What are some of your experiences of lying out of desperation?

I felt that this made me very helpless, but one of the experiences of lying was in junior high school, because I didn't complete the homework assigned by the teacher, so I could only copy the answers, but when I was called to the office by the teacher, I didn't dare to admit it because I was afraid, so I said that I didn't copy the answers.

It was a night car to go home on vacation, and my mother asked me if I had a companion, and I lied to her that she did, because if I said no, she would definitely pick me up in the middle of the night alone, and I didn't want my mother to walk alone at night, so I had to lie to her.

I used to work in a big city, and then I didn't have a good life, I didn't have enough three meals a day, but when my parents called** and asked me how I was doing, I said that I was doing very well, and suddenly I felt that my lies were very helpless.

Once I accidentally fell asleep in class, and happened to be found by the head teacher, and then the teacher asked me if I was a little sleepy after taking medicine (there happened to be a box of medicine on the table), and I said yes helplessly.

One time I was so sleepy that I got up late for class in the morning, and although I felt very guilty, I lied to the teacher that I was sick.

I wanted to ask my teacher for leave, but he wouldn't accept it no matter how much I asked, and then I lied to him that he was sick, which was very helpless.

My parents always wanted me to go to graduate school, and I couldn't get in, but when my parents asked me, I would tell them that I was preparing for graduate school and I didn't want to disappoint them.

According to statistics, about half of the people tell more than 5 lies a day, and there are almost no people who do not lie. According to psychologists, there are three main reasons why people love to lie.

1.Covering up faults. Fear of sin, evasion of responsibility, and avoidance of others, people will cover up their mistakes with lies, which is the most common reason for lying.

I didn't break the water cup" "I didn't steal sugar" ......Almost every day, we more or less, consciously or unconsciously, deny and cover up some things that we do that do not meet the expectations of others in order to protect ourselves from punishment and blame.

2.Reap the benefits. "Interests" here mainly refer to obtaining external benefits such as fame, fortune, and image.

Nearly 1 in 5 people will lie about getting a monetary advantage; In order to improve their self-image, some people say exaggerated things, such as "I have been the first in the exam since I was a child" and "I can bring every project that I can't go on 'back to life'".

3.Influencing others. Another common motivation for lying is to control others and make them do what they expect to see.

Negative control is very similar to "threat", such as "I will fire you if I can't complete the task today", "the leader says you have to do this"; And positive control is "white lies", such as "mom is not hungry, you eat more".

Human beings instinctively pursue truth, goodness and beauty, and do not want to be deceived.

Unusual small movements. Sometimes subtle differences in behavior can reveal that someone is lying. For example, when a person speaks, he naturally has hand movements, which means that the conversation is relaxed.

When lying, the person's hand movements will slowly stop, or suddenly stop. This is because people are nervous when lying, and people have to focus on "making up" and "round lies", and their limbs will look "unnatural". For example, when our lips are relaxed, we may purse our lips frequently when lying.

Pouting is a comforting response, a sign of inner stress. When a person who is not in the habit of pursing his lips involuntarily closes his lips, then he is probably lying.

Memories are like endorsements. Generally speaking, it is difficult for us to remember all the details of what happened in the past, and when we recall what we have done and what we have said, we will inevitably make mistakes in the narrative, and even repeatedly correct mistakes and straighten out our thoughts in the process of description. Liars, on the other hand, usually "do it in one go" and "recall" exactly the same every time, because they have already "memorized" the fabricated scenes and texts.

The eyes are unnatural. Some people lie with wandering eyes and are afraid to look the other person in the eye. Because when you lie, you will have a weak heart, and you are afraid of being seen through.

But there are also some people who stare at each other when cheating, believing that doing so can increase the affirmation and trust of others, but this kind of "pretense of nature" is very suspicious.

Of course, there are also experimental studies that show that we can judge 50% of lies intuitively. If you always have a feeling of distrust of someone, there is a good chance that they are actually cheating on you.

A person lies because he can benefit from lying or avoid punishment.

For example, if a child wants to get something, make up a reason, and his parents may give it to him. If he had done something wrong and had not done the lie, his parents might not have punished him.

He must have some knot in his heart that he doesn't want others to know. Such a person is still relatively insecure, and in his consciousness, his lies can give him a certain self-confidence, a false sense of security. When this behavior gradually formed a habit over time, he blindly thought that it was a sign of his own intelligence.

In fact, it's just a little clever, and it's this principle that smart is missaid by cleverness.

2. People who love to lie are generally more inclined to seek perfection and have a higher state of mind.

Everything requires perfection, everything is perfect, and life is also perfect, so he does not hesitate to use some lies to construct and decorate these so-called perfections. However, the deep-rooted inferiority complex made him escape from reality again and again, and he did not dare to face some pressures of reality, making him not only not a perfect person in front of everyone, but a coward who was afraid of things.

The reason for lying is to achieve one's own goals, but in fact, being clever is being mistaken by being smart.

I don't want others to know the truth of the matter.

The biggest panic I was because I had no experience when I was looking for a job. I had an internship before, but it was only in school. To really enter the society, you still have to rely on your own real ability.

And I don't have any work experience, so when I interview, I can only fool the interviewer by lying.

It's a bad thing to lie during an interview. Personally, I don't think it's wise to lie, especially during an interview. Here are some possible examples:

1. False academic qualifications or degrees.

It is a very serious deception to exaggerate or falsify one's academic qualifications or degrees in one's resume. If you are found by the company, you will not only lose your job opportunities, but you may also face legal action.

2. Deception work experience.

It is also very dishonest to exaggerate or falsify your work experience in your resume. If you are found in an interview, you will not only lose trust and opportunities, but also affect your career development. 3. Concealment of bad records.

If you have a criminal record or other bad record, it is very unwise to try to conceal or deceive the interviewer. Companies often conduct background checks on candidates, and if they are caught cheating, they will lose their job opportunities and even lose trust and respect.

In conclusion, lying will not only cost you a job opportunity, but it will also affect your career advancement and reputation. Therefore, honesty and truthfulness are one of the most important qualities in the interview and job search process, and the interviewer's questions should be based on honesty and truthfulness. In addition, lying can also have a negative impact on one's mental health.

Lying requires maintaining the memory and maintenance of untruthful statements, which can increase your stress and anxiety, and may even lead to confusion and exhaustion.

Therefore, a permeable performance based on honesty and authenticity will not only earn the trust and respect of the interviewer, but also maintain one's mental health. In the interview, if you encounter some uncertain questions or your background is not good enough, you can take a positive attitude and honest performance to ask questions. Being honest about your flaws or deficiencies and proposing your own improvement plans and efforts will make the interviewer appreciate and trust you more.

In conclusion, honesty and truthfulness are among the most important qualities in the interview and job search process. Don't try to lie or exaggerate your abilities, instead, you should present yourself with authenticity and positivity so that the interviewer can see your potential and strengths. If you can maintain a good performance and attitude, I believe you will be able to successfully get the job opportunity you want in the interview.

This must be there, everyone will have the experience of lying and laughing in his growth calendar, for example, when I was in elementary school, I would lie to my parents one day when I skipped school and didn't go to school, and then said that we stayed in school for a day.

I once lied a big lie in an interview, and in retrospect, I regret it.

At that time, I was looking for a job, and by chance, I was invited to an interview with a company. I carefully prepared a series of self-introduction and answering skills, hoping to show the best in this interview.

However, when the interviewer asked me what the most rewarding project I had done recently, I didn't know how. My mind went blank and I couldn't help but feel a little nervous. "Recently, I completed an important business cooperation project, worked closely with many large companies, and successfully made a lot of profits.

I said with a letter in my own pretence.

Hearing my words, the interviewer had a look of doubt on his face. He asked me about the specifics of the project and asked me to explain it in detail. But I didn't know anything about this fake project, so I could only make it up casually, and I was very anxious.

The interviewer also seemed to notice the unnaturalness of my performance, but in the end did not find my lie.

It wasn't long before I realized my foolish behavior. I felt very guilty for this little lie, because I had a lot of good things to show in the interview. I shouldn't lie at a critical moment, it will only ruin my image.

In retrospect, I should be honest with the interviewer that I haven't been involved in any recent projects, but I've still been able to prove myself in other areas. And once the cobbled together lies are revealed, the interviewer will cast doubt on my integrity, which will have an impact on my career later in life.

From this experience, I deeply realized the importance of the word "integrity". Whether in work or life, only honesty and trustworthiness can gain the trust of others. Therefore, I am especially resolute in telling the truth in interviews, and I pay attention to "treating people with sincerity" in my dealings with people, which is not only a sign of respect for others, but also a sign of responsibility for myself.

In short, the biggest lie that came out of this interview was the big mistake I made as a newcomer to the workplace. Now, I have realized my mistakes and become more aware of the qualities and attitudes that a person must possess in order to be a good employee with a "complete personality".

Square: 1If a person often has lies in his mouth to deceive others, over time, he will lose people's trust.

2.The "lie" itself is dark, and the white lie itself is falsehood. Although he took off the cheongsam worn by the beggar, he still could not escape the essence of his lie, and a lie meant deception, and thus hindered integrity.

The starting point of a white lie is good, but often once this lie is exposed, the damage to the other party will be deeper. 3.In my opinion, distrusting others is not only irresponsible for oneself, but also disrespectful to others, and even causes losses to others and the interests of the collective.

The most important thing is to lose the trust of others. 4.Zi said:

People have no faith, and they don't know what they can do. "I think that if people don't be trustworthy, they will have no place in society and they will not be able to do anything. A "lie" is called a "lie" because it is a false, untrue, and deceitful word.

If a person often has lies flowing in his mouth to deceive others, over time, he will lose people's trust. 5.Another point is that if you tell a lie, it may be used many more lies to round that lie, and there is a high probability that lying will become a habit, lying, and it will snowball, and it will get bigger and bigger.