Does my fianc treat me badly because of my looks? 15

I suggest you tell him now that if he really loves you, you will accept it, if he doesn't accept it, it means that he is not a good man and it is not worth regretting, but if he finds out for himself, it will be a matter of a birthmark to a problem of you deceiving him or at least concealing it, there is an essential difference, the sooner he knows, the better.

You have been in love for a while, and it is time to talk about marriage, you should know him better, whether he is a person who attaches great importance to appearance, you don't have to worry too much, you should believe in him, and also believe in your own vision, and you should believe in the love between you, long-distance relationships are not easy, you must cherish them.

A very light and not very large birthmark can be removed by plastic surgery, and there is no need to worry about it objectively.

It's best to open your mouth now. Tell the truth. Because some men pay too much attention to the appearance of girls.

Watch such a blind date show. You will understand that a man's first affection for a woman often comes from her appearance. But.

If you truly love each other. I don't think he cares.

You don't trust your relationship, you don't have any foundation, I really don't believe in this kind of online love.

You two decided to get married without really being together? Are you two in a different place? If that's the case, I hope you both get along together before deciding whether to get married. You think you're good-looking, but you're worried about birthmarks. So do you know that the other person doesn't care?

I think you're both getting married, so you should be open and honest. In fact, boys are psychologically prepared for girls who wear makeup. However, if your birthmark is too obvious and you don't mind that it is fake, you will definitely be uncomfortable at first, but if you are in love, he will slowly get used to it.

However, you must know that men will not be the same for women, and it is impossible to never be as they were when they first fell in love. No matter how beautiful you are, you will be old, so you have to start with yourself, don't be a vase, men like the kind of wise women. I hope that my other half will have high emotional intelligence, which is what I usually call "sensible".

For example, a woman who generally uses her beauty to please a man, thinks that she loses her temper, is coquettish and other ignorant things, and the man will coax you at first, but it is almost impossible for him to coax you for a lifetime.

Therefore, girls also have to know when to make trouble and when to be sensible.

Everyone is rushing to get married, then tell him, if he dislikes it, then you let it go. This kind of person who looks like him won't be worthy of your love. If you are old and decrepit in the future, he will also look for other young and beautiful ones.

No! After all, there is an emotional foundation !!

These things have to be faced sooner or later, so there is no need to hide the quarrel, I believe that if a man really likes you, he won't care about this. If he really cares, then divide it up, and don't have to wait until he gets married, which is good for everyone. The next time you go out to meet, you deliberately don't put on your face, and when he asks about you, you just say okay.

Then look at his performance, you don't have to deliberately say anything, and you don't have to deliberately keep it. If he cares, then he will care after leather socks, and if he doesn't care about the fruit of the hand, he won't care in the future.

To be precise, he will have a little opinion of you because of your little flaws, but as long as he truly loves you, he will even take more care of you.

It's not necessarily that there are no feelings, but the feelings shouldn't be very deep.

I think he should send Qi Qing not to love you very much, it's all about getting married before the dust, how can you talk coldly about what if you get married, you are talking about marriage, you are not married to his parents, maybe his parents don't like you, I am talking about your problem, thank you!

It's like that's it before you get married, so forget it.

Obviously, he is still very immature, he is so old that he has no rent, and he asks his parents, maybe it is just that his family is urging him to get married.

Let's think about it, and if he's very slick about you, and doesn't care about how you feel, take the time to think about it.

May not get used to your lack of initiative.

And take the initiative to find you.

It's really tiring to be the active party all the time.

But you'll have to try it yourself to find out.

Love is tolerance, if you are this man, you will think so, in love, there is no you chasing me, no non-German men pursuing women, it doesn't matter if you take the initiative occasionally, after all, it is husband and wife,

It's okay if the relationship is good, just treat him as a good memory and store it in a place where no one knows. After a long time, you will slowly get used to forgetting everything When the time comes, after being completely relieved or having an epiphany, it's not too late to deal with those ** Come out as soon as possible He knows that seeing you live happily may be the greatest comfort Don't force yourself to do something Indifferent.

It's not good for your future husband, so you better come out.

It doesn't matter, after all, it's an experience, maybe unforgettable, sad, sad! But in the future, you should treat it correctly and explain it clearly to your current boyfriend! Staying is just a memorial.

It varies from person to person, right? If you didn't do something sorry for him? Why do you have a weak heart?

How is it possible, keep it, after all, you have loved.

If you can marry someone who can live, you can do it. It's useless to just like it and not live a good life. The most important thing is that the relationship between two people should be good.

It has nothing to do with that. I really care about you, I love you, I don't care about that. People who only care about you.

Not necessarily, it depends on whether the future life is steady, and men will change.

Why don't you feel that you will love you more when you are married and married for so many days.

If it was a husband, and it was a cave room, he would definitely laugh in his heart if he gave it.

There is a risk, it is better to give it on the day of the wedding.

Not necessarily, because men are not what you think.

I'm not sure if I want to get married or don't give it,

No, it is easy to come and will not pay attention to it!!

Not necessarily, it mainly depends on character.

Good luck with that, too...

If it's unmarried, it's not possible. It's hard to say if you get married. People nowadays are not easy to judge.

No, after three days, I will find a new person.

If you don't get married, don't give it to you! Not all men are responsible, after all, he is not as close as your parents and will never take the initiative to leave you! It is possible that something unpleasant happened to you.

Right? Just make suggestions. It's up to you!

There are 3 questions that I hope you have thought about:

First of all, you have to calculate how much you have, and when your family is bent on finding you a partner, is there an age when you are not good or bad?

Secondly, how do you feel about him? It's okay if you don't feel it, you can cultivate. It feels good and you can continue. It feels bad, you might as well get out of the marriage. It's hard to change people's first impression of things that are troublesome.

After the most burning, whether his conduct is good or not, is it worth your time to cultivate a relationship with him? Even if (worst-case scenario) you only have friendship and affection.

Slowly cultivate your feelings, care more about what is deep in his heart, and be a person who understands him, and he will definitely return to loving you very much.

Two good slippery people get married. At least have some emotional foundation. There is no emotional basis at all.

What is the argument that the marriage friend Zao Layi is?? Could it be that the two of them are barely living together? He's cold to you, maybe it's someone outside.

Maybe it's the sudden discovery that you're not as good as he thought you would be ... There are many reasons.

You are wrong, you know that he doesn't love you and wants to marry him, but what is even more wrong is why this man is so irresponsible, you can talk to him about Qing Bi Lu and Yu to see if there is any need to continue to be together, so that the two of you can find the right direction.

First of all, let me ask, since you still don't love him for so long, how did you talk to him at that time? Lonesome? Bored?

Later, he was so kind to you and your family that you couldn't tell you about breaking up! Now the more it drags on, the more unspeakable! Because when it comes to getting married!

At this critical juncture, did you go online for help? Is that right? If you can find someone who loves each other, of course it is the most perfect, but if not, then find someone who loves you, remember not to find the kind of person you love but he doesn't love you!

I won't say much, if you don't believe it, then you can try! This is how I understand your current situation, if it really comes to what you said I don't know what to say to him, I don't even bother to look at his face, even if I talk to him, I am perfunctory to him, because I am good to you, I am embarrassed to hit him! Then please leave him and find your so-called true love, but I believe that if you leave him, he will live a better life in the future!

But you don't have to, because you're going to find the one you love, so the word happiness is still a question mark! I didn't expect you to take my answer, so I'm telling you, I want to scold you, but I'm a quality person, and I won't do that! Since you don't feel such a situation with the other party, what did you just start doing!

You should have rejected it then! In any case, the decision is up to you, whether to go or stay in a short time to make a decision quickly! Finally, I hope you both are happy!

Love has always been a matter of benevolence and wisdom, not to mention how deep your feelings are, judging from the situation you described, his character work ability is no problem, but he is inexperienced in falling in love and lacks skills, so your choice is to find a person who has the responsibility to feel sorry for you and love you, whether you love him or not, or find someone who loves each other with you and has a common language to fall in love with a passionate love, and then get married, if you don't feel anything about him, Even if he treats you very well and you dislike him, then you leave him, and don't care about other people's evaluations, because you don't love him but accept his good with confidence, and don't tell him your true feelings, this is a kind of deception, if he gets married like this, he will know one day, and the hurt will be even deeper.

Two kinds of advice for you.

1.Cancel the engagement, you don't love him, tell him bravely.

2.Always bury this secret in your heart, slowly feel his love, and see people's hearts over time, choose between loving and being loved.

If you don't love him, tell him.

There's no good in holding it back.

I know what I want to say.

Marriage is only once.

Not beat around the bush. Tell him I don't love you, let's break up.

Then you go to find someone you love.

Love is a feeling, happiness is a feeling...

But marriage is not, marriage is a reality... Reality can be without love, but marriage cannot be without emotion...

Romantic people are not necessarily practical, and practical people are not likeable.

First of all, I'm a man, and secondly, I'll admit that I'm not as good as your fiancé, and finally, you're already happy!

How to adopt other people's opinions, to click **? Thank you.

There may be something bothering him, and everything has to be clarified before making a decision. Look before you leap. As a future wife, you must first learn to trust, and be a test.