What do you think of these bear kids now?

A child can be naughty, even a "bear", but no matter what, it is the minimum etiquette not to disturb and hurt others. If you don't follow the minimum rules, your parents won't teach you, and one day, someone will come forward to teach you a lesson. Rather than that, it's better to teach yourself a lesson.

A classmate told me about an incident she encountered, and on her 12th birthday, her classmates and friends gave me a lot of gifts. A friend sent a ** box of peanuts, which is very delicate and beautiful. As soon as I opened it, I was seen by my cousin who came with me, and my 5-year-old cousin liked it very much, so I opened my mouth and asked her directly.

My classmates weren't very happy, but it was a gift from a friend. But if she didn't give it, her cousin cried and made trouble, and the interesting thing was the attitude of her classmate's mother, who was very generous and tolerant and gave the gift directly to her cousin. The reason is that she has so many gifts, and it doesn't hurt to give one to her cousin.

There must be people who disagree, and a lot of reasons can be found, "It's the nature of children to be naughty, and it's cute to be lively." "What happened to her with her relative's child" ......Parents are always tolerant and soft-hearted towards their children. They rightly said:

He's still young and ignorant, so you let him. "Therefore, when you are young, you have become a natural talisman, with an aura of reason (I am a little and I am reasonable), you can be ignorant and you can be forgiven.

If I have any opinion about bear children, I actually think bear children can be forgiven. After all, who didn't come from childhood, and who hasn't had a bear in the eyes of others, I understand. But I don't think those bear parents can be forgiven.

Your child is not sensible, so you will follow the nonsense. It's so undeserved.

In the eyes of some bear children, your figurines, your friends' souvenirs, your figurines, and your cosmetics are no different from the water guns that cost 5 yuan a piece, and the role is just to attract their attention. They're howling about your baby like they're asking for an ice cream on the street. If you don't give it, your relatives say that you are stingy and ignorant, and you still care about a few years old children when you are so old.

The "masterpieces" of bear children on the Internet are not uncommon.

Bear child is a popular word in recent years, netizens sorted out the definition of bear child: "They are 5-12 years old, they have a lot of curiosity, enough destructive power, and plenty of time, they often make some nonsensical moves, or make some nonsensical requests that make you very impatient, or even make you crazy, but the most annoying thing is that you can't do anything about them." ”

Bear children are completely a problem of parental discipline, and now the children are all cool, plus six or seven grandparents are completely right or overly spoiled, resulting in lawlessness in children. Bear children are not good at home, children are not sensible, but bear parents are the most hated.

For bear children, I personally feel that there are no bear children, only bear parents. Many children are not so bearish at first, nor do they feel that they are so bearish, let alone that bears are wrong. Over time, parents don't pay attention to it, and they become real bear children.

The bear child can be said to be an existence that everyone has encountered in their daily life. Beneath their childish exterior lies the heart of a king of destruction. Their trick is crying, and when he can't achieve his goal, he will use his crying to attract his parents to come over in order to achieve his goal.

In fact, it is not the bear children themselves that are scary, but the parents of the bear children, which we often call bear parents. They will tell you that the child is still young and ignorant, so what do you and the child care about?

Children have no values when they are young, they don't know what is right and what is wrong, so the child becomes a sensible obedient child or becomes a bear child depends on how the parents guide, when the child makes a mistake, we as parents should stop it in time, if it affects the lives of others, we must take responsibility in time, rather than blindly covering up their own children.

The bear child alias refers to these ignorant and naughty and disobedient children, who are just the names of the children that everyone sticks to their bodies. Under the development of the Internet, some new self-** platforms, funny and humorous, funny, ghostly, this kind of small **, etc., about the child level** in order to better attract readers and enhance the title of the bear child series of articles, the first kind, there are no rules "bear" children.

Your child's personal behavior is confusing and troublesome because of curiosity, independent thoughts, active intentions, or simply to better disagree with adults, or deliberately destructive personal behavior. If it is the former kind, parents should learn and train to have intelligent and correct guidance, there are two major categories of bear children in my heart, one is the disrespectful, blatantly pampered by their parents, no "evil" has not been done, and they are still unrepentant. The other type is not very bad habits, and has been naughty and disobedient in daily life, which usually makes you unexpected.

There is no cultivation, self-centeredness, parents are not good at cultural education, and they are proud of their children's personal behavior. Such parents are undoubtedly role models for bear children. The children who are educated by culture are, of course, bear children.

Naturally, causing trouble is also unique, and there must be a number of naughty ghosts in a small village. During the summer vacation of the second grade of elementary school, when the fields in the countryside happened to be growing crop seedlings, the corn seedlings in the field were just 30cm out of the road.

When I went to their house to play during the Spring Festival, I kept holding my mobile phone, and every time I was naughty and was told a few words by adults, I would take out my fist and smash his own sister, which is my cousin (9 years old). Of course, my cousin is more kind-hearted, and every time my cousin hits her, he doesn't resist, and sometimes he hurts when he is beaten, and he only cries with his mattress covered. Those who swear often cry and cry and make trouble.

Doesn't understand reason, yells in public, also does some destructive things, doesn't follow the rules, is very selfish when getting along with others, and is always self-centered.

I know it's the kind of kids who are spoiled by their parents. It is particularly excessive, and often does things that harm everyone or disturb public order.

It refers to those children who are very disobedient, and it also refers to those children who love to fight, so parents must pay attention when this situation occurs in children.

The common name of bear child refers to those children who are disobedient and mischievous, and it is just the name label that people put on their children. Under the development of the Internet, some new self-a**, funny, humorous, ghost animals, and other short**, etc., about children** In order to attract readers, a series of titles have been added, the first type, the unruly "bear" child. For example:

1. Loud noise, chasing and fighting in public, without thinking that your words and deeds will affect others. 2 What the adult asks him to do, he just wants to do it against you, the baby is how willful.

Whether your child's behavior bothers you or causes headaches is due to curiosity, self-directed thoughts, active nature, or pure desire to interact with adults, or intentional destructive behavior. If it is the former, parents should learn to guide wisely, there are two types of bear children in my mind, one is disrespectful, unscrupulous and spoiled by parents, no "evil" does not do, and does not repent. The other type is those who have no special vices and are always naughty in life, often bringing you unexpected things.

Uneducated, selfish, parents do not educate well, and they are proud of their children's 'bear child' behavior. Such parents are understandably exemplary bear children. The children who are educated are naturally bear children.

Of course, the trouble is also unique, and it is definitely a naughty bag in a small village. During the summer vacation of the second grade of primary school, it was the time when the crops were growing seedlings in the rural crop fields, and the corn seedlings in the fields were just more than 30 centimeters out of the ground.

When I went to his house to play during the Chinese New Year, I kept holding my mobile phone, and whenever I was naughty and was said by an adult, I would pick up my fist and smash his sister, which is my cousin (9 years old). Of course, my cousin is kinder, every time my cousin hits him, she doesn't fight back, and occasionally she hurts, and she just cries under the quilt. Dirty talking, hands-on and foot-moving, often crying and crying.

Mischievous and disobedient children. In fact, these children are not well restrained, and their parents have taken care of the aftermath of everything they do, and they have developed a bad habit of mischievous and disobedient, which is caused by his parents' failure to blame education in time.

Always making a lot of noise in public.,And very unreasonable.,Always do something unacceptable.,And the destructive power is quite large.。

is a very nasty child, whose behavior has affected other people, and his parents do not interfere excessively and let them do it.

"Bear" is a kind of children's nature, "bear child" originally represents the parents' attitude of love and hatred towards children, but with the increase in the number of unsafe accidents, "bear children" have generalized into minors who have carried out illegal activities but cannot be punished by law. From January 1, 2022, China's "Family Education Promotion Law" will be officially implemented. Hong Ming, a researcher at the Youth Research Center, said in an interview with CCTV that the "Family Education Promotion Law" has made it clearer the main responsibility of parents for the supervision of minor children.

Parents should not only bear guardianship and management responsibilities for their minor children, but also bear corresponding legal responsibilities such as social compensation. The "bear child" is in trouble, and parents must take care of it, and they can't excuse themselves with the excuse that "the child is too young".

The family is a child's first school, and parents are a child's first teacher. In the practice of family education, many adults ignore the rule education, and often beat the child first and then remind the child after an accident, but the result is very effective. Hong Ming believes that in the context of bringing a baby in accordance with the law, parents should pay attention to educational methods, strengthen educational ability, and let children have a sense of rules, and this should start from the "early", "fine", "clear" and "strict" with the closure.

Early is to warn and establish norms in advance before things happen; Fine, it is necessary to pay attention to the details of the rules; Clarity means that the child should be clearly informed and that the child can understand, understand, and recognize; The last strictness refers to letting children understand what kind of consequences will be caused if they violate the rules, so as to strictly regulate them.

It is the nature of children to be curious and exploratory, what should you do if you meet a "bear child" who comes to your home as a guest during the Spring Festival? Hong Ming suggested that it is best for adults to properly store some valuables or easily damaged items in advance, and at the same time guide them reasonably to inform children in advance what they can and cannot do.

<> behind every "bear child", there is a "bear parent", do you agree with this statement? Why? The so-called "at the beginning of man, nature is good", "the son does not teach, the father's fault", and the reason why the "bear child" grows up like this, the "bear parent" behind it is difficult to escape its responsibility.

There are generally several reasons for the cultivation of "bear children": poor influence from parents. Children who grow up in a family environment with a weak sense of morality and words and deeds are likely to become like this, for example, parents are good at scolding and beating, and children often like to scold and hit people.

Improper parental education. Many parents, when their children are young, do not pay attention to conveying the correct outlook on life and values, do not guide in the right direction, but put their children in the center, encourage their children to take advantage of and take advantage of loopholes, so that children lack basic moral concepts and polite attitudes, always self-centered, and do not consider the feelings of others. Poor parental discipline.

In many cases, when children make mistakes, parents not only do not criticize education, but blindly connive at them, "using the child as young and when he is older" as an excuse. Over time, the child's bad behavior will naturally accumulate into a small and large one, so that it is difficult to restrain it.

Parents are the best teachers for their children, and they are upright and do not obey orders; His body is not right, although he does not obey orders. I hope that parents will start from me, set a positive example for their children, provide a positive growth environment for their children, give their children correct and powerful guidance, and cultivate their children into high-end people with noble morals, elegant behavior and superb knowledge! In addition to the strong parental personality genes are the potential triggers for the formation of bear children, the acquired living environment and parents' education methods are the greater catalysts.

From early childhood to childhood, children completely receive and imitate the words and deeds of the adults closest to them, and most of the closest people are parents and teachers. At this time, parents are also in their youth, and they have no experience in educating their children, and some fathers simply play with their children as toys, such as teasing their children to drink, smoke and other stupid behaviors. When the child reaches puberty, the mirror effect on the child's body due to the parental education and living environment begins to appear, the boy loves to fight, must have been beaten by his parents since he was a child, and the girl loves to lie, which must be caused by the lack of love in the family.

All these behaviors and habits should make parents reflect on their own behavior, otherwise, the bear child will be so bearish that the parents' intestines will be repentant.