Can you find a reason for me not to lend her money?

Be brave and bold to say it"Nope"It's time, now you are still a student, and in the future, there will be such people in society, do you want to deal with such people? In society, colleagues despise such people very much, no one sympathizes with you If you don't borrow it, no one will say that yours is not On the contrary, if you still lend to such a person, others will say that you have a problem

This kind of person values your money You just find a reason to say that you won't borrow her in the future See how she reflects If she holds a grudge against you because of this, then you are definitely not worth asking for such a person If she doesn't hold a grudge Or still begs you to help her Or she is really poor and has no money to eat, you can give her a little less Besides, there is no future in junior high school After the high school entrance examination, you may have your own things.

Think about it, she can be embarrassed to borrow money and not pay it back, why are you embarrassed not to borrow? It's obvious that she's cheap, so there's nothing to be embarrassed about!

Then you should stop borrowing from her, and you can tell her clearly that you only have enough money to buy your own food!

It's just that you've always been embarrassed to say that she keeps asking you to borrow it. You can tell her that I didn't have much money with me this time, just enough to eat for myself. In the past, you borrowed mine, and forget it. * (You don't expect her to pay it back anyway, it's a good thing not to borrow it in the future.)

In addition, others say that the best way to ruin a friendship is to borrow money from him, and she doesn't treat you as a friend because of this. So you don't have to be embarrassed.

You're embarrassed once, and then it's easy.

One has to learn to say no! The people who keep saying yes are too timid.

To borrow or not to borrow, depending on two prerequisites:

First, what is the character of this boyfriend (or girlfriend).

Suppose you are a woman and he is your boyfriend. Whether to borrow money or not depends on his character. Usually, they do what they say. Moreover, it is not enough to pass the blame on everything. This kind of person is still relatively reliable. It doesn't hurt to borrow.

Second, how emotional you are.

You're already very much in love, and of course you don't have much to think about borrowing money. If you get married in the future, the money will also be owned by the co-owner. Let's not talk about it so long-term, everyone needs to be rescued in the rivers and lakes.

The fact that he was able to open his mouth to find you is also because you have a good relationship. Whatever you can, help. If this person's character is not good, and you have not developed to that point, it is better not to borrow, otherwise you will lose not only money, but also feelings.

It's better not to, you obviously have a lot of people to borrow, parents, brothers, girlfriends, relatives, why choose boyfriend and girlfriend? This is obviously a very embarrassing situation, but you are biased towards Tiger Mountain. If the other person speculates about your mind because of this, don't blame it.

Whoever changes will think more, the key is not the problem of money, but the fear that the other party will cheat money under the brand of feelings.

Of course, some boyfriends and girlfriends are still in a good relationship after borrowing money and are married. One is to look at the person, and the other is to look at the emotional status at the time. If you have already talked about marriage and really need money to save an emergency, the other party's attitude is very sincere, the reason is also very real, and you will also write an IOU and say when you will pay it back, as long as you trust him or her, you can borrow it.

After all, this is your personal matter, and it's more or less like a game game. Think about it yourself, what are you going to do if he doesn't pay you back? Think about the worst outcome, just be able to bear it and face it, don't really don't get back to you alive and still ask you to borrow you.

Thank you for your question!

If you have a good relationship with each other, you can borrow it. However, make it clear in advance that this money is only borrowed, and the return date must be clear.

The author believes that people will encounter difficulties at times! So, if conditions allow, you can reach out appropriately! So, as a boy, you don't have to think too much.

The woman is asking you to borrow money just to alleviate the current predicament, which has nothing to do with whether she has a boyfriend or not. There are many girls who are more independent and reluctant to ask their boyfriends for help.

So, as long as you make it clear to the other party, you don't have to think too much about the rest. If you don't want to borrow it, you should politely decline! Thank you!

It also depends on the specific situation, if it is in that situation, she can indeed lend her because she did not bring money for dinner. If she is not in this situation, it is because after talking about her boyfriend, her salary is not enough to spend, so she has no money, and this situation cannot be lent to her, so she has no moderation in daily life and is not a very reliable person.

Look at her character, 200 is not much, if there is no problem to lend to her, it doesn't matter, after all, everyone has difficulties, but it is good to borrow and repay, if it is not good to repay the money, don't lend it to her next time.

Judging from the situation you said, since you are colleagues, then borrowing 200 yuan for dinner is completely okay. Because this amount is not particularly large, colleagues should help each other.

If it's the first time you're borrowing, you can consider borrowing it, but if you don't pay it back, you won't borrow it again next time.

You should lend him it, because it's only 200 yuan, and it's not a lot of money, and you're colleagues, he shouldn't pay you back the money, and after all, people care that you borrowed 200 yuan, it's not too much money to refuse.

I think that since it is between colleagues, the other party has already opened up to ask you to borrow money, and it must be in urgent need of money.

And the money is not very much, not 20,000 or 2,000, but 200 yuan can be lent to her.

If it is the first time for her to borrow money for dinner, she must be temporarily short of money, and the amount is not much, so it is recommended that you lend her it. If she often borrows money like this and doesn't repay it on time, it is recommended that you borrow less or not at all.

Should I lend him money? I think I borrowed 200 yuan between colleagues. I think I should be able to lend him money, should I lend him money?

I think I borrowed 200 yuan between colleagues. I think I should be able to borrow it, should I lend him money? I think I can borrow 200 yuan between colleagues, I think it should be possible to borrow, this is within your ability, I think you can borrow him, after all, it is a colleague.

If it's just a simple borrowing between colleagues, I think it's okay, after all, 200 yuan is not much, and if you have more, you won't borrow it. And you can't ask him to be your girlfriend just because of these 200 yuan, it's not realistic.

No one can borrow money, except for your parents, brothers and sisters, you and her are just ordinary people, and you are not obliged to lend her money.

I should lend him money, 200 yuan is not much, if he needs it. Then you lend it to him, and it should also be among colleagues.

You can borrow, but you can't borrow it again in the future, since it's a friend, then help once, and don't borrow it next time.

Of course, I have to lend him money, because after all, I am friends with him, so I still have to lend him money if I really need it.

Why do you care if someone has a boyfriend or not? If you feel like you're having a good time together. I will lend it to her, but in today's society, the money lent out should not be returned one day. That way you won't be sad.

If it is a good relationship, you can borrow, if the relationship is generally better, it is better not to borrow, after all, money is such a thing, and there are very few people who lend it out and return it back!

It depends on your usual relationship with him, if the relationship is good and the loan will be returned to you, then it's okay, if you borrow once and don't pay it back, you can directly refuse it later.

If you think about this situation, of course, you can lend him money, because you are colleagues in the first place. It's okay for colleagues to help each other.

Ah, if you have a good relationship, it's okay to borrow money from him, and when everyone is in trouble, if he speaks, it's embarrassing to borrow money.

If it's someone you're familiar with, you can lend her an IOU to write.

If it's someone you don't know well, you can borrow it or not take it.

Look for yourself, 200 yuan is not too much and not too little, depending on what kind of person he is, he can borrow it, and if he thinks it shouldn't be borrowed, he won't borrow.

Look at the people. First of all, how long have you known each other, how much do you know about her, and has she worked in your company through the probationary period? If you don't have it, don't borrow it!

Of course, if you think her character is okay, you can lend it to her. Another question is, she has a boyfriend, why does she want to borrow money from you?

When you are in society, everyone may encounter difficulties, and sometimes you will face colleagues or friends borrowing money from you, and to be honest, it is really embarrassing.

If you don't borrow this money, you may not be able to turn over your life, and if you don't borrow it, it seems that it will become very embarrassing to meet often, and this dilemma must be more effective, and we must not offend people to refuse.

One way is to tell this friend straightforwardly, now that he is also in a more difficult period, he directly and clearly refuses, or he can directly tell the other party that he has recently bought some relatively large things, so his money has been spent.

After all, I think everyone has a hard time, and it's understandable if you don't borrow it.

If you are a person with a family and your friends borrow money from you, but you don't want to borrow it in your heart, you can tell the other party that you don't take care of your family's money, but this method can't be used often, otherwise the other party may misunderstand your family.

Money is really not easy to lend to others, unless you know clearly in your heart that the other party is a person who knows each other very well and knows the roots, otherwise it will be too cost-effective to make two people turn against each other because of borrowing money.

Nowadays, there are too many people who turn against each other because of borrowing money, and the other party's attitude may be very good when borrowing money, but when you need to use money to urge the other party to repay the money, it will make the other party feel uncomfortable.

Of course, if you have spare time, you can actually listen carefully to the other party's reason for borrowing money, even if you don't want to borrow money in your heart, but you must not be too impatient, at least there must be a relationship between friends, to see if you can help with advice, in fact, it is your right to see or not to see.

You can say that you have lent your money to a relative, or you can say that the money has been used for investment, and you have to let the other party know that you really have no money to lend him.

You can directly say to the other person that borrowing money is not a trivial matter, and this money is important to me, and I plan to use this money to buy a house, so I can't lend it to you.

You should follow your true thoughts in your heart and explain your difficulties to the other party tactfully, so that the other party can understand you.

It can be said that he has stayed at home for a while and has not gone out to work, so he has no financial income, and he will lend him money when he has money in the future.

There are generally two types of problems:

1. If the person who borrows money from you is a very important person to you, a good friend of you, someone close to you, and so on. Treat them directly, you can refuse directly, and be sure to explain your difficulties, and be sure to make him feel that you are really embarrassed. Because they borrow money from you, they really treat you as a close person, and if you really lend it to him and help him, then in his heart, it will naturally rise in his favor of you again.

2. As for those who are not very important, you must refuse directly, remember to be simple, as for explaining anything, you don't have to, because even if you explain it clearly, he will not accept your affection, he will only care whether you lend it to him or not, this is the reality, and most people are like this. Also, as an adult, you really have to learn to refuse, learn to classify the people around you, and make good trade-offs. Treat those who are close to you more attentively, treat people who are not very good, and scatter when you should disperse, after all, the sky is high and the sea is wide, and it is no big deal.

The above is purely a personal point of view, and it is also a small summary of so many years, I hope readers can learn from the worst, and I hope that it can really help those in need, uncover the knot, and live a better life.

Straight refusal...

It's not fun to procrastinate.

Whatever the reason you don't want to borrow....But there is a reason for the total wisdom.

Is it interesting to force your friends?

Why force yourself....

Everywhere comes to the round and the blue is everywhere....

Good luck with the new orange year!