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Hello, I don't know where you go to school, first of all, I congratulate you on having a mentality that knows shame, which is a good thing, the so-called "big husband is ashamed and brave". As long as you are aware of your backwardness, you will definitely find a way out!! I'm a junior this year, but when I think back to that experience in high school, I still feel a lot of emotion, and I'm also a junior who is as anxious as you, but I believe that my current lag is only temporary, and as long as I work hard, I will succeed one day!!
In your studies, make a plan to make up for what you have done before. It's not too late now, as long as you have perseverance and determination, you will definitely succeed, and you must study harder than others. I studied late at night, and when I was really sleepy, I listened to English, and I fell asleep while listening.
This kind of life is boring, but I feel that a person needs this kind of sharpening in his life, and I always miss that kind of fulfillment!
Secondly, you have to see hope, at that time, I could only take a few undergraduates a year in our liberal arts class, and I was generally in the middle of the class, but I didn't give up! A miracle happened in the college entrance examination hall - I succeeded, a big upset! I finished fourth in my class, out of a total of 4 undergraduates!
Surprise everyone!!
So miracles happen to people who never give up!! You have to work hard!! Don't give up!!
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First of all, nothing in this world is fair, and there are people who are smarter than you and can learn more than you, and there is no way to do it.
Secondly, recognize what is bound by the environment, but it also gives you the opportunity to change.
It's okay to have poor grades, because:
1.You can work hard, and you don't have to feel inferior when your grades are good.
2.There is nothing impossible, only what you don't believe in, and believing will happen.
3.Don't you have any other merits, grades are one aspect, although it is a very important aspect, but it is only one aspect, you have many excellent aspects.
4.There is no one in this world who has no merits.
5.You can regain your self-confidence through sports, bring self-confidence into learning, and change the current situation, tomorrow is another day
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Don't feel inferior, this world is useful not only for achievements, as long as you are on the way forward, you should never be discouraged.
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Work hard, next time you will definitely exceed, do your best, and don't feel inferior.
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If you don't admit defeat, find a way to overtake.
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Summary. Dear, because of your poor grades, you should redouble your efforts to study and make yourself better and better. Only then will you be able to make yourself confident.
Dear, because of your poor grades, you should redouble your efforts to study and make yourself better and better. Only then will you be able to make yourself confident.
Pro, a person's psychological state is inextricably linked to their own performance. It is recommended that you take a look at the students around you, especially those excellent students, how they are confident, how they are respected by others, combine their own performance, study hard for excellent students, and strive to do a good job in their studies and improve their grades. This is to read more relevant books to make yourself strong inside.
If you keep doing it, you'll be confident.
Dear, I believe you will be able to make a great difference in the near future. Bless you!
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No, good grades do not mean everything, nor does it represent the child's personality, and the child's low self-esteem has a lot to do with family factors.
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Children with poor grades do have low self-esteem in their hearts, because children are still mainly focused on learning, and they will be discriminated against by teachers and classmates in school.
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No, although some children's grades are not good, they are very happy, very good, and their personality is also very good, which is very likable.
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Everyone has an inferiority complex, but to a different degree. Famous psychologists believe that human beings have an inferiority complex, as well as the overcoming and transcendence of inferiority complex.
When we grow up, we find that we are mediocre in appearance, and we find that others are more beautiful than us, and we will have a little inferiority; Later, we find that we can make money, and we finally have a little savings, but when we find that others make more money and have more money than us, these will cause inferiority in our hearts.
However, not everyone will only stay in the mood of inferiority, most people will make self-breakthroughs, will continue to improve themselves, even if I am not as beautiful as you, then I can keep a better figure, I can also be healthier, even if I am not as rich as you, but I can also live well, the family and the withered harmony, the children are excellent, I am also very happy...Because there is not only one factor that measures a person's happiness and sense of worth.
When you were very young, you were a child who pursued perfection, plus you were gifted and intelligent, and you basically never suffered setbacks in your studies, and the teachers never dared to criticize you, because you were too demanding on yourself, who could bear to make demands on you? I want to ask you, when did you start to demand such high demands on yourself? What hobbies do you have in your world besides studying?
Do you have good friends? What is your understanding of success? What is the definition of happiness?
What is your inferiority complex?
Whether it is low self-esteem or anxiety, we all need to deal with it, and to some extent, low self-esteem and moderate anxiety are also the driving force that can promote a person's continuous self-improvement. However, if we have recognized this emotion and do not make a self-breakthrough, then low self-esteem and anxiety are very harmful to us. Let me share a few ways to do this.
1.Correctly understand yourself and improve your self-evaluation. In fact, I have always laughed at Li Dongbang, but I have always been too demanding and neglected to evaluate myself correctly.
2.Correctly recognize the pros and cons of low self-esteem and anxiety. Moderate self-disturbance and anxiety can promote self-improvement and self-growth, while excessive low self-esteem and anxiety can devalue and affect our self-perception and self-growth.
3.Engage in positive self-suggestion and self-encouragement. I can do better, but it's okay if it's bad, no one is perfect.
4.Actively interact with people and expand your space. As with your own cognition, not everyone is as good as you.
5.Focus on self-motivation. I'm great, I have a lot of talent and the ability to work hard.
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You should think more about your own shining points, and don't always compare your own shortcomings with the strengths of others.
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I think you should calm your mind, since your grades are already at the top, it means that you are very good, you must be confident.
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Adjust your mentality, don't think too much at this time, sometimes you have to take it step by step, don't rush it.
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