In life, he often thinks about his ex girlfriend, how long can such a marriage last!

It's really a lot of problems when you're married. But he misses his ex-girlfriend, do you think she's good, or do you treat him badly? Sometimes it's easy to get annoyed with a guy who always quarrels, but it's okay if he can understand you.

In fact, he's right, everyone has the right to remember, including you, what is it to fall in love, everyone will experience failed feelings, learn from this failed relationship, remember in the future, you should learn to tolerate, as long as he loves you, he doesn't lose you, don't regret it in the future for a momentary willfulness, now that you're married, what does that mean, you don't think you're a child anymore, remember a sentence, many of my friends say this (don't cherish it when you get it, I used to be the same as you, but I wasn't married, I used to say that my temper was more willful than you, so I had a long time with him, but I really lost to understand that I was too ignorant, why do you have to make such a big fuss about a small thing, think about it.

How long you get along depends on whether you can really stand him in your heart, you can't bear it, breaking up as soon as possible is a relief, you can bear it, and if you can't change your temper, you will continue to suffer! It's that simple! Marriage will encounter a lot of ups and downs and frictions, if you make up your mind and can't be patient, give in, respect, understand, and humble, then such a marriage will end in failure sooner or later.

In fact, for the life of adults nowadays, love and marriage are really important things, in fact, ordinary people's days are made up of boring little things, and many people do not do what they like, but because of life. So it's a very happy thing to have a girlfriend in your life, but why do many guys still think about their ex-girlfriends after getting married?

In fact, every boy is greedy, eating what is in the bowl and thinking about the pot, I don't know why, people always feel that the person they miss is the best, and they never know that they should cherish the person in front of them, so for those who are married, the ex-girlfriend is the kind of person they missed, sometimes think about maybe they chose her at that time, and whether their lives will be happier now, because people always don't learn to be content.

In fact, everyone has excellent places and bad places, when people get married, they don't only see each other's good, but also see each other's bad, if there are some contradictions, the mood will be very bad, and then think about how good their previous girlfriend was to themselves, and now this is like this, a comparison and then miss the ex-girlfriend more, in fact, such thinking is not advisable after marriage, because your ex-girlfriend also has a lot of places that are not as good as the current wife, Otherwise, why did you make such a choice in the first place? Don't forget the original intention, I hope that since you have started, you will love each other well.

Another reason is that the environment has changed, when I was still with my ex-girlfriend, I didn't need the person in charge at that time, the two of them just fell in love happily, and the mentality would be a lot more relaxed, but now that they are married, after all, they need to face more things, in addition to the affairs of two people, there are also two family matters, and it has also passed the period of hot love, bad emotions have been amplified, people are in a bad mood, and they always feel that their current wives are not good enough, in fact, too many people just don't know how to cherish, How many people are still envious of him, so do it and cherish it.

Whether it's a boy or a girl, once you get married, you should have the right mentality, don't think about your ex at every turn, this will not help your feelings for each other, it is normal for husband and wife to quarrel and quarrel, almost all couples have quarreled, but what you need to do is how to solve the problem correctly, instead of blindly complaining, thinking about other people, don't you think it's very bad? I hope everyone has a pair of eyes to find beauty, look at each other's goodness, and get along well.

1.Zhang Ailing has a passage in "Red Roses and White Roses", which is very impressive. Probably every man has had two women like that, at least two.

Married to a red rose, over time, the red one changed to a smear of mosquito blood on the wall, and the white one was still"Bright moonlight in front of the bed"；married a white rose, the white one is a grain of rice sticky on the clothes, but the red one is a cinnabar mole on the heart. This is a common mindset for most people. Those who can't get it are always in turmoil, and those who are favored will always have no fear, because the PO owner thinks that he and his ex-girlfriend have been separated, and there is no turning back.

In this situation, it is natural to think more about the good of the ex-girlfriend. In fact, if you think about it from another angle, the quarrels and doubts between you are even the last straw that crushes your relationship, and you will find that in fact, your ex-girlfriend is like a mortal in the world, but that's it.

2.The reason why people are nostalgic for their predecessors is just a little unsatisfactory in the present. The current girlfriend, to be precise, the married partner does not bring you enough love and happiness physically and mentally.

Full of enthusiasm, he thinks that he can meet the love of his life by breaking up with his ex-girlfriend, but in the end he finds that all love is nothing more than that. In fact, there is no more perfect lover in the first place, a better love, and some are just more suitable for each other's other half.

3.At the same time, it is undeniable that married life is no more free than being single. The quarrels and arguments with my ex-girlfriend are all petty fights, but there is actually no matter of principle.

Life after marriage is not like this, the firewood, rice, oil and salt in life, and the trivial things are enough to consume each other's patience and tolerance. The original beautiful woman who was dressed up brightly, who was at home with children, was unkempt in front of you, and naturally there would be a slight psychological gap, which was also a negative factor that married life would inevitably bring. Why the fairy tale ends with the prince and princess happily together, not the trivial bits and pieces after the prince and princess get married?

It is undeniable that there are not even fairy tales in ordinary people's marriages.

4.No matter how perfect and graceful your ex-girlfriend is, she has broken up with you, and everyone has started a new life. Actually, the PO master should understand.

Even if you are together, there will be many things in life that consume each other's love, and the possibility of breaking up in the past and breaking up again in the future is also very high. As the saying goes, good horses don't eat grass. The recombination of each other is just a compromise and a compromise, and it is too ugly to eat.

Instead of reluctantly being together again, it is better to wave goodbye in style.

Summary: I've always thought that the end of a relationship. Rather than the past years, it is better to be the past life and the present life, since each other's years have not been cherished, and the breakup ended miserably, then it is better to drink this bowl of Meng Po soup that forgets the red dust.

Since then, the good or bad of my life has nothing to do with you, and I have nothing to do with your ups and downs.

First of all, people are emotionally rich individuals, and everyone has their own past. We shouldn't dwell on the past.

Secondly, when you start a new relationship, you must deal with the previous relationship and must completely get out of the previous relationship. This is the most basic respect for two people in love.

Again, girls don't wait until everything happens to know the problem exists. To learn to read words and looks, at least to understand the conduct of the men you are associating with.

People must learn to make appropriate trade-offs, what is yours is yours, and what is not yours cannot be forced. It's better to cherish the people in front of you than to live in the past. Because we all have to look forward. A mature man knows how to make his woman happy for the rest of his life.

Here are a few suggestions for you: First, you must first learn to communicate with him and understand what he really thinks in his heart. Second, try to put yourself in the other person's shoes and think about the problems they are facing.

Third, give him more time and space to be himself. Men must have a man's bottom line, and women must also have a woman's bottom line, so you have to plan your own bottom line.

In fact, many problems should not be looked at the surface, and the eyes can also deceive people. If he really doesn't love you and misses his ex-girlfriend very much, why should he marry you? In fact, it's not a big deal to contact your ex-girlfriend, after all, you have loved each other and can be friends, and he may be afraid that you will misunderstand if he hides it from you.

Husbands and wives are most afraid of suspicion, so I advise you to talk to him and put the problem on the table. Don't deal with problems according to your own judgment, after all, he is your husband, and family harmony is the most important thing.

If there is any problem, make it clear in person, so as to avoid guessing or guessing wrong, avoid unnecessary trouble, family is very important...

It could also be friends. It's good to make it clear in person.