Can anyone help me find the ancient Chinese story of tolerance and additions .

1 The famous poet Goethe once met a man on the road who often criticized his articles, and this person Lu Zhu spoke insultingly in front of Goethe, and he got in the way. Goethe smiled slightly, flashed to the side, and did not make any distinction. The others were very angry and persuaded Goethe to turn against him.

Goethe laughed and said: "If I were like him, would I not be a madman?" ”

2 Lin Xiangru three let Lian Po.

Tolerance, Zhuge Liang.

The Seven Verticals Meng was tolerant, and Bao Ziya was even more tolerant when he recommended Sun Shuao regardless of his previous suspicions.

3 Critics of Lincoln.

Attitude towards political opponents: "Why are you trying to make them friends?" You should find a way to fight them and destroy them.

Aren't we destroying political opponents? When we become friends, political enemies don't exist. Lincoln said mildly.

This is how Lincoln eliminated political enemies and turned enemies into friends.

During the Three Kingdoms period, the state of Shu appointed Jiang Wan to preside over the government after Zhuge Liang's death. One of his subordinates is named Yang Xi, who has a withdrawn personality and is reluctant to speak. Jiang Wan talked to him, but he only answered.

Some people couldn't get used to it, and muttered in front of Jiang Wan: "Yang Xi, this person is so snub to you, it's too unreasonable!" Jiang Wan smiled calmly and said:

People have their own temperaments. Let Yang Xi say words of praise to my face, that is not his nature; Let him say in front of everyone that I am not, and he will think that I can't get off the stage. So, he had no choice but to remain silent.

In fact, this is the preciousness of his human being. Later, some people praised Jiang Wan for "the prime minister's belly can support the boat".

Lin Xiangru was named Shangqing because of his meritorious work in "returning to Zhao", and he was above Lian Po. Lian Po was very unconvinced and threatened to humiliate Lin Xiangru in person. After Lin Xiangru learned about it, he tried his best to avoid and tolerate it, so as not to conflict with Lian Po.

Lin Xiangru's disciples thought that he was afraid of Lian Po, but Lin Xiangru said: "The Qin State did not dare to invade our Zhao State because of me and General Lian. I tolerate and give in to General Lian, I put the danger of the country in front and my personal enmity in the back!

When Lian Po heard this, there was a story of Lian Po's "guilt".

1 The famous poet Goethe I.

On the road, I met a man who often criticized his articles, and this person replied in front of Goethe, talked nonsense, and stood in the way. Goethe smiled slightly, flashed to the side, and did not make any distinction. The others were very angry and persuaded Goethe to turn against him.

Goethe laughed and said, "If I were like him, would I not be a madman?" ”

2 Lin Xiangru three made Lian quite tolerant, Zhuge Liang was tolerant of Meng Wei, and Bao Ziya was even more tolerant when he recommended Sun Shuao regardless of his previous suspicions.

3 criticized Lincoln**'s attitude toward political opponents: "Why are you trying to make them friends? You should find a way to fight them and destroy them.

Aren't we destroying political opponents? When we become friends, political enemies don't exist. Lincoln said mildly.

This is how Lincoln eliminated political enemies and turned enemies into friends.

Six Feet Lane, Guan Bao's friends, Cao Cao burned the letters of his subordinates to surrender to Yuan Shao, etc.

Lian Po and Lin are similar stories. The story of Tang Taizong and Wei Zheng.

Lou Shide also has a story of "not being gracious" with Di Renjie.

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Focus on the story of Confucius.

Du student Zigong once asked Confucius: "Teacher Zhi, is there a word dao that can be used as a principle for lifelong dedication?" Confucius said

That's probably 'forgiveness'. "Forgiveness," in today's parlance, means tolerance. The prime minister's belly can support the boat The Shu Kingdom during the Three Kingdoms period is in.