Is the bloodline reliable? What if you don t want affection, just friendship?

I'll help you simplify the problem of your relatives and friends, for example: you chose a friend, a very, very good friend. One of your other people had a fight.

Or maybe it's the corners of the mouth! You said that which of you will compromise, who will let whom, I think no matter how good a friend is, "He", a friend of the opposite sex who wants to be called, will not let you when "both sides" are angry.

If; If it happened to your family or your grandparents, I don't think they would think about your friends, buddies, brothers, or friends doing the same to you.

This is blood, and the explanation is equal to nothing, everyone can think for themselves What does "Great Love and Selflessness" refer to? ?

Don't! Just ask for recognition!!

When you lose your affection, you will find that ... You still don't understand, and it is impossible for you to be a great filial son, but when you have a big disaster, and even when it will affect the people around you, you have a few friends who will help you, and the people standing next to you at that time will only be your relatives.

Family affection is something you can't get rid of in your life. There must be a generation gap between the old man and you, and as he coaxes him to point, the old man speaks for your good.

Sometimes, we all feel that the blood relationship is the most reliable, because it is innate, it is impossible to get rid of it, family affection is impossible to live without, and we will always think of them at the first time. Friends, the interests are too much to pull.

Blood is thicker than water, and getting along with family members feels oppressive because of a lack of communication with each other. After all, it is family, and the love of family is selfless, although there are usually some small quarrels, but they are all for your good, and in a pinch, they will be desperate for you.

1. Blood relationship is very important.

As the saying goes: blood is thicker than water, and blood ties are very important to everyone. Parents and children are related by blood, and their relationship is even thicker than blood, and it is extremely close.

Because there is a blood relationship between parents and children, parents give life to their children, although some parents only give life to their children, but they cannot accompany their children to grow up, but blood relations are always there, and children must be grateful.

Article**32, Family affection is more important.

Blood ties are important, but family affection is even more important. As the saying goes: it is better to be born than to raise grace, although there is a blood relationship between parents and children, but the kindness of raising children to grow up is greater.

After all, raising a child to grow up is very hard, and the price to pay is also very large. Therefore, family affection is more important than blood relationship.

2. How can parents cultivate a good relationship with their children?

1. Let children grow up in an atmosphere of love.

Although the blood between parents and children is thicker than water, parents still need to know how to cultivate a good relationship with their children, so as to establish an intimate relationship with their children.

Article**4 Parents should let their children grow up in an atmosphere of love and give their children a harmonious and loving family environment. In this way, the relationship between children and parents will be close, and the relationship between children and parents is not only thicker than water, but also very deep.

2. Spend time with your children.

After parents give birth to their children, although there is an inseparable blood relationship between the children and their parents, parents must also fulfill the responsibility of raising their children, and they should often accompany their children and create beautiful memories with their children. In this way, a good parent-child relationship can be established with the child, so that the parents not only have a blood relationship with the child, but also cultivate a good relationship between the child and the parents.

Article**53, do not beat and scold children at will.

If parents do not control their emotions well when raising their children, and beat and scold their children at will, this will also affect the relationship between the children and their parents, and they will not be able to establish an intimate relationship.

Therefore, when parents are raising their children, they must control their emotions in front of their children and do not beat and scold their children at will. When educating children, it is necessary to teach them gently, so that they can develop a good relationship with their children and their parents will be close.

is the most reliable.

Because family affection comes from blood.

Of course, family affection should also be divided into far and near.

For our parents. In general, this kind of affection is the most reliable. Even if you feel estranged from your parents and children when you grow up, don't forget that the grace of giving birth to children is great.

For some other relatives and students, it will be divided. When they have something else, they think about their children first, and this is understandable, everyone knows that only their own children are the most reliable, just like your parents think about you first when they have something. Therefore, the affairs of relatives, family affection can be slightly leaned back, and their parents are the mainstay.

Other emotional software depends on fate.

Hopefully, hopefully it can help you.

This also lies in the process of two people getting along, the way they get along, this kind of family affection will also defeat blood relationship, although there is a blood relationship, but there is no intimate process of getting along, family affection will be stronger.

Yes, family affection is more important than blood relationship, two people who don't know each other have lived together for a long time, and they may not have a blood relationship between them, but after living together for a long time, it is more valuable than blood relationship.

Blood relationship, important to say, not important and not important, in two examples I have seen:

My aunt raised three sons, and all three of them started families. Because the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good, my aunt has been living on the side. Among the three sons, the younger son was the worst for his aunt, because the younger son always listened to his wife.

The younger son has a car that he uses to solicit customers. When he was in the market, his aunt sat in his car, and when he arrived at the place, the youngest son actually collected the fare from his mother.

Son and mother, such a blood relationship is close enough, right? Has anyone ever seen a son ask for a fare? This kind of family affection is not as good as that of ordinary outsiders.

There was an old woman in the village next door to us, who picked up an abandoned child on the side of the road in her eighties, and the child was still sick at the time. The old man kept the child. In the future, this child will go to school, a class with me.

When he grew up, the child took the old woman to the city to enjoy the blessings, and I heard that she is now in good health in her 80s.

The children picked up are not related by blood, but this family affection is closer than that of a son.

I think that blood relationship is just a legal proof of family affection, whether to kiss or not, or to see a person's conscience!

If there is no blood relationship, it is not necessarily without family affection. If there is no blood relationship between uncles and sisters-in-law and sons-in-law, there must be no family affection? There are also family members who are not related by blood in the reorganized family.

I have an older sister who is my aunt's niece and is not related to me by blood. But in our hearts, we are each other's sisters.

Blood is a natural magic weapon given by God to maintain family affection, but a good deck of cards can also be broken. And with our own love, we can also find another kind of unnatural affection.

In general, it can be said that most things are more reliable if you are related by blood, but whether you are unreliable or not depends mainly on the people and things you meet, and when you meet the right person, he is reliable, on the contrary.

Maybe it's like you say.

Of course it's important.

You can not recognize your parents, but you know it in your heart. No matter what happens, they are your parents. It's an emotional constraint.

In the face of their parents, their children are grateful, and in the face of their children, their parents are full of love.

In the vast majority of cases, parents are the ones who can do anything to help their children. Because the love of parents is the most selfless love in the world.

The relationship between parents and children can be stiff or even extreme. But family affection has firmly entangled parents and children at the moment of birth.

But sometimes the blood relationship is just a shackle, don't be bound by the shackles, you still get along very well without blood relationship, the feelings are like a family, isn't it, the blood relationship is a blood disease, relatives can donate blood and transfusion, there is no other use, the parents who raised you don't want to choose the biological parents who have no nurturing grace, the adoptive parents have been raised in vain for 20 years, not all parents are selfless, not all parents love their children, and they chose to abandon their children, so don't bother their children's lives. If you really love your child, don't bother him.

Blood ties are an advantage that makes it easier to form interest groups.

Blood and affection, and interests are two levels.

Having a close blood relationship makes it easier to form a social connection between the latter two.

Based on the innate advantage of bloodline, it is relatively stable.

In feelings that do not involve interests, the stabilization effect is more obvious.

Relatively speaking, blood relationship represents each other's family relationship, and it needs to be cherished by each other in order to have better results.