Why do some girls take a long time to reply to messages? What is the psychology?

I feel that the other party has been replying to your message for a long time, it should be deliberately alienating you, and it should be trying to give up your relationship and make you give up.

My ex-girlfriend Xiaomei and I also went through this for a while, and then we separated. It's my ex-girlfriend Xiaomei who I'm pursuing, at that time we were both juniors, and I felt like we were going to separate in a year, and if I didn't fall in love, there would be no chance, so I had the courage to pursue the girl I liked, Xiaomei.

Under my pursuit, Xiaomei agreed to be my girlfriend, trying to get in touch, at first he also actively cooperated with me and me to fall in love, and sent messages in seconds, but after about a month, slowly, the other party replied to my messages for a long time, and sometimes replied to my messages the next day.

It's definitely hard for me to accept such a situation, so I actively confessed to him, actively pursued, and finally, Xiaomei had to tell me that we were not suitable, and hoped that I could give up this relationship, Xiaomei also praised me for being very good, but she was not worthy of me, and now I think about it and it feels very ridiculous.

But I'm very lucky,After breaking up with Xiaomi,In my senior year, I started again,Started a new love pursuit Xiaomi,Xiaomi's reply to my messages are all seconds back,Never more than a minute,Now I have become my wife,Now our children are four years old,A family of three lives very happily。

So when this girl replied to your message for a long time, the other party should just want to alienate you and don't want to continue with you. At this time, you can choose to leave silently, hoping that you can find a girlfriend who likes you.

Some girls will reply to boys for a long time, and it may be that girls have taken a means of indulging in boys, so girls don't like to reply to boys' messages immediately, creating an illusion of gain and loss for boys, so that girls can easily control boys.

Some girls will only reply to a message for a long time, and they don't explain the reason why they don't reply to messages for so long, so there is only one reason is whether the girl doesn't take you to heart at all, so she is too lazy to reply to you.

There are only two reasons for this.

The first one she was really busy.

There are many people who think that if you like me, you should be with me every day. Actually, no, the girl also has her own work and life, she can't keep replying to your messages on her mobile phone 24 hours a day, she will also have her own life, and she also needs to take care of it. This is because she is objectively busy, and she doesn't give you a timely reply to your message.

The second one, as you might think, is that she's really not interested in you, and that's nothing to be anxious about.

Looking at the first one on the other hand, if she really doesn't reply to you because she is busy, then you have nothing to worry about, and her inner state has not changed in any way towards your feelings;

Second, if this girl, she doesn't write back to you because she is not interested, you have nothing to be anxious about.

If you become very anxious and entangled with someone who has never been interested in you, this time it will be more than worth the loss.

When a girl takes a long time to reply to your message, unless she is occasionally busy with something, she doesn't take you to heart. Maybe he's chatting with someone else at the same time, and you're at the back of the line.

It is necessary to analyze the situation on a case-by-case basis. Sometimes it's really something, and I don't see the news, but it usually won't be more than half a day without replying. If you haven't replied for too long, I just don't want to talk to you.

Some girls will only reply to messages for a long time, and if they will reply to messages for a long time, they generally feel that they don't value you, at least they don't have you in their hearts. For a friend like you, it's a feeling of dispensability, so it will take a long time to reply to your message.

If there is a girl who takes a long time to reply to your message, of course, he has some things delayed, or this girl is a very inactive girl, and she doesn't want to contact you too often.

As a girl, I think I can say it, because many girls don't know anything, so I have to think about it, his dad said the wrong thing, I feel embarrassed, the girl's mind is more delicate, and there is another reason that I am really busy and have no time.

It took a long time for a girl to reply to your message explaining that she didn't take you seriously, let alone a friend, and she didn't take it a long time to reply because she wasn't interested in you. Or chatting with you is a waste of time, so it takes a long time to reply to your message.

It's not that all girls are willing to take a long time to reply. Sometimes they don't look at their phones all the time. Maybe they're studying, maybe they're working and can't reply to messages in a timely manner, it's all a normal phenomenon.

So you don't have to guess for yourself. It took a long time to reply to the message because they were busy.

There are more men and fewer women, women are not short of men, it is normal to go back for a long time, unless she likes you very much, she is unwilling to delete it means that she has not thought about which man to choose better, she is choosing!

Why do many girls take a long time to reply to messages? When they get married, they either have something to do, or they really don't have time, or sometimes they don't want to go back to you, or they feel that they don't want to go back, and they just don't feel comfortable going back to you.

There are several kinds of psychology about this: it's possible that she's shopping and doesn't have time to reply to messages, it's possible that she's with someone else, it's inconvenient to reply to messages, it's possible that she's playing games, she doesn't have time to reply to messages, and it's possible that she doesn't like you and doesn't want to reply to messages.

Although it is said that many girls nowadays do not reply to messages for a long time, it is normal because you are not his dearest person, so he thinks that your messages can be replied or not.

I think this is mainly to look at what kind of information, for example, if you want someone else to transfer money, you will be slower to receive, I think it's not good to be too fast, and the other party can actually reply a little slower in the information age that is insignificant, unless there is an emergency.

I just don't like to take care of you, and she is the kind of person who is arrogant, always everyone holds her very high, and she is used to it, so she will be so disrespectful, and one day she will suffer, and then you can understand that people are equal, which is called hindsight!

She may have been on silent on her phone during class.

She may be doing something important.

She may, reluctant to reply, has socialized with others.

She may look down on you.

Ah, if a lot of time, a girl sent you a message, and he sent you a message after a while, then it is likely that this girl doesn't actually have any feelings for you.

Because I am not interested, I am definitely not willing to chat if I am not interested, and since I am not willing to chat, I must be slow to reply to messages.

Only if the other party is interested will they be willing to chat, and the reply will be timely.

People don't play with their mobile phones all the time, waiting for your message to reply to you, and they don't see it for a long time, and they will generally reply to you when they see it.

Why? Why do some girls take a long time to reply to messages? What is the psychology? Personally, I think that some girls take a long time to reply to messages, and sometimes they don't have time to reply to messages because they are busy with work.

It shows that these girls know how to protect themselves, or maybe she is busy.

Maybe I didn't see it! Maybe I'm busy with something else! Maybe it's not wanting to reply to the message. In this way, the girl's mind is hard to guess.

I think it's busy, after all, we have a lot of things to do besides love, work, and study are very important.

This shows that you are not the person she thinks you are, just an ordinary friend.

Either I didn't see it, or I didn't know how to reply to you, or I didn't want to have too much contact.

In a relationship, if a guy doesn't like a person, he won't be overly enthusiastic about that person, let alone take the initiative or have other emotions.

And once he is emotional, it will become different, he will become very naïve, very jealous, or very concerned about your affairs, want to see you all the time, and will be very happy every time he sees you, these obvious signals are proof that he likes you.

Some girls are often unsure whether a guy loves her or not, but it's as simple as seeing if he will be different from you, or whether he will react emotionally to you.

If he doesn't like you, he will be very indifferent to you, and he will ignore you, and when he likes you completely, he will feel that you are the most important thing, and he will not see anything else in his eyes.

Guys like you completely, often, there are three obvious signals.

1. Naivety. There is a saying that love will make people become children, which means that the person who is completely in love with you, because he likes you, he will become very naïve, he will become jealous, he will not like you to be with other members of the opposite sex, this is the exclusivity of love.

Second, take the initiative. If he loves you, even if you don't take the initiative, he will take the initiative to find you again and again, because he will be afraid of losing you, afraid that if he doesn't take the initiative to find you, he will never be able to contact you again.

When he doesn't love you, he naturally won't take the initiative, "Isn't it good to play games and chase dramas, why should he take the initiative to contact you", this may be his true thoughts, right?

This is the old saying, you can't wake up a person who is pretending to be asleep, and you can't make someone you don't like to like you, in this case, giving up is the best choice.

If he's not been proactive enough with you, if you've taken ninety-nine steps and he won't take a step forward, forget it, it's not worth it.

3. Be attentive. The strongest expression of someone who is completely in love with you is that they are attentive.

He will put you in the most important position, he will take your business as his own, he will do everything he can to protect you, this is all his love for you.

In a relationship, the best two words are intentions, only with intentions, you can feel his love, and only with intentions can you know that he really loves you.

Lin Yan met a man who put her in his heart, no matter when, he would think about Lin Yan, and he would bring back delicious and fun things to her, even if he was on a business trip, he didn't forget to bring her gifts.

Sometimes the gifts he brings are not what Lin Yan wants, but as long as he has this heart, she is happy enough and will cherish the gifts he gave her.

If you really fall in love with someone, you will naturally be attentive to her, and you will naturally give her all the good, in your heart, she is the most important person.

When a guy completely likes you, he will have these obvious signals: naïve, active, and attentive, and these are also the most basic requirements in love.

If he loves you, it is not difficult to do this, and most of them can be done naturally, and it will not feel reluctant; If he doesn't love you, even if you force it, he will only perfunctory you.

Whether a person is sincere to you is very simple, you can understand it by looking at the details, I hope you can meet such a boy who is attentive to you, and be happy together for a lifetime.

Girls sometimes reply to messages, sometimes they don't, which means that girls also have something to do, and they have to do their own things, and not everything can be replied to in time, so we should understand each other.

How do you say the question, she is a mother of two children, and she has started to be enthusiastic about me, and now I am either busy sending messages, or I reply to one for half a day, and I asked her if you still like me, and she said she likes.

I've been asking questions for more than 20 days.

What do you say I'm going to do, am I deflated, or wait for her to contact me, I don't want to keep texting her.

Question: We don't live together I'm with her We've already had sex I want to know if I don't have to send her a message I also told her to send you a message and don't reply I'm always busy and I don't answer when I call ** I said I won't message you anymore I said send me a message when you have time.

She still talks to me today, and she won't talk to me after two sentences, and you say I don't want to bother her anymore, and her heart is not with me at all.

Ask me what to do.

So, in fact, if there is less communication between the two, it is normal, but you can take the initiative to reduce the communication with him, of course, he will find that your enthusiasm for him is also reduced, and she will think about whether she has done something wrong.

Because women are actually very emotional, when you suddenly reduce your attention to him or take the initiative to communicate with him, he will definitely be aware, and then he will definitely reflect on the problems behind him, and he will also take the initiative to try to redeem, that is, take the initiative to communicate with you.

Sometimes the girl replies to the message, sometimes does not reply to the message, indicating that he may sometimes be very busy and does not have the time to reply to the message, or it is possible that he is not so concerned about the message you send, and he only remembers to give you a reply when he is really free, if there is something else or he doesn't want to reply, he will not reply, which may also indicate that he is still not so close to you.

That is to see if the girl is free, I think the girl should spend more time on work or study, and less time to look at the phone, so when I am free, I see the news and think it is important Liu Hui, and I don't go back if it's not important. She has a very peaceful mentality, and she also has a clear sense of priority.