Lost in love, seven years of affection, help me

Do you know what it means to run for 7 years? It means that your relationship has entered a dangerous period.

He may love you, but because of his family relationship, he has not married you for a long time, and he is not engaged.

In 7 years, it is conceivable that your relationship has reached the limit, that is, the boredom period, I myself have been in love for more than 5 years, and I often quarrel, but I will definitely reconcile on the 2nd day. I have always been firm in my vow that I will marry her and give her a lifetime of happiness.

What I can't figure out is, why is your boyfriend so ruthless, 7 years of saying that he will divide it, doesn't it contain reluctance?

The words he said, I personally think are just words of comfort.

It's been 7 years, and your emotional experience is very rich, and if you fall in love again, you won't be in this situation.

Oh, yes. Seven years! What a deep feeling!

He has become a part of your life, and losing him is just as painful as losing a loved one. If you really want to redeem him, if you still have love, family, life, and work problems, you should work side by side to get through the difficulties. You're only hurting your body and mind like this now, so talk to him openly and honestly.

If he still cares about you, you can talk about your shortcomings and discuss solutions. If he doesn't want to be with you anymore, then forget about him and let time heal all the wounds.

I sympathize with you, my four-year relationship is gone. Every word he said felt hopeful to me. You can't go on like this. It's true. If you can, you can see a psychiatrist, have a chat, and find happiness again.

You first understand why his family doesn't like you, and see if you can find a way to change and let his family know that you are changing.

If you can't, you have to let it go, and don't give yourself any more illusions.

After all, it is difficult to disobey the orders of parents, but if you truly love each other, bless each other, or try to persuade your parents

If you don't want to give up love, you don't want to give up your parents.

Why didn't your parents let you stay together. That's where you start. Solving this problem ...

Don't give up ... I envy you for loving each other with all sincerity ... As long as you think of a way there is always ...

It's because the family doesn't agree! Many lovers will face this kind of difficulty, if you do have a deep love, I suggest you elope (this has to be done after doing ideological work with your parents, if it really doesn't make sense), not to say that you don't want this home if you elope, if you have the crystallization of love, plus a long time, they will naturally accept it. Is that parent really willing to give up their child?

It's round, treat the elders well!

Just take it as a temporary separation, relax yourself, and wait patiently for fate to come.

It's hard to say about feelings. Personally, I think that everything in this regard is fate, and the melons that are picked are not sweet. What's yours is always yours. If it's not yours, you can't get it.

Because of the family, you will give up your seven-year relationship! Be strong, be realistic, be brave, and support you.

If you really love each other, don't care about your family or anything, just trust your own ideas.

If it were me, I would face life with the best attitude, crying and crying, but life would be better and more beautiful, waiting for him to come back or welcome a new life, instead of crying every day, so that good luck would cry and cry gone, he would not come back by crying; Either you actively strive for it, or you give up quickly.

Twisted melons are not sweet, but it's better than no melons at all.

My hand is divided. It's very similar to your situation. But it was she who proposed to break up.

I'm feeling lost right now. This is what she said in her blog, "The people who love me, the people I love, but unfortunately I don't keep them." I was so emotional, my sanity didn't help, at least I was happy for a while.

Everyone came and went around me, either too quickly or too late, leaving me alone. Finally, there is a chance to let yourself settle again. I thought that as long as I found a boyfriend who felt it, I could walk on a flat and normal road.

But the reality is a joke with me, it turns out that this kind of relationship is not just me and him talking about the old alone. His circle of life, my circle of life, must be integrated. But this is a super invincible and complicated process, I am afraid of trouble, I hate to face reality, I like to escape, pretend to be reckless.

The road ahead is too dangerous for me to close my eyes and pretend I can't see. ”.She felt like a virgin who had saved me.

But in the eyes of any outsider, it is stupid.

Ask him if it's not over, why is he alone in the agony of thinking? And now it's not a question of whether you want to or not, but whether you can actually be together in a real situation. In seven years, if he really loves you, he will either mention marriage to you a long time ago, instead of leaving a way out for himself and not letting you go.

Falling out of love is something that everyone will encounter, and no one is happy after falling out of love. I hope that you will soon come out of this difficult situation and be strong to find your true place.

You're wrong, it's a big mistake, even if he loves you, his family doesn't agree with him, he can only don't want you, that's just an excuse for a man to change his mind, otherwise he is not a man, why throw away the whole forest for a bent tree, girls must learn to be strong, but also to keep their eyes open.

Go to a psychiatrist, but find a good doctor, don't do this again, if you go on like this, even if you can see each other in the future, as you said, you may already be sick.

Use work to numb yourself, do two jobs, and don't give yourself time to be idle Time will smooth everything, or eliminate everything, and the two of them will live together.

I think if he really loves you and cares about you, he'll come back to you;

Feelings can only be interpreted by time, and many things do not have to be rushed.

Seven years? Three thousand beauties in the harem. The rod of iron shall also be sharpened into a needle.

The meaning of that sentence was that he gave up.

If you are depressed because of falling out of love, resulting in a loss of ambition, or if you lose your upward confidence, then your career will also abandon you, and you will lose more things because of falling out of love. If you are out of love, you must not lose your ambition.

Falling out of love is not a loss of morality After falling out of love, there is no need to worry about the past. Falling out of love is very painful and angry, but no matter how painful and angry it is, you can't do something stupid about it. Because this will not only not relieve the pain, but will violate morality and human nature, and even violate the criminal law, making you appear very ignorant and ignorant.

After falling out of love, let everything become a thing of the past, no matter how hurt and painful it is, don't look back, not everyone can eat back grass, so it's better to be an ordinary friend who is as plain as water.

Falling out of love doesn't lose yourself Love is gone, you still have yourself. This may be a bit narcissistic. But if you don't love yourself, how can you expect others to love you?

No matter what the reason for the breakup, the first thing to do is to make sure that you still love yourself. You must eat the three meals you should eat on time, and go to bed obediently when you should go to bed, and if you can't sleep and listen to **, it's better than crying secretly without a trace. Only by making yourself better can you reap new love, so please remember to cherish yourself more after falling out of love.

Maintain an optimistic, open-minded and healthy attitude Although love is written in ** is extremely beautiful, there are actually very few people who are really in love. Look into the distance, don't dwell on the frustration of love in front of you. In addition, calmly analyzing the reasons for the loss of love in the past and learning some lessons will also help to be cheerful.