Analyze the love of Bao Dai in Dream of Red Mansions .

Daiyu and Baoyu have no guesses, childhood sweethearts, and their feelings are not comparable to ordinary sisters and brothers! Plus like-mindedness, but also sympathy! But the ancient feudal hierarchical thinking not only buried the love between the two of them, but also made Daiyu depressed.

The feudal shackles are too heavy, and no matter how the two struggle, they will eventually give in!

Baoyu's feelings for Daiyu are not so much love as sympathy. As for what to say about childhood sweethearts, sympathy, anti-feudal thoughts, etc., that is pure nonsense. If you want to say that childhood sweethearts, it is also Shi Xiangyun, Baoyu and Shi Xiangyun grew up together by Jia's mother, and Daiyu was later.

Daiyu is naturally withdrawn and has no one to accompany her, Baoyu is interested in ordinary girls, and of course she is even more attentive to Daiyu. The relationship between the two of them can only be said to be good friends, not to the level of love, you think how old they were at that time, at most I feel some male and female affection.

One era, one love!

1. Human causes.

The so-called man-made reasons refer to the obstruction or conspiracy of others, which eventually led to the occurrence of Bao Dai's love tragedy. Some believe that in the end, it was not the feudal political tyrant who suffocated everything - Jia Zheng, but this Jia Mu who once prayed for happiness for Jia Baoyu and was so 'verbal and unforgettable' to Lin Daiyu.

Some people think that it is Wang Xifeng, for example, in the last forty episodes written by Gao E, it was Wang Xifeng's plan to drop the bag that led to the tragedy of Bao Dai's love. Some people think that it is Jia Yuanchun, and it is she who broke up Bao Dai's marriage. There are also those who think it is Aunt Zhao.

2. Self-reasons.

The so-called self-cause means that the love tragedy should be the responsibility of Bao Dai and the others. Commentators believe that there is an ideological class imprint on Bao Dai and his wife, which forms their fatal weakness.

Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu can't defend their love strongly in the face of powerful feudal forces. This is even more obvious in Lin Daiyu. Lin Daiyu is weak under the feudal forces, and Jia Baoyu is also like this, and she also consciously or unconsciously follows the feudal family etiquette, so Baoyu's inability to completely break with the feudal concept is also one of the reasons.

3. Class and family reasons.

The so-called class and family reasons mean that the tragedy of Bao Dai's love is ultimately caused by the criminal feudal class and the strict family environment. Some red scientists said that the tragedy of Bao Dai's love was not caused by any one person, but "the sacred power of the family, that is, the political force, and the tragedy of Bao Dai's love, in the final analysis, is still a political issue."

4. Ethical and secular reasons.

The so-called ethical and secular reasons refer to the fact that in addition to political factors, there are also some secular ideas that lead to the tragedy of Bao Dai's love. For example, the four major families are related to each other, and marriage has become their capital for prosperity. He pointed out that in secular marriage, there is no one who does not value money, Lin Daiyu is already alone at this time, and Xue Baochai has a lot of furniture, so the parents of Jiafu finally chose Xue Baochai.