What is it like to be unmarried at an older age? Why are there more and more older unmarried people?

Didn't meet the person who was destined to be.

I should be in a hurry, but I'm not in a hurry, I'm anxious for myself.

I don't feel anything, it's just that there is a group of people around you who say you should get married or something. I don't plan to have children, why should I get married?

The older unmarried experience is particularly unpleasant. Older unmarried people can be the type of person who is particularly picky.

I think the feeling of being unmarried at an older age is that I am very serious, very big, but I am not married yet, and I will feel more anxious.

Dalian is unmarried, in fact, he should be quite anxious in his heart, anxious about his future life, and want to have a child of his own.

Dalian is unmarried is a very bad experience, watching the people around him get married one after another, and his parents are still urging marriage.

If you're very old, but you're not married yet, it feels bad.

If you are older and unmarried, you have to consider whether it is because of your own reasons, or whether it is due to external factors.

Being older and unmarried is actually your own choice, there is no need to care about other people's eyes, do your own thing, and let others say it.

Being older and unmarried is actually a very anxious experience, because everyone else has their own families, but they haven't found a home yet.

Being older and unmarried is actually a rather sad experience, because I feel that I can't find a boyfriend anymore.

It's normal to have no special experience when you're older than if you're unmarried, maybe now, many people want to develop their careers.

Marriage, children and work are often asked questions by modern young people, especially when they come home for the Chinese New Year, the first thing they ask is whether they have a boyfriend or girlfriend? No, there should be all kinds of forced marriage, urging marriage, and blind dates. Yes, when are you going to get married?

When to have children? The torture of the seven aunts and eight aunts took turns, and they were arranged to go on a blind date after graduation, and I believe many people have experienced it.

In the concept of parents, if you don't get married at the age of 25, it is already considered a late marriage, after all, the legal age of marriage in China is 20 years old for women and 22 years old for men. But since the post-90s, young people are more in pursuit of independence and freedom, and many people don't want to enter the marriage wall so early.

If you are still facing the problem of being urged to marry, forced to marry, and blind date, then your savior is here!!

Dr. Wolfsinger, a visiting professor of sociology at the University of Utah in the United States, pointed out that couples who marry between the ages of 28 and 32 are least likely to divorce.

Although love knows no age, there is a "best time period" for marriage. At the age of 28-32, the ignorance of love has faded away, and the illusion of pure beauty has faded, and love and marriage can be viewed more rationally. At this age, both men and women have experienced the baptism of the big dye vat of society, and their values, outlook on life, and world view are more mature.

What kind of people do you need? What kind of person is right for you? have a clear understanding.

can treat their marital problems rationally, and the turnover rate is the lowest.

Many people say that marriage is the grave of love, but this just shows that love when you are young cannot withstand the test of firewood, rice, oil and salt, and only rational, mutual understanding and inclusive love can be eternal.

Love is a matter of two people, but marriage is a matter of two families, it is firewood, rice, oil and salt, children's education, and the integration of two people's values and outlook on life.

28 32 years old, is the ideal age for marriage, what do you think?

From the perspective of gender, the phenomenon of male marriage squeeze has always existed. However, in recent years, some women have also suffered from marriage squeeze, which has become a new social phenomenon.

On one side is the growing number of older single men who cannot find a spouse, and on the other side is the growing group of older single women. The corresponding words "leftover men" and "leftover women" began to appear frequently on the Internet and **, and even entered the field of vision of scholars, becoming a topic of conversation after tea and dinner for the public.

Statistics from the sixth population census conducted in 2010 show that 5.82 million women aged 30 and 39 in China are unmarried; The number of men in the same age group who are unmarried is 10,000; The proportion of unmarried women aged 25 and 29 is five times higher than that of 20 years ago, while the number of unmarried women in 30 and 34 years is nine times higher than that of 20 years ago.

The phenomenon of older people not marrying exists at all stages, in all fields and at all levels, but it is usually believed that it is concentrated in two groups, that is, the "three high" groups with high education, high ability and high income, and the "three low" groups with low education, low ability and low income. If we look at gender, the older unmarried women are mainly concentrated in the group of high education, high ability and high income, and the older unmarried men are mainly concentrated in the group of low education, low ability and low income.

Older singles or older unmarried people are actually the result of globalization and modernization in the modern context, rather than a regional phenomenon, and China is not the only one.

In western developed countries, the singleness of older men and women has become an indisputable social fact and a generally accepted personal lifestyle, but in a country like China, which has a universal marriage system, this group has attracted widespread attention and heated discussions in the society, and people even label this group with "leftover men" and "leftover women". What is the specific situation and future development of China's older unmarried youth? What do we think about the older unmarried group and how do we deal with the increasing phenomenon of older unmarried?

What is "older age" when it comes to getting married? It is defined differently in different cultural and economic development contexts.

Older unmarried generally refer to single men and women who have exceeded the socially recognized marriageable age but are not yet married. Combined with the existing research, the definition of "leftover men" and "leftover women" on the Internet, and the average age of first marriage in China in recent years, this paper defines the older unmarried group as older single men and women over 30 years old, which exceeds the generally considered marriageable age in society, but are still unmarried. This paper examines the development, current situation and reasons behind unmarried single men and women aged 30 and above in China through several census data.

The data selected in this paper are mainly from the population statistics of the past years since 1985, including the data of the 1995 National 1% Population Sample Survey, the China 2000 Population Census, the China 2010 Population Census, and the 2015 National 1% Population Sample Survey Main Data Bulletin.

As an older youth, what is your reason? Reluctant to date the opposite sex? There are also such older young people around me, who are reluctant to find a partner when they reach the age of trial marriage, or they have not yet analyzed it personally, there are the following reasons, the first reason is that they are unwilling to find a partner, and this kind of thing is a very assertive group of people.

They like to be single in their creed, without the existence of the other half, they like the life of singleness, willing to live their own day freely and chicly, without any care, this kind of character is not suitable for falling in love, and he does not have the idea of falling in love, they have their own way of life and live very well. The second type, those who have been hurt emotionally, the biggest reason why this kind of older young people are reluctant to associate with the opposite sex is because they have been hurt emotionally, they have been in love very sincerely, but in the end they can't do it or because of the other party, the two people have separated and never talked again, because they feel too tired of falling in love and feel too uncertain, so they decide not to fall in love anymore. The third is to be too picky.

As they grow older, their experience is getting richer and richer, and older young people can balance their lives well with their own income, so their requirements for the other half are getting higher and higher, while those who meet their requirements for the opposite sex are getting less and less, because as they grow older, more and more friends of the opposite sex around them get married, which will lead to an imbalance between the two parties. In the end, it became an older young man who was unwilling to find the opposite sex. In fact, when older young people reach a certain age, they should have their own plans about life and marriage, they all have their own understandings and ideas, sometimes as bystanders, we can't judge the right or wrong behavior of the other party, but in their world, their lives are very good now, so we should respect their choice.

I believe that for many people, they are very much looking forward to love, because for many people, they know that love is happy, and it is very beautiful, and it is precisely because love is so happy and beautiful, so we see that many people are very much looking forward to having love.

Especially now there are a lot of young people. When they meet someone they like, then they will be more serious and work harder, and they will take the initiative to care for each other and love each other, because they believe that through their own care and love. This allows you to be with the people you like.

In the end, it will also allow them to have a happier and better love.

But we also see that there are a lot of young people now, they don't fall in love, they don't get married. Even some older youths are like this, so some people just want to know. Why are there so many young people now? None of them are in love and they are not married?

First of all, because there are a lot of girls now, they are very realistic, especially in love, they will put forward a lot of high requirements for boys, they require boys to have a good job and a good family. And in the process of getting along, they also require boys to continue to care for and take care of girls, and only if they can meet the requirements and conditions of girls, so that boys are willing to be with girls. So we see a lot of boys who want to be with girls, but because they can't meet or can't meet the girl's requirements and conditions.

So they can only choose to be single.

Of course, we see that there are some young people who have been single because they have a lot of pressure, and we see a lot of young people now, they actually have a lot of pressure. And they are also very hard, so for them they know that if they want to have love, then they should be better, and in this way, they can have a good love.

So we see that there are indeed a lot of young people now, they don't fall in love, they don't get married. Therefore, we hope that as young people, they still have to be active and hard-working, because only when they are more active and hard-working, will they be more excellent, and only when young people are more excellent, so that they can find a suitable person. In this way, the two can get along better together, and eventually they can have their own happiness and beautiful love.

aqui te amo。Yes, many older women who are unmarried or married and have no children do experience some difficulties in finding a job, and here are some of the outstanding problems:

1.Age factor: Older women may ask about marital history or age when applying for jobs, and many employers may think that older women will have a harder time adapting to job changes.

2.Gender discrimination: Employers are likely to favor more robust, younger men over women;

3.Mobility issues: Sometimes companies prefer to hire employees who are able to travel, but some companies believe that older women who are unmarried or married without children may have mobility problems;

4.Timing issues: Considering some family matters, some companies believe that older unmarried or married women with no children may have scheduling problems;

5.Wages and benefits: Employers may believe that older women who are unmarried or married without children are unlikely to enjoy higher wages and benefits.

These are some of the challenges that older unmarried or reformed married women may encounter when looking for work.

Hurry up to determine if you really want to get married, because when you get older, it will be difficult to get married, so you must understand your life ideals, life plans, and whether you have the ability to fall in love and get married, and then make a decision quickly.

I think you just need to be yourself, and don't force it if you don't have love.

We can let our friends introduce us, we can also participate in some blind date activities, or let our colleagues introduce us.