What should I do if my boyfriend is poor and my family can t accept it?

Updated on society 2024-04-11
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's because you're not firm enough! My boyfriend and I are in the same situation, but we have worked together and now we have bought a house, as long as he is really a good person, genuinely good to you, and self-motivated, the family will accept it. Your parents are afraid that you will suffer, but when they see that you are happy, they will definitely accept it.

    I'm afraid that you are not firm in yourself.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's your fault that you didn't work at home, how can you blame your boyfriend? You 8 can't even wash clothes, right?

    OK, you're not doing a good job, are you? Housework also won't? Your conditions are not very good, why are your conditions so high?

    If he works hard, isn't that enough? Let's work together.

    8 It's that the family can't accept it, and that's an excuse for you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You can buy it!

    I look down on you! Are you going to marry a husband or a house!

    You can train him slowly! Besides, it's not that he's not motivated, and it's not that he doesn't work hard! How long do you want to push?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The matter of two people, others can't control your situation!! I see that you value that point more, but what worries you are about life?? It's all about the struggle in the future, depending on your boyfriend's aggressiveness! The current situation can only be temporary! It's important later.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Is he self-motivated?

    Is he trying to do what he can?

    Is his attitude towards life optimistic?

    Is he physically fit and kind-hearted?

    Is he good to you, single-minded?

    Do you love him? If the answer above is yes.

    Come with him.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you are self-motivated, there is nothing to be afraid of, because there is potential.

    You're just married to a big sum. Maybe he's suddenly poor overnight.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    What matters is your heart and how he should have a number of you in you. Besides, he is still young, and there will be opportunities to make money in the future.

    It depends on whether he has a plan for your future, whether he has a sense of responsibility, and whether he is the kind of person who will work hard for the family.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You say that he works hard and is a filial son, this is not enough, his family is poor, and it is not his fault, as long as he does not degenerate, work hard to make money, and worry about not having a house, the family has an opinion on her boyfriend is temporary, and when life is good in the future, there is no opinion, by the way, for the life of the two of you in the future, you also have to work hard, and don't put too much pressure on him.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Does the important thing is that the man gives you hope for the future? ~?If not, then divide it

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Such love is not perfect ...

    Parents want to find a good family.

    I don't want you to suffer later.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    There are a lot of people who don't have a house, so it's hard to find someone with a house to live with?

    You can decide your own feelings, and you can also take out a loan to buy a house in the future.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    This kind of problem can only be asked to yourself, others can't help you solve it, if you really love him, you will be willing to share everything with him, and you won't care so much that he is really poor.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Self-motivated. Are you trying to do what you can?

    Is life optimistic attitude?

    Is it healthy and of good heart?

    Is it good for you to be single-minded?

    Do you love him? If yes: then stay with him.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It is better to believe that there are ghosts in the world. Don't believe what the man says. Having a house and money may not be romantic. But there will be no regrets after many years.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    How many are self-made in their early twenties? Consult yourself.

    Many couples can't get past reality. I'm no exception.

    I hope you can walk through.

    Bless you to happiness.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The family can't accept that it's inevitable Who doesn't want their children to live a richer life Now the initiative is in your hands It mainly depends on what you pay more attention to What you want Now how many families can come up with a house Now the house is worth more than life Let's work hard with him.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's the one who despises this kind of woman the most.,You two don't know if one of the family paid some money to pay the down payment.。。

    Litter. I only know that it depends on men.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Then suffer with him.

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