Why is there a saying that embroidered love dies quickly, isn t it to be happy when two people fall

Updated on psychology 2024-04-07
48 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Because always showing affection can be disgusting to single people. It's good for two people to be happy and enjoy themselves, don't show it too much. It's like if you take the exam for 90 days and show off your scores in front of your classmates, and you have a lot of money and show off your luxury goods in front of everyone every day.

    It's not that you don't want couples to be happy, but you just don't want couples to always show off their happiness. When it comes to showmanship, it's too showy, and everyone generally won't say anything about ordinary shows.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You're beautiful, really, low-key love, we're happy Let's steal the fun, haha.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    What does the happiness of the two of you have to do with others???

    But then again. In fact, others are also envious, jealous and hateful. . .

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Those are single people, and they're jealous of you. Hehe, don't care, just take it for a joke.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's a simple question, just two words: jealousy.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Don't you know that there are jealous people?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    1. Loving lovers who like to show affection is often more vain, which can easily lead to conflicts between spouses.

    2. People who like to show affection are often frivolous and more rash in dealing with emotional problems.

    Life (life) is for oneself, not for others to see.

    Seriously fall in love, live with Meimei, and raise offspring happily.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Because you are used to showing, your friends think you are very affectionate. If you don't show it one day, the rumors will come. So die fast.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There are two kinds of show affection, one is to show the intimacy of two people together, and the other is to show that one person has been given by another person (most of them are girls who show the favor she gets from boys).

    Let's talk about the first type first, showing the intimacy of two people together, which will turn the originally private relationship into a public relationship. That is to say, the private relationship between two people is amplified by the pole of the social network platform, so that the parties and the public will have higher expectations for the perfect value of their relationship, however, there is no couple who does not quarrel and do not have conflicts, when the contradiction occurs, the parties will feel that the relationship at the moment is farther than the amplified perfect value expectation, that is, the contradiction will also be magnified because of the psychological pole, and it is easier to break up unhappily.

    The second one, showing that he was favored by another partner, in fact, this is just a desire to satisfy a sense of superiority. However, this sense of superiority is based on the inequality of the efforts of both parties. For example, if the woman pays less to the man, and the man pays more to the woman, the woman will have a sense of superiority.

    But this kind of unequal effort will definitely go wrong. Because when feelings rise to a family responsibility, asymmetry is a contradiction. On the contrary, if two people give each other equally, they will not have a sense of superiority of favoritism and favor, and they will not stimulate the desire to show.

    But this kind of reciprocal giving is precisely the way to maintain the relationship for the longest time.

    Therefore, there is a certain truth in showing affection and dying quickly, or more precisely, showing affection is more likely to have problems than not showing affection.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    In order for your girlfriend to prove that you love her very much, you must let you show affection in the circle of friends.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Because if you don't show it one day, you don't feel in love, so this statement is probably the so-called no zuo no die.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Generally, people who like shows break up quickly.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    People see too much, and then your woman runs away with people.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Show affection for others, what's the matter! It doesn't make sense.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    There are many rivals in love, of course, there are many rights and wrongs.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Who's to say it, it's just some exceptions.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Because those who have no love see jealousy.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    The third time, Shi Dalang went to Huayin County at night, and Lu Ti took charge of the town of Guanxi.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Because showing affection in the circle of friends or in the space and other places, it will be known by relatives and friends around you, which will affect the relationship between two people.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    1. Loving people who like to show affection are often more vain, and tolerance can easily lead to conflicts between spouses.

    2. Like to show grace dao lover is often more frivolous than back, and it is more rash to deal with feelings and answer questions.

    Life (life) is for oneself, not for others to see.

    Seriously fall in love, live with Meimei, and raise offspring happily.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    In true love, the two enjoy the process very much, share each other's fun, and live a happy two-person world, most of them do not show affection, and they don't want to be disturbed by others.

    Generally show affection, I can't wait for the whole world to know how good he is to herself, such an idea has comparison, showing off, and the psychology of conquering possession, and it is not really love each other, since it is not true love, there is always a time when you are tired, and it is divided.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Landlord: My friend is a psychiatrist!

    First of all, real love doesn't need to show! is very low-key, for example, some time ago, there was an old couple who loved each other for a lifetime and died together! Nobody knows! Did you show it?

    On the contrary, people who don't have love can only rely on shows, desperately trying to prove to others that they have love! For example, Yi Nengjing Qin Hao! Because without love as a foundation, it is possible to break up at any time! After the breakup, compared with the previous high-profile show, it is naturally a kind of irony! Here it is.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    In fact, show affection is not a very confident performance, only if you want to be stronger than others will embroider it for others to see, if you want to be stronger than others, it proves that you are not satisfied with yourself in your heart, and the same is true for show affection, in fact, the subconscious will show others if you are not confident in yourself or your feelings.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I think there are several reasons for this.

    One, the person who shows affection may be investigated or jealous by friends or girlfriends. Or the so-called test they propose. Wait a minute.

    Second, showing affection is generally love at first sight. Fast development. After the problem arises, they can't accept each other's attitude or way.

    Third, people who show affection are generally not too mature in terms of feelings. Acting in front of others is actually a manifestation of psychological vanity. I want others to envy me. Therefore, such immature people will also collapse emotionally because of a little thing.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Love is not shown, but embodied in the bits and pieces of life. When the show has distortion and performance, sincerity can move people the most, and without sincerity, it is not far from parting ways. This is the logic of being in love.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    True love does not need words, actions can always be reflected; Affection does not need to be confessed, time will always witness. The distance between hearts and hearts is not far, as long as communication; It is not difficult to wait for love and affection, as long as you are tolerant! Fate can only be possessed by heart; Feelings must be sincere in order to be eternal!

    True love is speechless, it's all in words!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    True love is not something to show off.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Hello, the root of this kind of reason lies in the human heart, when you understand the human heart, these are understood, most people are selfish, self-interested, jealous, dissatisfied, love comparison, love vanity, love gorgeous, love praise, even if they know it is false. People have these natures, and naturally there will be a variety of different results. When people are in love, they are all in order to chase someone, let themselves behave better and more perfectly, in order to attract each other, let the other party pay attention to you, etc., when there is a relationship (everyone knows) it changes, becomes unsatisfied, feels that the other party is not as good as others here, there is not as good as others, and there is no heart to recall when pursuing each other at that time.

    People's hearts are very complicated, women are even more so, show affection, show affection, or not, people will be in the long river of time, forget the beginning, the pursuit of better, but when he (she) found in the future, than the first one, when the age is not young, he (she) will regret it, but there is no way, you and I at that time, will acquiesce: hey... I want to be at the beginning...

    For the sake of life, I endured. WILL LIVE ... Only by learning to be tolerant, considerate, understanding, satisfied, and cherished, can we last forever.

    Here, I wish you all your true happiness and love. I wish you all a long and long marriage.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    But we guys don't know what can trigger a girl's feelings, and we don't know what to say or do to make a girl feel good about herself and call her. That's the main reason why we guys usually go out to dinner, take a car, or see a beautiful woman on the road, but don't go up to meet her.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Some people believe that so-eun bai love is du because of insecurity about love. So that's it.

    And again, if others don't answer the show, we don't know if they're good or bad. That's not a show, even if we're not together, we don't know. We only know what we see.

    I also show affection, but my purpose is just to express personal feelings, I have been married for seven years, and I am still in love.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Seeing others show affection for this kind of person, their jealousy.

    Let you scream, score sooner or later!!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Because the more superior people are, the more they will ignore the people and things around them.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    In a word, too beautiful promises because too young.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    If there is an offence, it is a depravity. The loss of morality is the loss of Fu Lu Shou.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    It can also be said that it reflects a state of mind, wanting to show off, not being willing to be bland, and once it is bland, it may be separated.

    I used to love show, but I didn't show off and was uncomfortable, but I couldn't grasp a lot of things, and now I don't like show, and I live a plain life, but I can really talk about it for a few years, and it's love to be bland.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Not necessarily, but they are not calm enough.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    There is no such thing as this.

    It's just that their feelings are too fragile to stand the test!

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    There are too many shows, what should I do when there are no shows?

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    I feel that lovers who express their love every day, one or two of them are not confident in their feelings; Or they subconsciously look forward to the end of the breakup, but they can only tell themselves that everything will be okay by expressing their love and affection, and we are fine. In this case, the result is almost possible.

    Caring too much about what others think of the relationship

    If it's to show affection for the sake of pleasing yourself, I don't think it's anything. And if it's for someone else's sake to show affection, it may not be the relationship itself that you care about, so show affection quickly!

    Vanity is strong

    They want to show affection to let their friends know how much they love their husband or wife, and then their friends will envy and praise them, which will satisfy their vanity, but in fact they are not affectionate, and the relationship is not so good, so it is normal to break up after a long time.

    Need to show but don't love each other enough

    It's like really rich people don't go all over the world to show how rich I am, I'm a moat! On the contrary, people who don't have much money can't wait to show that they have a little money, and hey, I'm so rich! So is affection!

    They didn't love each other so much, so they had to show it and give themselves the illusion that they loved each other very much!

    Insecurity

    Because I don't have a sense of security about this relationship in my heart, I need to affirm the relationship between myself and my other half through the way of show, relying on the reactions and replies of others' envy, jealousy and hatred, and at the same time strengthening psychological hints to myself: There is no problem with the relationship between the two of us. But in fact, the seeds of the breakup have been quietly planted, because one or both parties are not confident in their feelings; Or they have subconsciously anticipated the end of the breakup, but they can only tell themselves by showing affection, everything is okay, see us are fine.

    I'm tired of showing

    Because I feel that I have shown off all the affection with this person, there is really nothing to show off, so I want to show off with another person.

    So the old saying is not unreasonable, but some affection still has to be shown. The above is a personal opinion.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    In fact, whether you are divided or not has little to do with whether you show off or not.

    The reason why there is such a saying is often because people who show affection show their emotional experiences to others, everyone knows about it, and everyone will pay attention to it, so when it is divided, everyone will also pay attention. So as to create the illusion of "show affection and die quickly"! In fact, there are many people who don't have a show, but you don't know.

    Personally, I think that when the relationship between men and women reaches a certain stage, it should be known to the circle of friends, but don't show it at the beginning, but just the right time to show it, such a show, many emotions are relatively stable.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Why do you say, "Show affection, share quickly?" "Listen to what people have to say.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    It is said that Xiu En'ai dies quickly, usually based on the truth that things must be reversed, that is, after a certain stage of development, things will inevitably go downhill, and if you have been touting how to go up and up, then it is bound to go down.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Because if you show affection, you will be discovered, and if your girlfriend is found to be good-looking, she will be pried away.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Show affection dies quickly, is a single dog in love with a kind of jealousy of the person in love, heartfelt wish them to break up quickly, in fact, show affection is a kind of self-confidence, feel to share their good life with others, and hope to tell others that they are doing well, hope to get the blessing of others.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Show affection, die fast, what is the difference between a dead ball and separation.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    There are too many real cases, the face-showing project, the vanity of wanting, it is difficult to ensure perfection under the magnifying glass.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Because they show affection on the front foot, they quarrel on the back foot.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Because this kind of love lives in everyone's eyes.

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