What do you think about the widowed husband quickly remarrying?

I think the problem of losing a wife has the following experiences. He is my fourth uncle. His wife left in a car accident five years ago, when their children were still in junior high school.

Although they are both from the countryside, although the fourth uncle usually doesn't talk much, he cried a lot the day his wife left. It can be seen that in fact, the fourth uncle is reluctant to leave his wife.

So since his wife left, he has been alone with the children. Although he was also introduced to another woman during this time, the fourth uncle himself said that this was the end of his life, he would not marry again, and he would save his life for his wife and children. In fact, the fourth uncle just can't forget his wife and doesn't want to start a new life.

In the eyes of others, he is stupid, but in his heart, he is full of love for his wife.

Mr. Feng is the secretary of our next village. His wife died a year ago because she accidentally touched a high-voltage line. Although they were also a model couple in a nearby village at the time, he cried very sadly after his wife left.

However, Mr. Feng, whose family is relatively wealthy, still asked someone to introduce him and married a woman in her 30s, who also lost her husband's relatives. Soon after they got married, they had children of their own. Maybe it's because of the money and the lack of life pressure.

When I asked him why he was in such a hurry to remarry, he told me that people have to look forward. A person cannot be born again after death. He was still young and didn't want to live alone for the rest of his life.

In fact, this is also a kind of attitude towards life.

Mr. Liu's wife died of cancer three years ago. After his wife left, all his children went back to work in the city. Every day, there is only one person left in the house.

Especially at night, in Mr. Liu's own words, they talked to themselves. Turn on the TV and don't want to watch it. So after his wife left, Mr. Liu would play mahjong all day long to kill time.

However, this kind of life without a partner is too difficult for Mr. Liu. Finally, three years later, Mr. Liu married a woman who had the same experience. They lived together, there was no registration, and there was no grand wedding.

So I think there's all of that.

This is a universal fact.

It can be shown that this man is not worth it.

Personally, I think it's better to look at it normally.

I don't think it's a big deal.

These are just a few coincidences.

Don't mess with each other.

After all, it still needs to be lived seriously.

It cannot be said that there is a loss of faith in life.

It's called redundancy.

Marriage, that is, after a man and a woman get married, the man goes to the woman's family to marry and settle down, this kind of marriage is mostly the woman's family has no brother and no brother, and the son-in-law is recruited to come to the door in order to inherit the lineage. There was a bad habit in the old society, men who went to the woman's family to marry and settle down had to follow the surname of the woman's family, which was often ridiculed as "inverted door", "the boy was incompetent to change his surname and change his name", etc., so the old society did not enter much. After the founding of the People's Republic of China, in order to change the concept of male superiority and inferiority of women or female superiority and inferiority, we vigorously advocated equality between men and women, monogamy, and the surname was also decided by both parties through consultation.

In ancient times, strings were used as a metaphor for husband and wife, just like a peacock flying southeast, so in ancient times, marrying a wife was called a continuation string, which was a more euphemistic way of saying in ancient times.

Yu Boya took out the old piano, brushed off the dust, removed the broken strings, and replaced them with new strings and plucked them leisurely. After hearing this, the woman agreed to the marriage immediately. Therefore, people use this as an excuse to call remarrying a wife "continuation".

This is the Spring and Autumn Period of the "Qin Immortal" Boya after the death of the original match, at the request of the new lady, he replaced the broken strings of the old piano and played for the new lady, and the new lady immediately agreed to this family business. Later, people called the new marriage of a man after being widowed as a continuation.

Because the ancients compared the love between husband and wife to the harmony of the piano, if the wife dies and the husband remarries, it is called a continuation of the string, which means to play the harmonious rhythm again.

3. After Yu Boya remarried, Boya's relatives couldn't bear to see him becoming depressed and told him to be a matchmaker, and as a result, Boya fell in love with the woman at first sight. When the woman heard that Boya had the title of Qin Fairy, she offered to listen to him play the piano. So Boya repaired the piano and played it again, so the continuation of the string was used as a metaphor for the man to marry again.

This is related to an ancient story about Boya, it is said that he and his wife Qin Se and Ming, when his wife died, he was playing the piano and the strings were broken, until he remarried his wife and then continued the strings, so later people called the remarriage after the loss of his wife "Xu Xian".

This is because Boya played the piano to his wife every day, and then one day the string broke, and then his wife also died, and later married another wife, and connected the strings, so there is a saying that the strings are continued.

To describe the deep love between husband and wife, there is an idiom called Qin Se and Ming, and when the wife dies, it is equivalent to the string is broken, and marrying another one is called continuation.

There should be no restrictions on remarrying after losing a wife. Men are inferior to women, and the status of wives is lower than that of husbands, so husbands naturally do not have to be restrained by their wives. Moreover, unfilial piety is great, and the birth of children cannot be delayed.

It seems to be 3 years apart. But [in today's terms] there are no specific implementation rules, and basically no one cares.