After a divorce, how to adjust your mindset?

Too impulsive you, he hasn't even admitted to being unfaithful to you, you have already vetoed his persuasion, and never gave him a chance to explain, but since things have come to this point, the responsibility of the man cannot be shirked, and the division and combination are your fate, and this speed has also removed all kinds of conflicts that will appear in your life later, this blow will be your important life experience, and divorce is another turning point in your life, since you know your shortcomings, you will slowly improve it, In real life, too much pursuit of perfection will be hurt, happiness will inevitably be discounted, live your own life, you will get back together, and there must be someone more suitable for you than him waiting for you, so divert your attention to life and work, divorce is nothing, your life still has a good prospect, do more of what you like to do, or go out to travel and change the environment to feel the beauty of nature, don't be discouraged. Come on!

1. Try to get out of the victim complex, let go of the past and learn to love yourself. 2. Plan a divorce negotiation, explain the reasons to the other party, and draw an end to the marriage, including remembering the life they once shared, facing the marital problems, and looking forward to the future cooperative relationship between the two people.

My wife and I got a marriage license during my service, but we didn't get married. I just changed jobs in 2009 and returned to the place, she did have an external pregnancy outside and was discovered by me, and the husband and wife quarreled, and she did sue me to the court for divorce. I still don't want to leave...

She sued me in court for three reasons: First, we got married after only ten days of acquaintance. Second, she said that I didn't believe her and suspected that she had an external pregnancy outside.

3. He said that I sent text messages to threaten and intimidate her family... Funny

We must make reasonable arrangements for our life and work, maintain a positive attitude towards life, start anew, and start anew.

You can also make some plans by yourself and adjust them according to the plan, which is more likely to be successful if it has a certain degree of compulsion.

After the divorce, you can give yourself a period of rest, spend more time with your family or go out to travel alone, and you can adjust your mentality.

You should give yourself a correct psychological guidance, tell yourself that the stop loss is actually the best result, and you need to improve yourself without recklessness, and you will meet better people after the hall is sold.

I think we should put our minds and souls into the work, so that there will be a good adjustment to the evils, and it will also allow us to forget about this unhappy marriage as soon as possible.

After the divorce, I lived alone, and I wanted to meet new friends so that I would no longer be lonely and lonely.