Why are so many people not optimistic about marrying far away?

Long-distance marriage has high requirements for its own conditions. Those who can quickly establish their own circles regardless of whether they are in **, and who are financially and spiritually independent, are suitable for long-distance marriage, and in addition, they are not suitable for long-distance marriage. There are also happy people who marry far away, but there are too many unhappy ones.

If a woman is dependent on her husband in other ways, then she is actually not suitable for marrying far away. To marry far away is to leave one's own circle of life and re-establish one's own circle elsewhere, which is difficult for many people. If there is an unsatisfactory marriage after marriage, you will regret marrying far away.

1. Distant marriage is not a love issue, but an economic issue.

A woman can find a man to marry in this city because she wants to go to a city for development, but she can't run to a strange city for a man. After the divorce, the woman will feel that it is boring to stay in this city, and she will go back with nothing. This kind of ending is really miserable.

II. II. IIA woman who marries far away wants her husband to be good to herself, but if her husband does something bad, she will regret it.

Men are kind to women, and women will marry far away for men. Sometimes it's just a little bit of a man's kindness to himself. But getting married is not the same as falling in love, there will not only be wind and snow, but also wealth, rice, oil and salt. If you live together, you will know whether it is worth marrying far away.

IIIMarrying far away is a test of a woman's ability to survive.

Marrying into a place where you are not familiar with life, and whether you will get along well with your mother-in-law's family in the future are unknown. There is a contradiction, if the husband is not on your side. If you don't have any friends or relatives around, will you feel lonely?

At this time, it is a great test of a woman's survivability and emotional intelligence. It was very difficult to give up your old job and put down roots in a new city again.

It's not that it's not okay to marry far away, but women should self-evaluate whether they are marrying far away, and can they bear the consequences of marrying far away? Do you have the ability to solve problems when you encounter them? If you don't, be honest and don't marry far away, this is the best choice for you.

I am not optimistic about marrying away because there are too many problems and difficulties to face in marrying far away, and I am helpless to marry far away, and once there is a problem in my marriage, it is easy to become a lonely person. And their relatives and friends, at this time, far water can't quench their thirst, they can't help, basically they have to solve all the problems by themselves, and the risk of marrying far away is still relatively large for girls.

After marrying far away, he is far away from his relatives and parents, so when he is wronged at all in life, he doesn't even have a person to talk to, so many people are not optimistic about such a distant marriage.

Because there are a lot of risks to be taken when marrying far away. Marrying far away is equivalent to going to the other party's city alone, with no one to rely on, and you have to rely on each other for your life. Once there is a relationship problem with the other party, it will be very hard, and your life may not be guaranteed.

Because if the woman marries too far, once there is any marital problem or situation, it is very unadvantageous. So marry closer. It's good for someone from your own family to help out.

Because most of the parents who marry far away are unwilling, they will naturally go home far away, and they are worried that their daughters have grievances and have nowhere to appeal.

We left the place where we grew up, our parents were terrible, we left our friends who had been playing, and we went to a strange place, and there was no one to talk to if something didn't go our way.

Marrying far away from the countryside is round, and the collapse of the state is often a water trace to return to the soil. Marrying near home, after all, it is the home field, and there are people cheering for a quarrel. If you marry far away and fight away, you have to consider whether you can integrate into the environment.

Before people get married, they will always be too optimistic, thinking that love will overcome everything. In fact, getting married is not about two people falling in love, but about the conclusion of marriage, and living with a large group of strangers. It's easy to reach a consensus between two people, and if you want to figure out why with a group of strangers, it's a lot of hard work.

So everyone is not optimistic.

But love, after all, is blind, and if you are blind, you will run out. For love's sake. Then follow him over the mountains and mountains.

Because there is a price to pay for marrying far away, there is nowhere to vent the grievances.

Because the risk of marrying far away is higher. If you get married, your parents will feel at ease but you will miss it. If you don't marry well, you really don't even have a gang.

Because many of them are from the past, because many people have been defeated by life!

There is no parental care for long-distance marriage.

It's funny, just sit down, okay......If it's okay, don't be polite, don't be too little, so no.

I remember someone said before that the worst thing in life is to leave your hometown, but compared to marrying far away, it seems that leaving your hometown is not unacceptable. We often disturb Hu Sunrong when he becomes an adult, and when he becomes an adult, he fights outside and fights, which is called leaving his hometown. So when I grow up, I marry in a foreign place, leave the place where I was born and raised, leave my parents who have raised me for more than ten years, and go to another place to form a new family, what should this be called, isn't it uprooted?

Don't blame a girl who marries far away and regrets it. Because a girl, after giving up her parents who have raised her for more than ten years, giving up her hometown that she is most familiar with, and giving up her childhood playmates, she is forced to live in a strange city. Sometimes, you will definitely miss your hometown, and you really want to go on a trip to meet the people you think about day and night.

And the destination of this trip is your hometown, and the people you miss the most are your slow parents.

If you happen to read my article, it also happens to be a girl who marries far away, or a striver who has left her hometown. Please take the time to go home and see, there is no grievance that cannot be solved at home, if it can't be solved, then it will be a few more times.

Everyone wants to be able to have a happy life.

Building a happy family is one of the most important prerequisites for living a happy life. ......Therefore, if you pursue a happy and sweet love and marry the person you love the most, you can live a happy and fulfilling life. ......In the process of pursuing their sweet love and happy marriage, some people choose to marry far away.

The so-called long-distance marriage is to marry oneself to a far away ......It's a long way from home, at least not in the same city. ......In such a state, you will stay away from your parents' home and not see your parents and other relatives for a long time.

Whether they will make the choice of marrying far away, different people have different answers.

Specifically, there are several specific options for whether to marry far away:

1. In order to pursue a happy life, some people choose to marry far away.

The purpose of marrying far away is to start a family with the person you love.

Therefore, for some people, since they have found their soulmate, then marrying him is ...... ultimate goalAt this time, marrying far away is a natural thing. Even if there are some practical difficulties, it will not affect these people to make the choice of marrying far away.

2. Because they are reluctant to leave their parents and hometown, some people don't want to marry far away.

Some people are very dependent on their parents and are reluctant to leave their hometown.

For these people, it is difficult to accept the ...... of living away from their hometown and parentsTherefore, these people basically do not choose to marry far away, but choose their bosom lovers in or near their hometown.

3. For couples who truly love each other, for the sake of love, of course, they will choose to marry far away.

For two people who really love each other and decide to get married, if both parties are in different cities, the woman will inevitably marry far away.

Therefore, as long as the man and woman truly love each other, then, of course, the woman will choose to marry far away, marry him, and form a happy family.

4. Distant marriage needs to fully consider various practical difficulties in life.

Marrying far away means living in another city away from home.

The environment of that city is completely different from my hometown, and my living habits are also different, and I will face a new life there. ......Therefore, when faced with the choice of whether to marry far away, Huaicha needs to carefully analyze all aspects of the situation, clarify whether there are factors affecting your life, consider whether you can solve these problems, and then make a final decision on whether to marry far away. In this way, we can rationally solve the problem of lead stupidity.

According to the above analysis, long-distance marriage is the choice ...... the pursuit of happy love and happy marriageBut for the issue of marrying far away, you must also make a calm analysis and make a rational judgment, so that you can truly get a happy life.

I remember that at that time, my parents were resolutely opposed to my distant marriage, and even the words of severing the relationship were falsely said, but in the end, they still couldn't resist the child's persistence.

In fact, the parents did not let them marry far away, not because they were stubborn and laughed at Wu Jian, but because they were afraid that when they were bullied, they didn't even have anyone to help you get ahead.

If you lose the long-distance marriage bet, you will find that your bamboo basket is empty, and if you win the long-distance marriage bet, you still have a strong sense of loneliness, like duckweed on the sea that can't get to the shore.

I'm also afraid that after marrying far away, he will live the kind of life that can be seen at a glance, and I'm even more afraid that in the years that followed, he will forget all the sacrifices you made when you sent Lu.

However, happiness is always found by oneself, and in the end, one can only have one's own health, talent, spirit and mind.

As for whether you can marry far away, there is no standard answer, meet someone who is worthy, responsible, and grateful, of course it is worth marrying, but the premise is that we are not confused by appearances, and we really see the quality of the other party, and we can't love at that time, and make a choice impulsively.

Because when I decided to marry him at that time, I didn't consider the problem of searching for friends at this distance, and I felt that the current transportation is convenient, and no matter how far it is, it is not too far. At that time, he simply liked him as a person, loved him as a person, and he didn't want to marry. Later, I found out that this distance was too far away from Shihenghuai, especially after having a child, every time I went back, I was so tired that I had to stop my fingers to death.

Some people choose to marry far away, and people who marry far away have likes and love, and the place where they marry far away has better development.