A little encouragement on the road to growth can often give people infinite strength in composition

Listen attentively, the world is worth listening to; Coming into this world is worth listening to.

Listen to the chirping of insects and birds, and feel the joy of life; Listen to the flowers bloom and experience the change of seasons; Listen to the spring tide and enjoy the joy; Listen to the winter snow and touch it calmly.

Listen attentively, the color of the branches and leaves of the small trees after the rain will bring us surprises, listen attentively, the clouds at dusk and sunset will make us learn to applaud; Listening attentively, you can listen to the open-mindedness of "thousands of rivers have water, thousands of rivers and moons, thousands of miles of cloudless and thousands of miles of sky"; Listen attentively, you can listen to the heroic spirit of "the breeze deliberately makes it difficult for me to stay, and the bright moon has no intention of shining on itself".

As long as we are attentive, we can hear the humiliation of the flowers blooming and falling in front of the court, and the detachment and freedom of the clouds in the sky; As long as we are attentive, we can also hear and feel the elegant and quiet tea and the Zen smile of the flowers.

If, we don't have time to listen to the magnificence of nature; If we don't have the opportunity to appreciate the artistic conception of nature, then let's listen to what others have to say, no matter whether your position is high or low, whether you are young or old, whether you like the topic or not, be a attentive listener!

We have the opportunity and possibility to look at the person who is talking with our eyes and listen to the content of the conversation with our hearts. Listen with your heart, language is a shadow of a person's behavior. We often regret saying the wrong thing, but we never regret our silence, and we don't get hurt or lose anything by listening attentively.

A attentive listener is actually a calm person, and a attentive listener will gradually become more knowledgeable. Listening attentively, in a sense, is our best learning and practice.

A person who can listen attentively is a thoughtful person; A person who can listen attentively is a person who is humble and gentle. Because we listen, we have peace of mind, so we are liked; Because we listen, we are good at thinking, so we are trusted. As human beings, we came into the world with two ears, and we have our own reasoning.

Wandering in the world, listening attentively is a reincarnation; Listening but not listening, it is also a reincarnation in vain, let's listen attentively.

To give you some inspiration, first of all, it depends on your age and the purpose of writing this article. Scholarly words. You just tell the story.

Blow through the tube. It's like writing **. As long as it is reasonable.

The teacher won't check it out for you. If your work is written for the leader. It's just a hand.

Just don't overdo it. Moreover, leaders generally feel that subordinates with stable families are more reliable. You can also start in this area.

It's okay to write yourself, such as encouragement from your family.

Write it yourself, how can you ask someone else to write it for you!

Growing up, you need a word that your parents can give strength, even if it is a smile that makes people full of confidence I remember the first time I learned to ride a bicycle when I was a child One day, my father bought me a small bicycle with small wheels on both sides, and I liked it as soon as I met, and my friends have a bicycle like this, but I dare not ride it Because I once saw my cousin learning to ride a bicycle with my own eyes, because he didn't master his balance well, he fell a dog and ate, and broke a lot of holes Dad encouraged me and said:'Try it, don't be afraid "I sat on the bicycle obediently, but I didn't dare to ride My mother also encouraged me not to be afraid, and let me sit on the car, she came to help me push, the bicycle fell this way for a while, and the taste of falling that way for a while was not pleasant, scared me to tremble, but after a while I had the courage to ride forward, I just rode for a while, I was addicted All day, I rode out of the house in the morning, and came back late Where it is difficult to ride, I will ride wherever it is, and even play drifting with friends, and I don't cry or make trouble when I fall, immediately get up and continue riding

After a few months, one evening, Mom and Dad let me ride out of the bike, and then knock on the car, after a while, the two small wheels were dismantled, and it became a veritable bicycle, Dad asked me to try to ride, although I was not afraid of falling, but there was an inexplicable fear that made me dare not step forward, Dad comforted and said:'Just like you're still riding the original bike, don't be afraid, you can definitely do it "I was still hesitant and didn't dare to step forward, and my mother also encouraged'Try it "I sat up nervously, and then I pedaled, and the bike staggered forward, and I felt like I was going to fall down several times, but the car was still moving forward, and it was getting more and more stable, and I stopped, but I was still very nervous, and my dad said

Go on, don't be afraid, keep your balance "I pedaled again, and finally I was able to barely control the bike, and although I wasn't very handy, I learned to ride a real bike

Parental encouragement can generate and give children great strength, allowing them to experience setbacks and failures one after another.

Growth needs encouragement, and every parent should encourage their children when they lose confidence.

I have read a few stories, in the third year of junior high school, there was a student who failed in the exam every time, and when he came home, he didn't dare to show the test papers to his family, until one time, she scored 75 points, and then showed her father the test papers she had taken in the first semester, who knew that her father was angry, gave her a slap, and kept blaming her. She couldn't bear such a reproach, walked out of the living room, and jumped from the 5th floor. There is also a story, there is a student in a school, her grades are not too good, but she has improved every time, once, she scored more than 60 points in the exam, came home and showed the test paper to her father, and said to her father:

I've done my best. Surprisingly, her father said, "It's okay, you've done your best."

Both of these stories I saw in the book Homeschooling for Middle School Students. Aren't these two stories a stark contrast?

It is not right for parents to use beating and scolding their children instead of encouraging their children. This will only make the child lose confidence and give the child a serious blow to the heart. However, when children fail, when they have no confidence, when their friends encounter difficulties, they have the intention to encourage them, and this kind of encouragement will make people regain confidence, even if it is just a small word of encouragement.

Encourage everyone around you to stop being immersed in the whirlpool of blows.

You turn all his shortcomings into strengths.