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In fact, I think you already have the answer, we don't need to tell you whether such a friend is worth making, you just need us to support your decision.
Now that you already feel that he is not suitable to be your friend, what are you waiting for?
Can't let go of so many years of friendship?
Think about it calmly, is there a real friendship between you?
When it comes to difficulties, true friends don't leave it alone.
Be sensible and make a decision.
Believe that you are a good boy and you will meet better and more suitable friendships for you.
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I don't think there's any need to make this friend. To make friends, you have to make some people who have similar hobbies to your personality!! It's going to be more fun to be together like this!!
Purely personal opinion.
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The other disadvantages are nothing, it's just that he is so unrighteous, and he doesn't even have a basic righteousness between friends, so what do you want his friend to do?
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The forest is so big, and there are all kinds of birds.
Look what you think of him,
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People should learn to be tolerant, instead of asking if they can make such friends, and if they don't, they can walk away.
If you annoy him, don't describe him as a friend.
There are only eternal interests, no eternal friends.
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It's useless to make such a friend, it's not good, bad character is the first, I think it should be a friend, a friend is the first to stand up, and righteousness is the biggest common language among friends. A person who is not righteous cannot be considered a friend.
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Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and it's not a big deal.
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Nowadays, many young people like to make a lot of friends, and even as long as they look at the right eye, they can add a WeChat as a friend. But I think that such a friend is actually worthless, because there is no friendship between two people at all, and when anything happens to you, you don't think that he can help you, and he doesn't think about helping you. I feel that only people who really know each other can be called friends.
So what kind of friends should we talk about? The first choice is, of course, people who are righteous and responsible, these people must be good friends, if your friends are this kind of people, you must cherish them.
First of all, a righteous person will give friends a strong sense of belonging. As far as my own feelings about being friends with righteous people, I think they always think about me and call me for whatever is good. It doesn't matter if it's a fun place to play or if there's a class reunion, they'll call me, which gives me a strong sense of belonging.
I would think that I was one of his side and that I had a strong connection with him. This is a state of friendship that I prefer, I think friends should be close, be able to share good food and fun, and go on entertainment and outings together. That's why I like to be friends with righteous people.
Secondly, a righteous friend will stand firmly behind you when you are in trouble. In my opinion, the time when a person encounters suffering is the time when the person is most helpless. But often no one will help him at this time, after all, even if it is a husband and wife, they will fly separately when disaster comes.
But if he had a righteous friend, then he would not be defeated by difficulties, because there was someone with him. Even if this difficulty cannot be overcome, I can feel the sincere friendship, and I believe that this person who encounters difficulties is not without nothing. Besides, how can brothers work together to break off the gold, how can they have a hurdle that they can't overcome?
In the end, friends who have the courage to speak of responsibility will never back down. I met a friend who would be the first to desert when he was in trouble, even if he was usually talking about how good he was. This is the kind of person I hate the most, just talking and not doing it, like a traitor in the War of Resistance Against Japan.
And if a person is responsible, he will not let his friends rush to the front, they will shelter their friends from the wind and rain, even if they usually don't say anything. Be friends with this kind of person, and you will never be afraid of setbacks, because they will walk hand in hand with you at any time. In my opinion, there is nothing that friends can't solve together.
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Because there are many friends and many roads, as the saying goes, rely on relatives at home and rely on friends outside. In addition to this, there are the following reasons:
1. Emotional communication. Some people are emotional, while others are relatively indifferent. But as long as it is a human being, emotions will arise, and with emotions, communication is needed.
Of course, some people like to confide in people big and small, and some people don't easily reveal their hearts. But as long as it is a person, he needs to have one or some people to confide in, even if it is a person who is very deep in the city, he will not close his emotions forever. It's just that the time of confiding is different, the way is different, and the object is different!
2. Exchange of information. Even in ancient times, people needed to exchange information in order to search for food and others together or separately. In modern society, the exchange of information is particularly important.
In addition to **, the exchange of information between friends has an irreplaceable role.
3. Help and use each other. There is a limit to the power of one person. Therefore, there are many occasions and many things that people need help from others.
Especially for some more complicated matters, the help of family members is not enough, and the help of friends is needed. People's talents and abilities are different, and it is normal for friends to use each other. Therefore, helping and using each other is also one of the important purposes of making friends.
4. Human beings are social animals, and they need communication, exchange, exchange, mutual help and cooperation to survive and develop. To put it more bluntly, friends are a kind of emotional investment for us, and the purpose of making friends is based on both emotional and profit needs.
You must know that no matter what era people need information exchange, information exchange between friends has an irreplaceable role. For example, when you encounter difficulties, you have friends to help you; When encountering setbacks, there are friends to encourage them; When you encounter troubles, you have friends to comfort you. That's why it's important to call a friend.
It is good to speak your heart, but the one who tells it should be careful. Don't tell them so easily. The people you choose can't just be a little familiar, I think there won't be only a few people who are familiar with you.
Shangrenren, Jiayuan of the century, Lily Net.
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