What if there is a conflict and is misunderstood by classmates and it is useless to explain, because

Updated on educate 2024-04-27
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I think you should find a time to call her out and have a good talk. Talk to her about the truth in your heart, and find a quiet and elegant place. Also, I feel like your patience is really strong.

    But overall I feel like you're a good person, taking into account the feelings of other people, the feelings of your best friend. Therefore, as a good friend, you should say everything, find a chance to have a good talk with her, and sincerely apologize, I believe that your friend will accept it. ,When you arrive at school, you still keep a little distance.,Because you've been together for a long time.,It's inevitable that the other party will be a little unhappy when they make some mistakes.,It's necessary to have a little distance.,But you still have to say it.,For example, (go borrow an eraser.,Something.。

    To give you my own example, something bad happened between me and a very good brother of mine, everyone was very upset, and we almost got into a fight (I was stopped by someone else), and then I didn't speak for a week, and finally he made a move first, and he took me home after school, and followed me to my door all the time, and I didn't say a word, he kept following. Things have improved since then. We passed notes in class and communicated with each other.

    I went to WC after class and met him and I gave him a smiley face and it was over. So you all have to calm down first, give everyone a little time to think, think about whether you are doing the right thing, and then sit down and have a good talk, it will be reconciled, and the contradictions will be resolved, as long as you have a sincere heart. So much advice, I hope it helps you.

    I really hope you can reconcile.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Leave him alone, wait until he's gone, and talk to him.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Wait, time can change everything, wait for both parties to be emotionally stable, and then find the right time to reconcile, it will get better, I hope it will be good for you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Then let it be, and it will pass.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Wait for both sides to calm down, and prove everything with facts.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Explanation: Don't rush it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Invite him to eat for white and have a better attitude.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    This kind of thing is really right. You can find a friend who both knows well as an intermediary, sit down and talk about it, and explain the misunderstanding clearly. If you don't explain, the misunderstanding will get deeper and deeper, and there will be no way to solve it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If your classmates or friends misunderstand you, you can explain the ins and outs of the matter to them, and I believe that they will believe you. If it's a stranger, then don't bother with it, let them talk about it. Those who are clear are self-purifying, believing that the truth will always be revealed one day.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    After a conflict with a classmate, others misunderstand themselves if they don't know what is going on, but don't rush to explain at this time. At this time, the more you explain, the more difficult it is to explain clearly. It should be communicated and solved after everyone has calmed down.

    After the contradiction is resolved, these misunderstandings will naturally be resolved.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If it were me, I wouldn't bother to explain!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    After being misunderstood by others, it is best to keep silent and ignore it, and only come out of the truth if you violate the bottom line.

    After the conflict occurs, many people judge the cause of the matter based on their personal feelings, and the party who is "eager to explain" thinks that it is covering up, so it is better to remain silent and ignore it after being misunderstood. Generally, all the gossip will not be mentioned in half a month without mentioning it, and if it continues to be maliciously circulated in half a month, it should be said coldly; What was the truth at the beginning, I endured things that I didn't remind for half a month for the sake of the feelings of both parties, and slapped others in the mouth with facts.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    We will feel very wronged at the beginning, he does not understand the matter and misunderstands us, at this time we have to protect our own rights and interests, to explain to him the truth of the matter. If you really can't do it, find some witnesses to prove your claim. Don't let yourself be angry in vain, give yourself a fair statement.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    At this time, you must tell the truth to others, and you must not let him misunderstand you all the time, otherwise this will have a great impact on you when you get along with other people in the class in the future.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I think at this time, if you don't want to explain, don't care, because the truth will always come out, even if others misunderstand you, in fact, you don't have to be too anxious, because others may have listened to some slander, but you can prove yourself with actions, for example, you can tell your good friend what is going on, and then your good friend will say to others that slowly others will hear the truth and change their opinion of you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you care about the "other", just explain it. If that person has nothing to do with you at all, the misunderstanding will be misunderstood, so let him go.

    In work and life, we often have some situations where we are misunderstood by others, and sometimes we really feel very wronged. But as I get older, I find myself more and more aware that the more I care, the more it hurts me. Sometimes those who misunderstand you have nothing to do with you at all.

    Their misunderstanding will not have any effect on you, and your concern can only make you bear some more grievances, which has no meaning.

    Either explain it or let him go!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you want to explain, but in fact, the more you explain and the more you can't explain it, the other party may not believe it even if you say it, so let it be.

    Because there is really nothing he can do, when he really finds out one day that it was actually that classmate's fault, it doesn't have much impact on him, I still want to believe in my friend who trusted me from the beginning, rather than a friend who is always skeptical and questioning.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You can explain that people who are willing to believe in you will naturally believe you, and it doesn't matter if people don't want to believe in you. No one can be understood by everyone, all things can be misunderstood, we just need to do ourselves well, not coldly do our own thing, but really look down on the eyes of others.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Some things don't need much explanation, time will tell.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    From the school's point of view, you're right about the hall.

    But if you want to have a good relationship with your classmates, this is not right, they will think that you are not righteous enough. A class will also complain, so it will be difficult to get along with you.

    If those men are more mixed, you may get revenge. If not, at most ignore you, and they may make a big splash in the class about taking a wide stool to sue you. Then your relationships will be mixed.

    You should get the interpersonal relationships between your classmates right and see if doing so is good or bad for them?

    After all, at this age, friend. Classmates, it's a piece of heaven.

    You know it's your fault. Don't blame yourself so much, after all, it's happened. Just do your own thing and don't mess with them.

    You'd better not take the opportunity to explain anything, they will think it's hypocritical!

    Go your own way,

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It seems that you care a lot about this friend of yours, I don't think you can blindly accommodate him, if you are right, you have to talk to him well, everyone says what they think in their hearts, if you blindly coax him to explain, then the matter will never end, you will encounter more than this, more depressed things, everyone should accommodate each other, can not rely on their own alone to accommodate, otherwise he will think that you should be like this, he will not regret it, Maybe you will find it a little difficult for me to accept this, but this is a fact, otherwise you will be more sad in the future, you can't escape, you have to learn to face it, ask him out to have a good talk, pay attention to the tone, ease up, I think your friends will accept it, and you will get better between you, come on (*