I dwell in my heart whether it s him or him

I seem to feel the same way as you, probably about the same, my point of view is, since you and J are good friends, why not let this friendship continue to pass on, he also said that you have no fate, that is, you have no future, if you insist on breaking that beauty, you lose not just a person, but you do precious things, there is eternal friendship in this world but no eternal love, so I think you will be more suitable to be friends.

You and your current boyfriend, he loves you, if you really love him, even if the world is against it, you can't extinguish your love, your parents are against it, you should do your job as a parent, no parent doesn't want their daughter to be happy, in fact, the key is still you, you are not supported by many people, can you still insist on your love, if you start to waver, there is no need to think about coming together with J, if you really cherish him, choose to be friends.

Ay... What do you say? Let's put it this way.

I'm sure she feels dependent on one of the two of you.

You are very dependent on the care that one of you cares about you.

In other words, she is used to enjoying J's care, and I'll teach you a simpler way.

You imagine a beautiful scene.

Close your eyes and enjoy.

Suddenly ask yourself who you like.

That's the one you blurt out.

Even if you don't say it, I think you should understand it in your heart.

You just have to be calm.

I think falling in love is impulsive.

Marriage is a responsibility.

You have to take care of a lot.

I wish you happiness.

According to the passage you said.

I don't think J and your boyfriend are suitable for you.

j and your feelings once they cross the appropriate distance.

will spoil. Besides, he said that he has nothing to do with you.

It proves that he doesn't want to ruin the relationship with you now.

And your boyfriend.

Although you said that you had a relationship with him for 4 years.

But because of your family's opposition.

And your wavering to him now.

I don't think you really love him.

It's better to let go a little.

Let's find your own happiness again.

This is just my personal opinion.

I hope you can be happy. Hee-hee.

Let's go with the former! From your description, I only see the former.

Ask someone this question and you'll never get an answer. Ask yourself. Who do you really like?

Alas, when I read your statement, I feel that his heart is very complicated now, and what is certain is that he does have you in his heart, but is it not the kind of before? Is there any love in his heart? I'm not sure.

Well, there are a lot of girls like you now! Now I feel that if I look back, is it still too late? He has you in his heart, I am sure that he has you, and you have also realized that you do make him very tired, if it were me, I would not pay attention to you, not that I don't want to pay attention to you, I am afraid that you are the same as before, because there is a saying that the country is easy to change and difficult to change, this is human nature, and it is indeed difficult to change a person, because he has given you n chances, and you yourself know it.

I don't think the question you're asking is whether he has you in his heart? The question you ask should be that you are back together, is it possible or not?

Now you have to give the other party a certain amount of time, let him calm down, instead of always wanting to see her, keep bothering him, if you bother him like this, your chances of getting back together are very few, very few, very little, just like you are being chased by boys, you don't want to be bothered by others all the time, everyone needs a space to calm down, think about their future, think about their previous If he really has you in his heart, has a previous love for you, and still keeps it in his heart, he will give you time, He's sure he needs you to give him time now!

Sometimes we need to stand in each other's perspective and think about each other when we do things, after all, he is the one who pays, you girls don't know how much the other party pays, how soft is it? How many things have been done to have a result, so the general pay is, not cherished by girls, often the easiest things to get will not be cherished, this is the common law in the world, just like the big talk of Journey to the West, you can only regret it when you lose it, in fact, you can sit down and talk about it, and after he calms down, if the other party really does not have you in his heart, it is recommended that you do not disturb each other! Because when I see people who love each other turn into opposites, it's really not a taste in my heart.

Shakespeare said a philosophical sentence that if you don't trust yourself, what truth will you trust. With this in mind, we need to look at this issue more carefully: we all know that as long as it makes sense, then it must be carefully considered.

Talleylan once said a philosophical saying, don't say anything wrong with you, your friends will never get enough of it. This sentence brings us to a new dimension to think about this problem: in the face of this inevitable conflict, we must solve this problem.

He still has you in his heart, what will happen if it happens, and what will happen if it doesn't. In general, it seems that in the face of such an inevitable conflict, we must resolve this issue. I have also thought about this issue carefully and have been thinking about it day and night.

He still has you in his heart, what will happen if it happens, and what will happen if it doesn't. We generally think that if we get to the crux of the problem, everything else will be solved. Under this difficult choice, I thought about it and couldn't sleep well.

In this way, in general, in this way, it seems to be a coincidence that today we are going to solve the problem that he still has you in his heart, and he still has you in his heart, but if we look at the problem from a larger perspective, it seems to be an inevitable fact. He still has you in his heart, how to do it, and how will it happen if he doesn't have you in his heart. For me personally, having you in his heart is not just a major event, it may change my life.

Chesterfield once mentioned that treating people with courtesy is treating people the way you would like them to treat you. This makes me think deeply. Anonymous once said that genuinely showing some interest in others is the most important character of a salesman.

It's a short sentence, but it makes me think about it. We must unify our thinking, unify our steps, and work hard to fundamentally solve the problem that he still has you in his heart. So.

This fact means a lot to me, and I believe it has some meaning to the world. Generally speaking, we all have to think carefully. In this way, we generally believe that if we get to the crux of the problem, everything else will be solved.

I hope that everyone will have a discussion in the spirit of knowing everything, saying everything, saying that those who say are not guilty, and those who hear are full of caution. Why did he still have you in his heart? For me personally, having you in his heart is not just a major event, it may change my life.

Now, it's very, very important to solve the problem that he still has in his heart. Therefore, this fact is of great significance to me, and I believe that it also has a certain significance to the world.

He didn't let go of you at all in his heart.,Maybe you're too much.,Let him really can't accept it.,Then you can talk to him about it.,For him.,You can change your character.,It's okay for a girl to be a little small.,If it's old.,Boys will really be tired.,Will be disgusted.。

He still has you in his heart, but you hurt his heart, if you still want to redeem it, you can only change yourself, don't be pampered and arrogant, be more considerate and caring for him, communicate with him more spiritually, and slowly he will soften, and the girl is still gentle and cute.

Maybe he has you psychologically, but it may have been, and now he may just be teasing you, and he is also testing how much patience you have, how long will you play with him like this, maybe he is just forgetting you on the way, looking for a new love, maybe you don't need to be too entangled with him, since you have broken up, let go of each other, and it will be sunny for each other to be well.

Personally, I feel that he should have new emotions, and he has you in his heart, because you have interacted, and people with a heart will not forget it at once, so simply fade out of his life, if you really want fate, you will definitely meet again, at the moment, don't bother too much, you can greet until you feel that it is not worth it.

All I can say is that both of you are not very mature, and your behavior is an immature behavior. I think there should be such behavior as you, but I think you guys are playing a game. Take love as a game, block for a while, and then join in, I think you just have nothing to do.

He doesn't have you in his heart, I think this boy is particularly unorthodox and the girl is the same. So we can't understand your love game. Is there you in my heart?

I think you can experience it for yourself, I think you two are still uncertain and immature. When you grow up and mature, you won't behave like this, and you will be ridiculous for your behavior.

You can do something like saying you're sick and see how he reacts, or something else, see how he reacts, so you can know if he's still got you

You just do it, when do you really block people when you annoy them? So now you'd better not bother him yet, both of you are calm and calm, if you really can't live without him, communicate with him well, admit your mistakes and get rid of bad habits, so that you can be perfect. Do you think so?

You're so self-righteous, so what's the point of asking? Does it still matter if you have it or not, it's hard to round the broken mirror, it's broken if it's broken, and there's no chance.

If you want to know if he has you in his heart, you can see it from the details, etc.

If you don't know how to restrain yourself, you may lose him forever.

He should not have you in his heart.

You yourself, if I play like this, it's not bad.

I think it's up to you whether you need to fight for it, whether you love him or not, whether you can leave him. , but judging by the warm smile you miss him, I think that you have fallen in love with him, or that you have become accustomed to his presence.

Then I'll analyze his state.

I think maybe from the beginning, he didn't pay attention to you, maybe in his opinion, 30-year-old him, you, a 23-year-old girl, a lot of things are insignificant, he doesn't mind those things about you, he may be more, just think, he should do his own thing, he thinks, as long as he does his own thing, it's more important, that's enough.

So, he has been sharing everything about him with you, but he has neglected you.

I think that if you want to fight for him, then you should change his attitude, because if you are not valued, it is difficult to make any substantial progress with him, more he is just used to your existence, and can not value your existence, just like he hung up on your **, just because, he needs you to accompany him, and you refuse, then he thinks that you are useless in the near future, so he hangs up**.

Maybe you're sad when I say that, but it's probably closer to the truth.

So, you should go and let him start caring about your life and caring for you.

You can take the initiative to share everything you have with him, you should take the initiative and tactfully let him understand your attitude.

Finally, if it really doesn't work, I suggest you let it go, you're only 23 years old, maybe what he wants, what he's used to giving you, you can't take it.

From what you wrote, let me, a passerby, see through a little. It doesn't matter if he is good to you or not, you are sincere to him, there is no age distance in your heart, very poetic, you have nothing to fight for, nothing to do, he is 30 years old, he has a successful career, he should have seen everything, you are useless to be good to him, so, you have to understand what kind of person he likes, you just do it, men like women who are not demanding, they prefer women who can give him freedom, and the people he will love are people who can keep their distance from him, so don't give anything too easily, my hands are tired. I hope he can cherish a genuine person who will ask questions at 12 o'clock.

The manifestations of love are different. First, he is possessive of you. Dominating you is to embody his machismo.

And then there's the element of always asking you to show off a little bit with him: but do you want his friends to know you? Always telling you about business is actually to get to know him.

And a little vanity. It's nothing to relax.

He's a macho man, of course he has you in his heart, and he loves you, otherwise he wouldn't go to parties, drink, sing, of course, and fight for it. You think too much about the rest.

I agree with the statement of the 3rd floor, especially since I think this section is very good from the beginning to the end.

To sum up, at the age of 30, he really needs a woman behind him, so that he is very comfortable, not lonely, and can share with you a lot of his own successes and experiences, but these are not the most important things to you.

What you value most is whether such a man is worth following.

If he doesn't understand right now, he should care about you, understand you, know your life, and you should take the initiative to talk to him about your things and your experiences.

Let him know that you care about you and tell him what you mean.