I want to hear everyone s opinions, my husband and I got married last year, and the child was just b

I also don't think it's necessary to buy it, it's still an old house, since the family is so difficult, his salary is not enough to repay the loan, what else to buy for, it's still an old house, isn't it forcing yourself to live a more difficult life, I think there is a house, and I don't have the ability to buy it, and it's not better to buy a new house when you have money in the future. The cost of the child's school in the future is very large, are you willing to give the child to eat very poor things, are you willing to give the child to wear very poor clothes, if it is too different from their classmates, they will also be ridiculed by their classmates, so the child is also unhappy, I think it is better to live in your previous house, the new house is sold again, save some money to have something to do, eat happily, dress happily, and live a stress-free life is truly happy. Why put such a big burden on yourself, you won't be able to get a penny out in the future, and you will know how to cry.

Now the old ones are also old, and the little ones are still young, why bother to make yourself so tired, the child is only 20 minutes away from school, what are you afraid of, I used to walk for almost 30 minutes after school, this is normal, tell your husband to give up, tell him all these facts, really don't listen, then he is too selfish, he didn't even discuss with you to decide, since he is so disrespectful to you, you must not take a penny for this house in the future, he will eat the bitter fruit he grows himself. You just take the child with you.

Let's discuss. If you still insist on it.

Then you don't care, just take care of the children, and buy what you should buy.

It's useless, the boat will naturally go straight to the bridge.

Everyone's good.

The score is so high...

It's useless for anyone to say.

It's up to you how you treat it.

According to this situation, there is really no need to buy a house so early, as you said, even the daily expenses of the family are not enough, but also to support the small ones, in case there is any emergency in the family, how to do it without a little savings, the man's idea may be that the greater the pressure, the greater the motivation, but in fact, only he knows in his own heart, buying a house does not even tell you, I personally think that such a person is a little selfish. But things have happened, you can only relax your heart and find the best solution, you can let him give your mother and son a fixed living expenses every month, and you don't have a job, which is natural, and let him figure out the other things by himself, and he made the decision to buy a house by himself.

Hello! I think the premise of buying a house is to have normal family expenses, there is extra money, will be considered, since your family is so poor, I don't think there is a need to buy a house so quickly, everyone is comfortable and happy, plain, can ensure that the family is well fed and warm, your husband bought a house maybe he is selfish, only taking into account the unilateral problem, not taking into account the overall situation, with his ability, he is embarrassed to buy? For the convenience of the child's schooling, it also depends on the family's affordability, since he doesn't have the ability, why buy it.

It's really not right to do that.

First of all, if you don't like to hear it, you have lost a lot in your life path.

If you take that seriously, let's talk about the next thing.

Do you really think that you and him can't live any longer?

I tell you to do it, and you try to think about the good in him, and think about the good things in your bad past.

There are two ways to do this: First, you change your mind. 2. Hunger and remorse, but intolerable.

Let's talk about the second type first: if you really can't tolerate it, then make a decision as soon as possible, and you can't make mistakes again and again.

On the other hand, we say the first one, if you change your mind, but this is not a compromise with his behavior, but also communicate with him, try to change him, if there is a result, you will continue to live your happy life, if you move forward if you still can't change, then you can only take the second way.

Addendum: Although children are important, they cannot be delayed for a lifetime. Nowadays, although many single-parent families pay more and work harder than ordinary people, they still have a lot of happy lives.

I'm afraid that there were a lot of people who opposed your marriage at the beginning, right?

You women are like this, a few sweet words make you happy, and then go to the cow and do the horse weight. Now you know it's a mistake to block the silver, right?

Your husband's lazy personality doesn't form in a day or two, so there are only two ways to change:

1. Progressive. Use your so-called love to influence him, but according to what you said, he is no longer interested in your "love".

Second, the rush type. Give him a great, heavy blow, make him grief-stricken, cause him to reflect, and thus completely reverse his present personality. (If he doesn't have a good tolerance, he may become a completely distorted personality).

You are still worried about who will want you after the divorce, this is not the point, it is a big deal to support yourself in the future, no one will rely on you, and now women in this society are still sentenced to be self-reliant, since you want to divorce the child, you can change it to give up, why do you think about it so much.

What's the use of such a person to make a fuss?。。 After his parents died, he didn't care who asked for money... It's all on the table. Let's have a good time. The days still have to live. Let's try to change him slowly.