was different, but then she thought: Even if the letter is fake, there is no reason to give away the money for free, right?
I think the child must be safe. Therefore, he no longer forced his daughter-in-law to remarry, and soon her husband really came back for reunion. Ying Shangshu later heard the ghost say:
Originally, someone came to replace it, but it was destroyed by that showman. The other ghost said, "Then you can settle accounts with him!"
The ghost said: "No, the Emperor of Heaven has already appointed him to be the future scholar of the underworld, so how can I harm him." 」
Since then, Ying Gong has worked harder, doing good deeds every day, accumulating a lot of virtues, and when he encounters a famine, he will donate food for disaster relief. When encountering others in distress, they try their best to help. When encountering unsatisfactory things, they only accept it, and reflect on themselves without complaining.
To this day, his descendants are blessed with official blessings, and they abound.
This is a story in the mortal world, the ghosts and gods have a sense of awe for doing good deeds, let alone people. However, there are always people in life who see people who do good deeds and do good deeds lack ridicule, and think that people are stupid and honest, for this kind of thing, I think not only can not be discouraged, but also to strengthen self-cultivation and adhere to their own will, after all, people's thoughts cannot be consistent without special circumstances.
2. Reasons. When I was young, I liked Jin Yong's **, Guo Jing is a very kind-hearted and honest person in the legend of the Condor Heroes, in that talented Jianghu, Guo Jing stood out and became a generation of heroes, but Ouyang Ke, whose talent and wealth were above Guo Jing, left the scene early, the reason is that the two of them have a contrast in their minds and things, so Guo Jing, who is mediocre in appearance and mediocre in martial arts, has nobles along the way to help overcome difficulties and turn things around, and has achieved others and himself.
In the face of good years and evil thoughts, it is difficult for us to grasp our own thoughts, and it is precisely because of this that we must be kind-hearted, do good deeds, do things that are beneficial to others, and do good deeds worthy of ourselves. As stated in the Four Precepts: "If the ancestors do good deeds and accumulate virtues, then the descendants will be rewarded and blessed" We should not be afraid of people's words, correct ourselves, and do our own good deeds and good deeds, which is the best example for people other than our brothers.
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First of all, I would like to pay tribute to your selflessness. I myself advocate national virtues, such as righteousness and courage, selflessness, etc. In reality, I have also found many problems with the promotion of national virtues.
The root cause of these problems lies in the environment in which we live. 1. In an environment that advocates virtue, good people and good deeds will be recognized and celebrated. 2. Now the main thing is why kindness is not rewarded.
First, there is the issue of concept. At present, people can see less good people and good deeds, and more people have seen cheating, abduction, and a sense of distrust in society and people, and this feeling has been continuously strengthened and a concept has been formed. Second, skepticism.
So much so that when people see others doing good deeds, they think it's false and have a plan. Third, the fool mentality. When others do good deeds, they think that these people are stupid, do not think about themselves, are stupid, and even scold those who do good deeds for being neurotic.
Third, the psychology of demand. When some people know that others are doing good deeds, they try to get benefits from good people, and even resort to all kinds of deceptive methods. This kind of person does not actually praise good people and good deeds, but is extremely selfish.
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