Question: Is love going far or friendship going far?

What is love? The meaning of love is very broad and can be friendship, family affection, love, ......Perhaps the most interesting thing for people is love, right? Then I might as well talk about love.

Love is the most beautiful word, how many people are struggling to pursue it, sometimes people regard love as more important than life. But what is love? How many people truly have eternal love?

How many people have been searching for it all their lives? Love may be the feeling of love at first sight, love may be the feeling when you make a promise, and love may be the ......feeling of life and deathLove is a topic that can't be talked about endlessly. When you fall in love with someone, your heart is panicked and uneasy, you don't know how the other person feels, and you have to hide your feelings because you are a reserved person.

Maybe the root of your love is a shadow in your heart, you put on a dream clothes for him, you are intoxicated in the illusion of the dream and do not want to wake up, wandering and tossing for a long time, when you know the other party's feelings, everything has been light, because you have stepped out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you hold has lost its luster, and your life has been injected with gray since then. When I don't have the experience of loving others, I think, "It's a pleasure to love others."

When I was loved, I thought, "What a blessing to be loved!" But whether it is to love or be loved, it is so sad, because people's hearts are always so unpredictable, and desires are always so things, for her, they can only pass by.

Nothing can penetrate deep into her heart. Like a decadent and gloomy flower, with a gesture of despair but looking up at an innocent face, smiling at all cruelty and humiliation. The deep dark green color is without tears.

Such a flower that blooms forever in the dark does not believe in tears, and is destined to be lonely for a lifetime. Often, in a crowded crowd, I feel the extension, sound, smell of many strangers, chaotic and noisy. And when you are quiet and then look and listen, you can feel incombinable, with love and being loved, there will be a struggle in the whirlpool of feelings, and with love and being loved, there will be more entanglements in the emotional world.

The wrong car of loving and being loved, the incomprehension of loving and being loved, the restriction of loving and being loved, the helpless ...... of loving and being lovedIn the vast land, for a person who is disappointed in the world and has no love in his heart, isn't it the same to **? Forever walking on the road, all love, all of a sudden, you will find that there is nothing here. Empty and silent.

There are many people who have no soul. I live a mediocre life, I have no purpose, I don't know why I want to live, and I never think about what I live for. Such people in this world may be.

True love is knowing how to cherish when you can love True love is knowing how to let go when you can't love Love is a very wonderful thing. At the time of love. Learn to cherish.

Cherish this time of happiness and happiness that belongs to you. Embrace Him with your love and love Him. Because he belongs to you.

At the time of the breakup. Know how to give up. Forget that happy history.

Use your love to tolerate Him and forget Him. Because he no longer belongs to you. When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along with for a lifetime.

But sadly, in real life, people who truly love each other for various reasons may not necessarily be together; The one you love the most often doesn't choose you; What loves you the most is often not what you love the most; And the longest-lasting, it's not what you love the most, and it's not the one you love the most. Only the person who appears at the most suitable time will really be with you forever! Satisfied.

People who need equality, it may be difficult to find such equality in love, but friendship can.

Just because friendship is more equal than love, we will maintain an equal or relatively fair attitude in friendship. Because we're friends, we're close, but not overly close. We know that the bottom line and principle of friendship are in the **.

And love can make us lose our way. We can't be sure where love is going. In other words, we will be more confused in love. Because we love each other too much and care about each other too much, we often suffer from gains and losses in love.

When we are in love, we will be more afraid of losing. In friendship, we seem to be more relaxed. Although in any relationship, there will be elements of comparison, jealousy, and vanity, but friendship is more pure and clean than love.

In friendship, we don't interfere too much in our friends' private lives. In love, we are the opposite. We have a very tight grip on our partner's private life.

When our partner doesn't say a word properly, or if something doesn't get right, we all get angry.

In a friendship, we don't make things difficult for our friends. We will be more considerate of our friends' difficulties. When we have a friend, we struggle for a while, we feel embarrassed, and we are afraid that we will disturb the other person.

If our presence puts pressure on our friends and makes them feel embarrassed, we will not be able to go away and even find peace in our hearts for a long time. However, when we are in love, we will become a matter of course. In the name of love, we often criticize our partners and ask them to change into what they like.

In love, we will gradually forget the original intention of falling in love. The reason why we fell in love with each other in the first place was precisely because of the original appearance of each other. However, when we spend a lot of time together, we can't help but find fault with our partner.

At this time, the shortcomings and bad faults of the partner are like the beach after the tide has receded, revealing shells and debris all over the ground. We start to find fault with our partner and demand that our partner must correct it. Otherwise, we will have a cold war, quarrels, and even fights.

When we ask our partner to do something, we don't feel guilty or uneasy at all. But when we need a friend to pour us a cup of tea, we may say thank you several times in quick succession.

All Ye Zezi's emotional asymmetry will make him feel uncontrollable, unable to maintain a sane and sober state, and find that he dislikes himself more and more, so he feels that friendship is much more important than love.

In fact, whether it is love or friendship, it is the guiding light on the road of our life. We need to live on love and friendship. Let us cherish every relationship we have at this moment, water them with a sincere heart, and then reap the best fruits of life.

Friendship and love.

Friendship is a charcoal fire in the harsh winter; It is the shade of greenery in the scorching heat; It's a stepping stone in the rapids; It is also a nautical light in the sea of fog. Friendship is stronger than love, how many gaps in slander, cracks in misunderstanding; No amount of space or the passage of time can destroy the flowers of the soul. Friendship is more eternal than life, even if the human body dies out, but the spiritual friendship still exists, like the stars, like the bright moon, like the morning glow, more like the rainbow, presented in the spiritual universe, as long as life exists, friendship exists in life.

Love, the eternal theme of mankind forever. Love is gone, and life withers. Love is purity, it is boundless mystery, and it can make songs forget to tears and dashing.

Love should be rational, love without reason is a wild horse out of the border, and excessive reason will kill love in vain, so that the flower of affection can not open, the leaf of love turns green unintentionally, and the fruit of love blooms in restraint.

It has been said, "There is no real friendship between men and women." "That's too absolute.

Love is on the left, love is on the right, walking on both sides of life. Sow seeds at any time, bloom at any time, and the fragrance of flowers embellished with the process of life is pervasive, so that the pedestrians who wear the branches and leaves do not feel pain when stepping on thistles, and there are tears to flow, but they are not sad. "Love and friendship must make our tree of life green and lush, whether in the sun, whether in the wind and rain, it can shine with a kind of glory that is about to come out.

In life, love is often followed by friendship, and many men and women are moving towards love because of friendship, but it is not for the sake of love to develop friendship. All kinds of interactions should be moderate, otherwise you will fall into the trap of degrading. When friendship ripples in the depths of the heart, it should be scrutinized:

Is it love or friendship? When the waves of feelings invade, there should be no easy promises, and there can be no regrets when promises. Commitment may not be difficult, sometimes it's just a gentle nod; Sometimes it's just a gentle handshake, but it's hard to fulfill a promise.

Because a gentle nod, it is an oath made with credibility; A gentle handshake is a personal guarantee.

Fearing or blaming the friendship between men and women, both in the past and in the present, is a real hypocrisy. Who can say that there is no real friendship between men and women?

Friendship can develop into love, but love cannot replace friendship. In addition to love, I believe that there is real friendship.

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That's all I can say.

Some people have been noisy for a lifetime, some people have been plain for a lifetime, some people have been noisy for a lifetime, love is sometimes a very wonderful thing, you and I can't say for sure, it mainly depends on two people.

Respect and appreciate each other. And they can also understand each other, and they can consider problems from each other's point of view, and this kind of relationship will go further.

Respect each other. Give to each other. Wholeheartedly for this love. Be loyal to each other. Never cheat.

Respect each other, care for each other, respect each other's privacy, and this kind of love will go further.

It is that two people are more loyal to this relationship and have a common goal, and at the same time, in daily relationships, two people also belong to each other's growth.

If you want to be long-term in love, two people must love each other enough, be loyal and responsible towards feelings, have common topics and hobbies, and be able to tolerate and understand each other.

In fact, there is no distinction between the three. Some people treat their relatives warmly, friends cautiously, and lovers harshly, and the result may be that relatives become the main melody in life, friends are the spice of life, and lovers are accessories. This kind of result is often okay before 40, after 40, especially after 50, you will feel unusually empty, because most of your relatives have passed away, and only your children are left, and your children already have their own lives.

Some people can stick a knife in both sides of their friends, but they don't care so much about their relatives and lovers, and in the end it must be the worst one. Because in the final analysis, no matter how good a friend is, it is impossible to put all your energy on you for the rest of your life, and you love others, have children, have your own relatives, have other friends, and have a job. Your emotional investment can only end up with more and more friction and collision.

The last one is to put your lover first and ignore everything else. This is also not advisable. Some people fall out with their families because of their lovers at home, can't get along with their friends normally, and even their work is affected.

Generally speaking, whether it is family, friendship, or love, they are all feelings, and we must learn to face them. I think in fact, I can see everything as a living individual, for example, I will say that I am small with Xiao Ming, and I have a good relationship with Xiao Gang, I will not simply say, these are my two friends, these two people represent my friendship. When facing family affection, we must always pay attention to whether we will be hurt by the inadvertent practices of our relatives, and when facing love, we must always maintain the forbearance and generosity that we should have.

No matter what kind of feelings need to be managed, this is not like the flowers and plants in the field, which can grow by themselves.

Hand play hope it can help you.

In fact, if who goes the farthest, it depends on the weight of these three in a person's heart.

The heavier one, the one that can go farther.

For example, some people give up family affection for love, so there is a saying of elopement.

Some people, for the sake of friendship, give up love, so there is a saying that women are like clothes, and brothers are like siblings.

Some people, for the sake of their parents, have to give up their beloved, so there is a saying that the stick beats the mandarin duck.

So oh, everyone's choice is different, and it is destined that he has love, family, and friendship which one will go further.

In fact, no matter what choice you choose, you must feel happy yourself, and it is best that all three can last the same time, and the world will be happy.

It's up to you, family affection, needless to say, must go the farthest, it can't be parted, and it can't be parted, people say that blood is thicker than water.

Friendship, this is the longest, a confidant, can solve things for you that even relatives can't solve, of course, the premise is that friendship is real friendship, not the kind that arguing all day long to break up.

Love, it is said that love is a lifelong thing, not to be vigorous, but to be plain and grow old together.

Having real emotions, all three feelings can go a long way, this is indispensable, these are all emotions that people must have in their lives.

Parents will always love you, friends understand you best, lovers are the most distressed about you, if you grasp it well, and it is necessary to ask which long-term?