How to give girls a sense of security? How to give girls a sense of security?

Do you know what a girl is? Do you know what true security is?

When a woman has saved up enough disappointments and is insecure, then the woman will choose to leave. Men should be single-minded about their women, and only by being emotionally dedicated and caring for their women can they truly rest assured that their women can be truly reassured.

You don't have to do anything deliberately, until the time of the real crisis, how will he know that you are insecure, just don't back down when the time comes.

Women lose confidence in men, most of them are because men can't give women a sense of security, learn to give women a sense of security, men must understand!

Practice to be stronger, give people the first feeling that it will be safer.

What is a sense of security in a relationship?

First, realism. It is whether your words and deeds are consistent, especially whether you have done what you promised the other party, even if you can't fulfill your promise right away, but you must at least have a plan and actual action, and be willing to work hard for it.

Second, a sense of presence. It is whether you have him in your current and future plans, and can make him perceive you and put her in a very important place in your heart.

As a simple example, if when he asks you about your future plans, all you say about your future is not what you will do, then he is likely to feel insecure next.

Third, a sense of need. The sense of need here is not what she needs from you, but what you need from him. You will find that when your sense of need decreases, for example, when you start to stop looking for her as actively as you used to, she will become insecure because your behavior has caused him to suffer from gains and losses.

A person's lack of security about you means that he pays a lot of attention to you, after all, no one will invest too much emotion, especially security, in a person who they don't pay much attention to.

Therefore, when the other party has a lack of security, I suggest that you still think carefully about whether there is something wrong with your words and deeds, and if so, find out and solve it immediately, rather than putting the other person aside and letting him heal himself. After all, most of the time the sense of security is not self-replenishing, but it does drain itself.

1. Don't bother, don't talk about it:

As a boy, if you want to give a girl a sense of security, the first thing is to strictly ask yourself not to mess with flowers, let alone talk to other friends of the opposite sex in front of your girlfriend, which will make your girlfriend feel insecure.

In real life, don't be distracted, don't chat with other friends of the opposite sex, restrain yourself on the Internet mobile phone, don't be ambiguous with other friends of the opposite sex, pay attention to the words you say, and avoid making your girlfriend jealous and having no sense of security.

3. The mobile phone can be checked by the girlfriend at any time

When a girl is insecure, her favorite thing to do may be to check each other's mobile phones, so as a boy wants to give his girlfriend a sense of security, his mobile phone password girlfriend should know, and when checking, the boy should not refuse, and behave happily.

4. Always care about your girlfriend and don't lose contact:

If you want to give girls a sense of security, what boys must do is to care about their girlfriends at all times, so that their girlfriends feel that boys love them, especially when girls are sick and need to be taken care of, and don't turn off their mobile phones and lose contact, especially when the two have conflicts.

5. Remember your girlfriend's birthday and have a good day to remember:

If you want to give a girl a sense of security, the boy must remember his girlfriend's birthday, give her a surprise on her birthday, and have to have some other festivals, such as Valentine's Day, the first meeting, the day of love, etc., to accompany her, and if you can't accompany her, you have to give a ** greeting and blessing.

6. Don't be arrogant in front of your girlfriend and show your advantages everywhere:

In fact, girls have no sense of security, mainly because boys are better, so boys should not show too many of their advantages and advantages in front of their girlfriends, let alone be arrogant, and feel that they are amazing.

1. Men can't cheat on girlsIn the process of getting along, men should be honest with girls, and do not deceive in any case, so as to give girls a sense of security;

2. Men's attitudes towards girls should be consistentMen not only need to care for girls at the beginning, but as the two people spend more time together, men still have to maintain this caring attitude;

3. Men should be loyal to their feelingsIn life, men should keep a long enough distance from other members of the opposite sex, and if they want to meet other members of the opposite sex, they should also tell their lovers;

4. Men should be able to take responsibilityMen need to take responsibility for girls in life, and they need to help girls solve some difficulties in life;

5. Men should be self-motivated enoughAt work, men should be self-motivated enough and be able to fight for their careers, so that girls can have enough security in their hearts;

6. Men should not have too strong desire to controlMen should give girls a certain amount of personal space in their lives, and don't have too strong desire to control, otherwise it will make the girl insecure.

Do you know what a girl is? Do you know what true security is?

Spend more time with her, go shopping with him a lot, and stick to her, otherwise all promises will be empty talk.

A1Luo Li, the heroine of "Divorce Lawyer", who is financially independent, once said a classic line: "It is better to marry a rich man than to make herself rich, and a woman can only gain a real sense of security if she is independent in personality and economy."

Indeed, smart women know that instead of spending time and energy to please men, it is better to manage themselves well and make themselves a woman with a sense of accomplishment. Because, they know that only by being financially independent can they not be overly dependent on men. Many girls are often afraid that boys will leave them, to put it bluntly, they lack the sense of material security brought by men, and only when a girl has enough material foundation, she will not be afraid.

The reason why women in ancient times were so suppressed was that they had no income and could not live independently. 2.Self-love requires a strong heart and a rich spiritual world.

People who know how to love themselves will love others well, and at the same time, they will also attract others to love themselves well. No matter who you study, work and live with, you will have a strong self. I believe that I have the right to enjoy the grandeur of feelings, and I also have the ability to bear the loneliness of a person.

I'm happy to have you; I'm just fine without you. 3.If an independent-minded woman wants to feel secure, she must be able to.

Giving girls a sense of security, I think, can only be understood, unspeakable, a sense of security is a mental state, and the heart is in this girl.

A sense of security means that everything has a response, and everything has a fall. But it's also a mental reliance. A sense of security is a feeling in our hearts, we have to rely on him in life, feel that he is the whole in life, as long as he is where he is not afraid.

So security is a response to everything, but more of a feeling. Because of this feeling, I will have more strength to do something. We should bring a sense of security to the people around us in life, so that the people around us live a very happy life!

Our lives can be happier!

Most girls want to feel secure in love, for example, she will hope that you will contact me when you wake up, and she will tell me when you are busy, everything has an explanation, everything has a fall, and everything has a response.

A sense of security means that you will not be afraid that this person will hurt you when he is very close to you, and you will not be afraid that he will leave you when he is far away from you.

There are also some girls who feel very secure when they are alone, and when they fall in love, they don't have any sense of security at all! Especially when you meet unreliable people, it will take away all your sense of security. Sudden cold and hot and cold, if it is about to leave, it seems to be nothing.

It always makes you feel that something is wrong, but you can't say that something is wrong, so you start blaming yourself for thinking too much! At this time, you are often the most insecure.

Spend more time with her and listen to her.

What exactly is a sense of security? It is a psychological need for stability and security, and a girl's sense of security can be analyzed from two levels: the practical level and the spiritual level.

First, the reality level:

1.Enough substance.

Only when the most basic material needs have been solved can there be spiritual pursuits. If you go out on every date and worry about saving money on a movie ticket, is this kind of love really happy?

2.Blatant favoritism.

Every girl wants to be the one he loves the most, and even often asks her boyfriend, "Me and your ex-girlfriend, who do you love more?" Only if each other is good enough, can they live up to the time.

3.Distance and companionship.

The loss of security is very much the result of long-distance couples. Once you have a partner, you will have a strong sense of "possessiveness" and "dependence" uncontrollably

Strive to find a spiritual fit with each other, rely on the unfavorable growth, complementarity is the best medicine.

Second, the divine level.

1.Stable relationships.

The vast majority of boys are not as careful as girls, and sometimes it is not that he does not think about it, but that he does not think about it as carefully as girls. Step by step, slowly accept that they are getting better, and always have each other in their hearts.

2.A sense of ritual and surprise.

The vast majority of boys are not as careful as girls, and sometimes it is not that he does not think about it, but that he does not think about it as carefully as girls.

Three, then why do girls tend to be insecure?

1.Previous emotional frustration.

2.The influence of the family of origin.

3.Without a life of one's own, it's easy to think too much.

4.The other party's indifferent attitude.

5.Inferiority.

Fourth, I would like to give you a few suggestions at the end:

1.Girls must have their own careers and lives.

2.Financially independent.

3.Learn to dress yourself up and be confident.

4.Think more empathetically.

5.Reduce the time of emotion.

Do more and think less, many questions are figured out by yourself, and when you find that you are starting to feel emotionally wrong, you should divert your attention and give yourself a little rational time.

Just do what you need to do and what you can do, think more and do more.