Is it no longer meaningful to marry without meeting someone you like 10

No, you will definitely meet people who have feelings, and sometimes you have to look everywhere, and you will feel it after a long time, but people who don't feel it can never get married, this is a lifelong thing, a mistake for life.

Theoretically, yes, but if the economic conditions allow, it is still advisable to start a family, after all, feelings can be cultivated.

It's only a matter of time before you forget a person, and if there's nothing to be nostalgic about, don't look back, you still have to look forward... As time passes, there will be new people and things that will make you forget all the pain you have suffered. In fact, there are some reasons for you, you don't know how to communicate, and he doesn't know how to communicate.

In the past, I always wanted to marry someone I loved, as long as I loved him for anything, I didn't care about anything else.

Later I wanted to marry someone who loved me, even if I didn't love him very much.

Later, I wanted to marry someone who was rich, even if we didn't love each other very much, as long as it was suitable.

How to say it, it depends on how you think about getting married, and whether you are willing to compromise or not.

I will, because in many marriages, a lot is subservient to reality!

Falling in love pursues spiritual principles and pursues physical and mental pleasure. Marriage is the unity of the principle of pleasure, the principle of spirituality, and the principle of reality.

I have heard a saying: With the person you like, nothing goes well. With people you don't like, except for not being tempted, everything else is smooth.

In most cases, suitability is more important than liking, job is more important than hobbies, knowing that marriage is never a matter of two people. What you don't like is the reality.

When you quarrel with your mother in order to be with someone you particularly like, but not suitable for marriage, you say hurtful words and hurt your mother's heart sentence by sentence, obviously your wish when you were a child was not to make your mother sad. In the end, it turned out that what my mother said was right, what is the use of liking, and the other party clearly knows that liking and fitting are two different things.

Suitability is not the person you like, nor the person who likes you, it's just that you should talk about getting along early.

When you have experienced many relationships and have rich emotional experiences, you will find that in fact, getting married is to find a suitable person to live with.

Marrying to life can cultivate love, and marrying love will die in life.

It's like if you go east and west, it's a choice, and then there will be different experiences. In my experience of marriage people to choose yes, the reason is that you love now, it does not mean that you will love when you are old, you don't love now, to live with the right person for yourself, and in the end it is not love but also used to life, like relatives. The most important thing is whether the person you choose is "suitable", which is the core.

There is no standard for this, only you can experience it yourself.

If you are suitable, you will not hate it, and if you don't hate it, it may become like, after all, people will change. It's too difficult to talk about finding someone you like and are suitable to be with, and I didn't give up on finding someone I liked, but in the end, I would be forced to marry the right person due to the situation. I once said proudly, I can't find someone I like, I'd rather not get married, the older I get, the more I feel that I am superficial, whether I like it or it is suitable, it is a great fate to be together and get married, and I must cherish it!

No one you like will get married, now as long as there is someone who is willing to marry you.

If you don't like someone, will you get married?,I personally think it's like Sakura Han wants to be with you.,I think if Song Cha doesn't have a favorite person.,I don't think I'll marry him.,Thank you.。

I will choose to marry someone I don't like, and marrying someone I don't like has the following characteristics.

First, the division of labor is clear, and there are not many contradictions.

It is precisely because there is no affection between two people, so women will have no expectations for their husbands, in fact, many conflicts in marriage come from the wife's expectations and requirements for her husband, and women will have a lot of strange requirements if they blindly ask to be loved.

So when marrying someone you don't like For the wife, the husband is more of a partner, and he will not expect anything from the husband, so that the marital conflicts between the two people will be greatly reduced, and many times both parties will be grateful to the partners for occasionally helping each other.

Second, the self-satisfaction of emotional value.

Women are often thinking about whether they love themselves or not, and they feel happy when they feel loved, and they feel sad when they close their hearts.

In fact, emotional value is the most useless thing, the sun will not rise because you are depressed, and the night will not come a little later because you are happy today.

So what's the difference between being happy and unhappy?

Perhaps the most important thing is to achieve a marriage relationship where 1 plus 1 is greater than 2, when you pin your happiness on yourself, you will get it.

For example, for the wife, the husband's flowers on Valentine's Day are nothing to look forward to, she thinks that the flowers she bought cost 100 yuan, and the husband bought them is also worth 100 yuan, so there is no difference between what she buys and what her husband buys, and at this time her happiness can be self-satisfied, and she will become a stronger person.

Third, men are more likely to succeed.

A man's character should be neither humble nor arrogant. I'm good to you, you're good to me, and I treat it like a treasure. I'm good to you, you're not good to me, I'm abandoning it and looking for the next one.

There will always be women who will appreciate you. Then, you get married, have children, work hard, and make the family better.

You were born to your parents, and you have been poor for decades, but you can't be soft-boned. Soft bones never end well.

When you marry someone you don't like, you don't need to meet his bizarre demands, you can concentrate more on your work, you don't need to have all kinds of messy holidays, you don't have to face your wife's changing emotions.

Love is short-lived, hormone secretion is also temporary, it is human nature to like the new and hate the old, so choosing to marry a person you don't like, and choosing a more suitable person to marry can reflect the value of marriage greatly.

So I will choose to marry someone I don't like, the best result is that the person you like is also the right person for you, if not, maybe choose a suitable marriage partner is happier.

In our ancient times, the practice was that the gate did not go out, and the second door did not step out. That is to say, when many young people get married, they rely on the life chosen by their parents, and after the parents determine the good people, the rest will be borne by themselves, it doesn't matter at that time, do you like it or not? Because their marriage is just to make a kind of inheritance for the family, and it can be passed on to the next generation, and they don't need to do anything else?

Their feelings have never germinated, and it doesn't even matter if they like it or not, the purpose is to inherit the family.

Of course, now it refers to the sail generation that people are more open-minded and go after the people they like very much to live their lives. In fact, two people who are in love before marriage do not understand what kind of situation marriage is, marriage and love are completely different things, love can be attracted by each other, or you can be confused by each other, and even pour everything, but after entering the marriage hall, what affects you is firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, tea, pots and pans jingling. That's not the feeling of love, the rest is a piece of chicken feathers in the lives of two people.

At that time, even if you like people again, getting along with each other are full of edges and corners, arguing with each other, and in the process of this quarrel, they are constantly running in their own stools to make themselves less prickly.

So even if you marry someone you don't like, it's the same situation, and two people live together, after having children, everything is child-centered, and gradually their own things become more diluted, and the children of two people become stronger and stronger, and eventually become the core goal of two people, common development, so even if two people don't like each other, but as long as they don't hate each other, they can be combined into a family, and it is a happy family. Because marriage is not the same as love, you can see love as very noble, but don't think that marriage is so beautiful.

In the end, marriage just finds a lifelong partner for yourself, this person can accompany you for the rest of your life, it doesn't need to be particularly good, even if it's a glass of boiled water, as long as you have him for the rest of your life.

If you meet someone you like very much, I believe that many people will hope that they can be with each other, after all, the other party is the person they like, and being able to be with the person they like is a very happy and happy thing for many people.

But I don't see that not everyone likes each other, and the other person will definitely like him. There are also times when we meet someone who we like very much, but who may not like us. There are even some people around us, although we don't like him, but we know that he is actually very suitable for us, so some people want to know if you will choose a person you don't like, but is very suitable for marriage?

Probably for a small number of people, they don't. Because for them, of course, they hope that they can find someone they like very much, because for them, they think that being able to find someone they like and be with the person they like is the right choice.

But we also see that there are many people, in fact, although they have met someone they like, the other party may not like him. After a few times like this, they slowly found that instead of finding a person they liked, but not getting each other's like, it was better to waste time to find a suitable person for themselves, because if we can find a suitable person, in fact, this can also allow two people to be together and get along well. It is precisely under the good relationship between the two people, which can allow us to be better with each other, and will also allow the two people with a bad reputation to have a happier and better life.

So we see that more and more people now, if they can't find a person they like, then they will also find a suitable person, because the right person will care and love more attentively, we believe that it is under his care that the two of us, more suitable, and eventually let me have a happier and better life.

If the other party is not the person you like, don't get married, lest everyone regret it in the future!

Being able to be with someone you like is a very happy and happy thing for many people. Limb brother.

I have no feeling of hunger and annihilation, and it is impossible for people with no expectations to get close and start a family.

Although many people are more realistic in marriage and relationship, thinking that they can't find someone they like, then they often choose to find a suitable person to marry, but for me, I will not do this.

First of all, if I choose a person I don't like, but I feel that I am suitable for myself to marry, then I will have a sense of guilt in my heart, because I have not really loved each other, but I choose to marry with each other, this practice is very irresponsible to the other party, it is difficult to really bring each other happiness and joy if I don't love each other, this will affect the other party's life, maybe many people think that feelings can be cultivated slowly, but if you live with a person you don't like for a long time, If the relationship is not cultivated as originally envisaged, then it will only waste the precious youth and energy between each other, which is a harm to both parties.

And from another point of view, choosing a person I don't like, but the right person to marry will make my life a sense of frustration, after all, whether a person is happy or not, the key is whether he is successful in his career, whether he can meet a person who really loves each other, if you find a person you don't like, then your emotional life is always imperfect, you can't get happiness and joy in this marriage, and you will have an irreparable regret in your life. Therefore, for a life event such as marriage, we should try our best to find a person we really like, and the other party also likes us to marry, so that we can make each other feel real joy and happiness in the future marriage.