Seek help! Is the boyfriend making excuses?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-07
40 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    In fact, it's okay for a boy like him to be divided. You think, he can't even tolerate your mother. If he loves you, do you think it will be like this?

    Love house and house may be a little inappropriate here, but the meaning of the expression is different. He doesn't want to accept or change anything for you. Well, if you're with him, I'm sure you'll have a quarrel over all sorts of little things.

    You're still in a relationship, and you're not sure to be together yet. And he made these requests. Do you think he will be good to you in the future?

    It's often all about the authorities. Maybe you don't think he's doing it right, but you don't want to think about it. To believe, in fact, sometimes it is not a bad thing to listen to the advice of people next to you, because after all, you have to think clearly about the future happiness of you.

    A person who doesn't even plan to have children, do you think he is loving. And it's also about money.

    Think about it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Think about it before you marry him, marriage is a lifelong thing At first glance, he was indeed making excuses, and he was a little petty

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's not a contract, it's a breakup, and it's fairly straightforward, not an excuse.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If that's true, I think you both need to talk about it and revisit your future marriage. Personally, I think your boyfriend does have a problem, so you can open your heart and talk about it seriously, if you can solve these conflicts, of course, it is best, but if you can't solve it, you may have to make a choice.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Support for a breakup. Children can do without.

    Mom can't be gone.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I don't really understand this kind of thing, but I can give you a little advice: this kind of thing is not a matter of one or two days, I think you should first communicate what you want in your heart, see if there is a solution, and discuss what he does, this is not necessary, you can't give up both, you can do whatever you want, because no one can help you with such a thing.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    So what are you waiting for, this kind of man, is he still a man? Break up with him immediately.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    My advice is to talk to him solemnly first, see if he's talking angry, find out what he thinks, and then ask him what he means! You have to communicate well, because it's a matter of happiness for a lifetime.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Dump him, he is sick, don't want this kind of person.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You also put forward conditions with him, never see his mother, don't want children, if he doesn't agree, he will break up, and this kind of man, the landlord has thought it through.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Some of the questions have to be considered by yourself.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You still want this man, kick him. I want to marry him, and I think I'm going to faint.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Such a person really has a problem with IQ, you better break up with him earlier! Such a person is not worthy of your nostalgia.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Forget about the child's business, after all, he hasn't experienced the joy of being a parent, and it's normal to have this kind of thought. But it's too much to not accept your mother, the most basic thing for a person is filial piety, he marries you, your mother is equal to his mother, even the mother can't accept the person, how can you expect him to be good to you?

    Hurry up and break up.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you agree to such a condition, you will definitely not have a life in the future, you should ask for specific reasons and say it to solve it, talk about it, marriage is not child's play.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The boy should take the initiative to clear up the misunderstanding between you and your mother. This is filial piety. Otherwise, how can he be regarded as a man who can be entrusted for life.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Maybe, I don't know.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Think about how to do it yourself, you may not listen to what we say

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Incredible, it should be an excuse; How can there be such an agreement?

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    He did it on purpose, and he didn't want to.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It should be said that this is an excuse, even if you don't answer **, aren't you worried that you will hurt yourself if you keep getting angry?

    I haven't been in touch for four days, and he really doesn't care about you that much. If he really cares about you, even if it's your fault, it's been a few days, and he would have beaten you up a long time ago.

    As for whether it is worth paying for him, this can only be decided by yourself. If you love him very much, there is nothing worthy or unworthy.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    This is an excuse, don't be born if you're afraid of death.

    This excuse shows that you are not as important as you imagined, not a little bit of love for you, a little bit of don't care about you, if you don't have a day in your heart, you can't do it, even if you quarrel, that habit is still there. quarreled with the cold war, did he go to play games, or do other things, the cold war is not afraid of your absence, because you have been in a long time he is not afraid of you leaving him.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I'm a girl I don't think he likes you enough If I quarrel with my boyfriend It's always him who apologizes to me first, if your boyfriend doesn't even try, it means that in his heart you are not as important as him.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Since Moscow does not believe in tears.

    Why should we girls trust men who are meant to lie?

    Don't make excuses for him, saying that he loves you because he is afraid of hurting you, and not being honest with you is the biggest harm.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    So are you really pretty? If so, then it is possible that he said such a reason, because he has to bear a lot of pressure every day, such as being afraid that others will come and snatch you, afraid that his competitors will be strong and strong, afraid that one day you will be robbed of you by a very good person, afraid that every time you are with you, other men will keep looking at you (some people are like this) This is because you can't give him a sense of security It may also be an excuse, since the problem is not with you, you just think about whether he has changed, if this is really the case, Then this is an excuse

    If you're not the pretty kind of person (in general), it's not just an excuse to break up when he says this, it's a very ironic excuse

    But in any case, it is best to put the problem out in this situation, not only to know the problem, but also to make a decision, after all, the most standard answer is not with us, but with him

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I think it may be an excuse, who doesn't have it in this year? It's better not to trust men too much.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    This shouldn't be an excuse, if you keep finding fault with him, maybe he thinks you will dislike him, or he also knows that he has a lot of shortcomings, and he is slowly adapting to you and slowly changing for you. And he knows that you are beautiful, and that you are a person who likes him, but because you are beautiful and your love makes him feel embarrassed, he thinks you are better than he thinks, and he may be much worse than you think, because you say that he has so many shortcomings. What you need to tell him is that because you care about him very much, you say his shortcomings, only those who really love him know him best, you know his shortcomings best, and of course you can tolerate him, but you want him to change, which can also prove that you love him very much and will not change his mind If he still can't understand it, it means that he is making excuses!!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    There is only one piece of advice: a woman is too beautiful to find a man who is very confident. Only a man with a lot of self-confidence, he doesn't care that he will be worse than others, he knows what he has to do. So don't be afraid that you will be snatched away by others.

    Your current boyfriend is basically without self-confidence because of too much pressure, and the mentality of "afraid of losing you, afraid that you will cuckold her after you get married, it is better to break up early". If you love him, then it's up to you to adjust his mindset and improve your self-confidence. There is no other way!!

    If he were a one-in-a-million outstanding man (self-confidence, self-esteem, some financial strength or career foundation), he would not have this mentality.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    He may be really tired. I'm sure he really loves you. Because I'm also a man, so is my girlfriend, and she's beautiful too. I worry about her every day, afraid that she will leave me one day. It's really tiring and tiring to do this every day.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Yes, he is afraid that he will not be able to keep you in the future.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Looks like I don't care about you.

    It won't be your request that it's hard.

    Think about what happened between you.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If you are busy with work, you have to be conscious, it is not easy to make money, and making money is also for each other's future.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    I don't care about you, I don't want to listen to you**.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Because he wants to surprise you.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Since you have been caught, the eyes are the most real, you don't need to explain it anymore, just wait and see, all the excuses are covered up in front of the facts you see with your eyes! Just see how the teacher solves it. I'm from here, but in fact, I haven't done anything except being trained and criticized.

    However, for students, learning is your first priority.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    High school or college? In college, we fall in love, and in high school, we discuss studying.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    The teacher is fine.,It's all from the past.,Acquiescence!

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Let it go, silly boy, men are the best at making excuses, this is perfunctory to you.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    I have to get off work even if I'm busy. When a person does something and finds a reason to excuse himself. It may indicate that the feelings are weak.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    What excuse do you want to connect or it's inconvenient, just say that it's inconvenient, just say that there is a man next to you who is inconvenient.

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