Why don t you ask me about happiness? When people ask you how happy you are

You need a glass of water, and I'll point you a river; No, it means an ocean of happiness to you!

The first thing to know is what happiness is.

About the definition of "happiness":

Happiness is a state of psychological happiness when human desires are satisfied.

Attributes: 1(human nature) that is unique to human beings

2.Happiness is idealistic (idealistic).

3.This state of mind is generally not maintained for a long time (transient)4This state of mind can be divided into common and individual (commonal)5This state of mind is related to an individual's beliefs, education, worldview, values, and outlook on life (faithfulness).

6. This state of mind has nothing to do with the amount of wealth of the individual (wealth irrelevance) 7Because human desires are endless, happiness has uncertainty (uncertainty), from which we know the three elements of happiness.

1. Desire; 2. Satisfaction; 3. Happy state.

Analyse. 1. Desires are high and cannot be satisfied, so you are unhappy or unhappy.

2. The desire is very low and easy to satisfy, so you are happy and you are happy.

Visible from the analysis.

To be a happy person is to be a person with very low desires!

Are your desires high or low? Or medium?

For example. The common hope of the people should be: food, clothing, housing, transportation, birth, old age, sickness and death without worries, if it can be satisfied, it is the common happiness of the people! (The "commonality" of happiness).

Secondly, love is when you help someone to achieve (satisfy) their ideals (desires) and make others feel happy and happy.

Once, there was a Chinese who studied for a doctorate in the United States, worked in the United States, and made outstanding contributions, but as a result, he wanted to return to China, but the United States went up and down to block him and prevent him from returning to China.

Friend, do you understand the truth illustrated by the above example?

How so? Look at everything, what's wrong with not having a house, rural people are also people, there is no difference, live easier, why let others ask you if you are happy, you ask yourself if you feel happy? How long can a person live in his life, why should he embarrass himself, contentment is a blessing, come on, everything will be fine.

You think too pessimistic, maybe it has something to do with people's pursuits, I think it's a kind of pride to be a rural person, why do you have to go to the city. I think happiness is a very simple thing, and you must have a house and a car, and being with your relatives and lovers is a kind of happiness, so renting a house is also a kind of happiness. Why is there such a big gap between urban and rural people?

I don't know what you're talking about about this issue, but I always think that rural people are more humane!

Hello dear, happy to answer your <>

When others ask you about your happiness, you are blind 1Thank you, I feel very blessed because I have a husband who loves me and lovely baby 2I am very happy.

Because even if you are not happy, you have to tell others that you are happy, because since he asked you this question, it is not without reason, you should always tell yourself that you are happy, because compared to many people, we are still happy, at least think of the children in the disaster area, they can show such a sweet smile, and we are even happier when digging silver.

I have asked, but no matter how difficult the days are, we have to move forward.

Everyone's definition of happiness is different. My opinion is as follows:

1.For people who value material things, not having a house naturally reduces happiness. Such a person will feel insecure and feel that the house can give them a sense of security.

So, without a house, they will live in Jane and lack a sense of happiness. The whole person will live in anxiety, always feel that he has achieved nothing, and will gradually feel inferior.

2.On the contrary, for people who are more confident and like freedom, not having a house or something else will not affect them at all. As long as there is a place to sleep, you can have your own freedom, and at the same time love your own people, this is happiness.

A house is just a thing above the material. For such people, they don't care about these problems and look down on them, so even if they don't have a house, such people will not be without happiness. On the contrary, they will live freer and happier.

If they have a house, they will feel that the house is a constraint, a sense of oppression, so they will feel hindered and block their right to pursue freedom.

3.My happiness comes from maintaining healthy habits, having a job that I love, helping people in need through my own ability, being able to taste my favorite healthy food at any time, loving myself and the people around me, having healthy and friendly interpersonal relationships, reading my favorite books, being curious, having my own independent three views, gaining knowledge through learning, gaining wisdom through making noise, especially freedom of thought, and a free and happy life.

Happiness is a feeling, it does not depend on people's living conditions, but on people's state of mind, the characteristic of happiness is the peace of mind, the so-called contented people are always happy.

Happiness is the feeling that people's desires feel when they are satisfied or partially satisfied, and it is a spiritual pleasure. The happiness that people get is temporary, just like misfortune, and with the passage of time, the sense of happiness and unhappiness will gradually fade, so if we want to continue to have happiness and live a happy life, we must continue to satisfy more desires. After people get a happiness, then people's desire for the same or the same type of happiness will decrease, when people get this or this kind of happiness again, the happiness will gradually decrease, and when they reach enough n times, the desire will become zero, and the happiness will become zero.

When you fulfill a wish, achieve a goal, love someone, be loved, be in a momentary mood, be happy, and so on, all belong to happiness. Happiness has no distance, no standard, happiness is a feeling. When you're satisfied, you're happy.

Contentment keeps happiness fresh (attachment).

Happiness is to have a grateful heart; Have a healthy body; A group of trusted friends and a hopeful tomorrow.

Happiness is a feeling, and it does not depend on the state of people's lives, but on the state of mind of the person.

Do what you love and be with the people you love.

In fact, if you think you are happy, you are happy, and happiness and unhappiness are in your own heart!

The meaning of happiness is too broad. Learning to be satisfied is happiness; Learning to be considerate is happiness; Learning to tolerate is a happy ......Live a good day in a down-to-earth manner, thinking too much will be very tiring and ...... confusedSimplicity is happiness.

Things that can fill you with memories, when you don't know that happiness has come, cherish the bits and pieces that happen around you. It's good to feel life.

x happiness is cheesy if you say too much.

There is happiness in family affection.

There is happiness in love.

Friendship has happiness.

Needless to say, the affection of the family.

Many love face-to-face.

This kind of happiness is = slowly experienced from life, not the love of Korean dramas that can be felt by saying it, but the feeling of spirituality.

I know why I am happy and because I am sad.

Happiness is the feeling in your heart when you eat your favorite thing, which is happiness

In fact, happiness and unhappiness are created by oneself, as the saying goes, those who are content are always happy, even if you don't have much money, as long as you want to be happy, then you will definitely bring happiness to yourself. Happiness is a state of mind, but it is also a feeling, a feeling of satisfaction. What is happiness?

Happiness is a mystery, and if you ask a thousand people to answer it, there will be a thousand answers. Happiness is self-feeling, and others don't know and can't feel it. Career, family, relationships, everyone wants to be happy for a lifetime.

In fact, happiness is a kind of satisfaction you have with something and a certain process of things.

Only those who are content can enjoy happiness to the fullest!

Hey, after all that, I'm not interested in reading it anymore

In fact, happiness is very simple: cats eat fish, dogs eat meat, Ultraman fights little monsters, happiness you can't find when you deliberately look for it, but when you inadvertently happiness is around you, to put it bluntly, everyone is actually very happy, but you don't know it.

Happiness seems to be compared to others, and your advantage is your happiness.

Happiness is to have breakfast with your beloved; Or scratch the ...... when it's itchy

If you think you're happy, you're happy.

Some people say that happiness means that when I am hungry, I see someone else holding a meat bun in his hand, then he is happier than me. I'm cold, and when I see someone else wearing a thick cotton jacket, he's happier than me, so happiness never has a fixed answer.

Mr. He from Shandong said that he feels that he has always been very happy, that he has a virtuous wife at home, a pair of children under his knees, and that both parents are still alive.

Mr. Yu from Zhengzhou said that he felt that the greatest happiness was to have a successful career, but he has not felt this happiness so far. When asked about his current situation, he said that he is now worth more than one million, only two houses, and only one car, and he is very inferior compared to those celebrities.

Mr. Yu's situation reminds me of a short film I watched before, which says that cyclists envy those who drive cars on the road, those who drive cars envy those who drive sports cars, and those who drive sports cars envy those who own private jets. What does that mean? Human desires are endless, and if we do not correct our mentality and learn to be content, we will never taste happiness.

In fact, have you ever thought that maybe you have what others can't reach? This may be the reason why some people feel happy and some people feel unhappy, and they don't know how to be satisfied. The mentality of Mr. He, a fan, is exactly what we all need to learn, in a word, those who are content are always happy.

When you are young, happiness is a thing, and if you have it, you will be happy. When you grow up, happiness is a goal, and when you reach it, you will be happy. After maturity, happiness is a state of mind, and when you comprehend it, you will be happy.

Happiness is the psychological feeling that people get satisfaction when they experience their ideal spiritual and material life without worry and as they wish. The feeling doesn't have to be long-lasting. Happiness may change with changes in thoughts, substances, etc.

A person who constantly pursues the maximization of profits will never be happy, because his desires are endless. Here, I hope everyone can be a person with less desire and more happiness.

Happiness is a state, a sense of satisfaction. It can be obtained in many ways, and a simple and happy life is happiness; You can also feel happy if you appreciate your salary and get a raise.

Being happy with yourself and your family is happiness.

If things don't go well, it's called happiness.