Why do some parents always want their children to have children?

The traditional idea is that there are three unfilial pieties, and no queen is great, and now people's thinking is that they are full of food and the whole family is not hungry, and there are not a few people who want to be Ding Ke, from the perspective of parents, they just want to let themselves have someone in this vein, not to be the last, and the intention is not, who can still calculate their children?

It is up to me to decide whether to have children or not, but I still prefer to have my own children to be complete, because this is called family.

On the question of "why some parents always want their children to have children", we must first understand why human beings have children, including why animals and plants go through hardships to pass on the race (species), especially to observe why in the animal kingdom, why they fight for reproductive rights more fiercely and more tragically than when they rush for food, it is obvious that the winner is only to show that only "I" in the population has the best genes to continue the population.

Human beings have evolved into a civilized society, and there are laws and regulations that protect the right of every citizen to enjoy the love of men and women, the freedom of men to marry and to marry, as for the birth of children, with the progress of human society, the kind of "I" hidden in the human body is the "best gene" The desire to gradually degenerate, and when they reach a certain age, they have obtained the success of their family business and career, and their strength and weakness and level are invisibly a common desire, and the strong want to carry forward the industry. Naturally, they would think of continuing their lives to protect their family business.

The weak can only prove the excellence of their family by extending their own lives.

Therefore, no matter whether you succeed or not, whether you are strong or weak, you will eventually continue your own bloodline.

I hope to hold my grandson soon, your parents are afraid that they will not hold their grandson before they die. In order to pass on the order of future generations, so that they can go with peace of mind.

You'll want to think about it when you're old! Maybe it's out of animal nature! I would like to see the continuation of the race while I am alive ...

In that case, the children will have to ask their parents, and if they want their parents to help take care of the children, they will be able to command and control them.

For parents, they prefer to be lively, so having a few more children will make the family more lively. As the saying goes, raising children to prevent old age, the more children there are, the more secure parents will be in the future, and I will give you a specific explanation below.

1.The more children there are, the more secure the parents are.

Parents raise children, part of the reason is to prevent old age, after people get old, the labor force declines rapidly, there is no way to take good care of themselves, but with the existence of children, they can take care of themselves. If the parents have only one child, then the pressure on this child will be greater, and in addition to taking care of their own family, they will also have to find time to take care of their parents. So parents like to have more children, so that there will be more people to take care of their parents.

2.Parents love to be lively.

There is only one child at home, which inevitably seems a little lonely. If there are more children in the family, the children will be noisy with each other, and they will ask their parents to do this and that, and the parents will feel more lively at home, especially after the parents are middle-aged, if there is no one to accompany the parents, they will feel more deserted.

3.Children can also take more care of each other.

For only children, they can't experience the happiness of having brothers and sisters, they can only find their parents when they have things, but for children, they actually need more help and care among their peers, some things they don't want to say to their parents, but they are very happy to share with their brothers and sisters, so if the parents have more children, it is better for their children, and when they reach adulthood, they help each other, and the power is also very great.

All in all, parents have more children, can make their future more secure, and children will take care of each other, grow up will help each other, as the saying goes, more people are stronger, children will have more security, there are more people in the family, the whole family will be particularly lively, parents will be very happy.

In general, children are the crystallization of their parents' love. Parents give birth to children because they want the love to continue. There are also parents who feel that a child's words are too lonely, and in the future, the parents will be gone, and only the child himself.

If you have a few more children, you can have a companion in the future and no longer be lonely. As the saying goes, raising children to prevent old age, and some parents feel that the problem of caring for their children will be less stressful after they have more children.

To take revenge on you. There are many children, and life is stressful. Children don't live as well as dogs. When children are young, they are bitter, but when they grow up, their parents can lie down and earn money. My advice is to leave your parents alone when you're old, and let their hopes be dashed. I'm fed up with the many brothers and sisters in my family.

Nowadays, the cost of raising children is very high, and it is not recommended to have more children, and those with excellent conditions can have more.

In order to make the children not lonely, but also to be able to have children to support them in the future.

In the past, many parents wanted to have sons for the so-called inheritance, but in the current society, many parents have become very eager to have daughters, thinking that there are more benefits after giving birth to daughters. Next, let's analyze with you, why do many parents want to have daughters?

The reason why many parents want to have a daughter is because many fathers themselves were naughty when they were young, and they know how troublesome it is for boys to get into trouble, so in this case, many fathers want to have daughters and feel that it will be safer to have daughters.

The reason why many parents want to have daughters is because many fathers feel closer to their daughters, and others generally think that their sons will be closer to their mothers, so many fathers hope that when they encounter disputes, their daughters can be regarded as a supporter, rather than having a son as an opponent.

The reason why many parents want to have a daughter is because many parents feel that their daughters are more sought-after in the future, because the ratio of men and women is particularly incongruous.

The reason why many parents want to have a daughter is because many mothers have another reason to satisfy their desire to buy, and the cost is very large after giving birth, at this time the mother will save more than before, but if a daughter is born, at this time the mother will have a reason to satisfy her desire to buy, and the good things she buys can be left to her daughter.

The reason why many parents want to have a daughter is because many fathers feel that after giving birth to a daughter, they feel as if they participated in their partner's previous life, because they love their partner very much, but they regret not participating in the good times of their partner's childhood, and after giving birth to a daughter, it feels like participating in their partner's life when they were young.

The reason why many parents want to have daughters is because many fathers, because they are men, and they are very familiar with their responsibilities and pressures, so they will be very strict with their sons after giving birth to their sons, but they are not so strict with their daughters' future lives, which seems to others to like fathers who prefer girls.

The reason why many parents want to have a daughter is because many fathers have a low self-awareness, if the father feels that his ability is very strong, and he is very satisfied with himself in all aspects, in this case, whether it is a son or a daughter, the father will like it more, but if the father's self-awareness is relatively low, in this case, he feels that he is not good, and he does not want to give birth to a son as bad as himself, so he hopes to have a daughter.

The reason why many parents want to have a daughter is because their daughters are usually more intimate, such as when their mothers come home from work, the common situation is that daughters will help their mothers with shoes, pour a cup of tea, or give their mothers gifts, etc., but many sons will not be as intimate as daughters at this time, only when the mother takes the initiative to talk to her son, the son may respond, so in the eyes of many parents, they feel that their daughters love themselves more, and daughters are more willing to be close to their parents, so they unconsciously hope to be daughters.

Push forward for decades, many families have a particularly serious patriarchal mentality, if you give birth to a son, the whole family will definitely hold a banquet, and whoever gives birth to a daughter is embarrassed to hold a banquet. And now, it's the other way around, many young parents especially want to have a daughter, and if anyone has a daughter, it's really enviable.

Because, these benefits of raising a daughter are incomparable to those of a son.

1. You will not be troubled by the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the future.

If you give birth to a son, you will definitely marry a daughter-in-law in the future, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will still need to be managed hard, which is really a very troublesome thing. However, when I gave birth to a daughter, I didn't know that the banquet had this kind of trouble, and the mother-in-law looked at her son-in-law, and the more she looked at it, the more pleasing it became. Sons-in-law are generally more respectful to their mother-in-law, and the relationship is also very good.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is currently a major event in China, and almost every family will encounter it, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in most families is not easy to handle. The conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is like asking your son: Your mother and your daughter-in-law fell into the water, who do you save first?

There is never a right answer......

2. The daughter is the mother's intimate little padded jacket.

Girls' minds are more delicate, and women have a tender side and attach more importance to feelings. When he is old, his daughter can lie down with him and whisper something, but his son will not do that. The daughter can help her wash the dishes, wash the clothes, and massage herself, but the son is not too embarrassed to do so.

During the New Year's holidays, the daughter will always buy some things to go home to see, and the son may only have a career in mind, and it is difficult to take care of the elderly at home.

3. My daughter is more sensible.

This is a matter of character, most of the boys are more powerful in sabotage, and girls tend to be quiet. The boy is adventurous, likes to climb trees, tear things down, etc., and has a short temper. The daughter is different, the daughter has a gentle personality, and can patiently listen to her mother's reasoning, and most girls usually like to play quiet games.

It can be said that in life, if you raise a daughter, you can worry less, and if you raise a son, you will have to worry more.

4. You can match your daughter's clothes.

If you raise a son, you may wear a suit of clothes and shave your hair shorter, but the boy is also dirty and not suitable for dressing. If you raise your daughter, you can match them with various styles of clothes, comb various hairstyles, buy all kinds of headwear, etc., and even say that you can dress up your daughter every day, and you will be happy to see your daughter so beautiful every day.

Therefore, many young parents now have a special desire to have a daughter, do you like a son or a daughter?

1. Men's face problems. There is a saying that the birth of a son is more masculine, and the birth of a daughter will be more gentle, and the established image of the Chinese for men is masculine and upright, so giving birth to a daughter will affect the establishment of this image to a certain extent. 2. Physiological factors.

China has always been a large agricultural country, and farming is a more physically demanding activity, and women are significantly weaker than men in this regard, so they all want to have a son to help with the farm work rather than a daughter to help with food. 3. The concept of raising children and preventing old age. The approximate meaning of this concept is to raise a son in the future, when he is old, someone will take care of himself who can't work, and he can provide for his own retirement, and when there is a disaster, he can also send himself to the hospital as soon as possible, and the most important thing is to be able to send himself to the sect, many traditional customs are not allowed to women to play, and the act of sending the sect is also exclusive to men.

4. The notion that girls are all members of other people's families. There is a saying that the daughter who marries out spills the water, and the family who gave birth to a daughter was not only unhappy when she was born in ancient times, but also like exchanging dowry gifts with her daughter to a certain extent. Sometimes it becomes a luxury for a daughter to return to her parents' home, which is probably this kind of concept.

5. The traditional habit of having a noble child and a cheap daughter. The ancient polygamy system made this vice spread more wantonly, and the status of giving birth to children was noble and the status of giving birth to daughters was low, so the women in those courtyards wanted to give birth to a belt on their stomachs to change the fate of their lives.

Generally speaking, most parents abandon their children because the family burden is too heavy and they can't afford to raise them. Some people said, so why give birth? In this case, most of them are also feudal thoughts, they want to raise a son, but they unexpectedly give birth to a daughter, and in order to have another son, they can't afford to raise it, what should I do?

I had to abandon one. At.

In the 70s and 80s, because the state controlled family planning, many people had to abandon their daughters in order to get a son and avoid the state's penalty. These are all caused by patriarchal thinking.

Of course, due to the lack of contraception in the old society, the children who had to be raised were really unable to support them, so they had to give up, and these really can't all be blamed on the parents, that society, there is really no other way.

There is also a type of unmarried pregnancy, this kind of person has to abandon the child in order to avoid shame in society because he is not married, the husband has a child, and the father of the child cannot be married.

The last one, in order to pursue her so-called happiness, such as divorce, such as leaving home and abandoning her children, is the most reprehensible, because she is completely selfish.

Although there are others, they are not representative, so I won't talk about them, all in all, except for the helpless situation of the old society, all the actions of abandoning their children should be condemned.

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