What should I do if I am tormented because of a girl?

I was really sad in those years, I was like the hero of a TV series, everything hung on her and my feelings for her, which had seriously affected my life and study. When you two are good, she laughs at you and you are happy, and she frowns at you and you are sad. When the two of you are not good, she laughs at you and you are sad, and she is sad and you are still sad.

So, three-quarters of the four situations in general life when you are sad are you. When something happens to her, you always think about her, and you don't get anything. I just want to see her happy and surprised by what you've done, even if it's just for a moment.

Therefore, when you do something and she doesn't buy it, she feels very uncomfortable, and she doesn't want to do anything. But I miss her again when I am far away. It wasn't until later that he really left her and found a girlfriend who was good to him, but there was still her shadow in the deepest part of his heart.

If you encounter it on the road, it will still flash away immediately.

I remember when I liked a person very much was high school, and now it's been 5 years, if you can or have the opportunity to be with him, then pursue this relationship, if it's very clear that it's impossible, don't disturb other people's lives, you can be sad but don't say anything hypocritical to do hypocritical things, leave yourself a little dignity and decency, I used to think I paid a lot for that person, but it's really nothing in the eyes of people you like, it's your wishful thinking, It's a beautiful thing to like, why it's painful to like someone, it's just that you can't love it, or you can't get a response to it, and most of the people you think you pay are just moving yourself, and you feel that you've done a lot, but it's useless, you can't talk about paying, it's just moving yourself, and it disturbs others, so it's good to secretly like it.

I am a first-year graduate student, and I met a girl in the front seat of the examination room when I was going to graduate school. Later, I found out that I was admitted to the same school and the same major, and now I am in the same class. When I started school, I was attracted to her difference.

So far, I have gone out to play billiards and table tennis a few times, and I have eaten a few times after playing. Loved her a lot. I also know that I can only be friends.

But on June 1st, after I gave her a gift, she became very cold. I used to chat every day, and I had a lot of fun coming out to play. I just want to be good friends.

But her sudden coldness made me very uncomfortable. I hate tossing and turning every day and can't sleep. Later, my roommate analyzed me and said, first of all, you have to know why she is suddenly cold to you, whether she has someone you like or what you did to be disappointed in you, I think it is most likely the first type.

Find an opportunity to have a meal together, talk about your feelings and your thoughts, and be honest with each other.

Go out, no matter how busy you are with work and study, put aside the monotonous and stressful schedule, and participate in amateur activities. Someone invites you to a party, don't say no, who knows if something interesting will happen, arrange a date, don't say no, it may be very ordinary, but maybe she has great friends. There's no chance of not going.

I'm currently liking a girl, and I've been liking her single until she finds her other half. Originally, I had been thinking one-sidedly that "she finally found her happiness, and I should be happy". But one day later, when I talked to my friend about her again, my friend stared at me and said the sentence that pierced my heart like a steel knife, "Why did she agree with others but not you, have you ever thought about it?"

Yes. I'm terrible right now, bloated figure. Meager income.

A bleak future. Talented and shallow, ambitious, sentimental and not down-to-earth. Thank you for giving me a clearer picture of myself.

Thank you for giving me the courage to change myself little by little.

I can't do anything, I always think about her, but I don't have the courage and ability. Occasionally, if you are noticed a little, you will open your heart, and every time you think that your liking is just wishful thinking, you will have a very uncomfortable and depressed feeling, and the feeling of suppressing yourself is really uncomfortable, and you want to use sports and entertainment to divert your attention, but in the end it still ends in failure. It's really hard to find a way to forget, it's really hard to forget someone, maybe I'm just too focused.

It's so painful that it's uncomfortable to see each other once, but I still can't help but go to meet each other. It is impossible to be together, it is difficult to die. Constantly hiding, using all kinds of methods.

I really want to go back to China, and I really want to stay away from these rights and wrongs. It's uncomfortable, it's so uncomfortable, I've never felt so bad. Let me end this life quickly, end it quickly, end it quickly.

My ex-girlfriend and I ended our freshman year together and broke up at the end of our senior year. I haven't come out of the shadows for more than a year, and I always think about the old days and occasionally lose sleep. It's better when you're busy, but when you're alone, you're always not happy.

Later, until I met another girl, maybe love transfer is the best way to heal.

If a girl makes you suffer a lot, it is clear that you are in love with the wrong person, and it is better to get out of time and find a new life.

Love is supposed to be sweet and beautiful, if you fall in love with a girl who is not excellent, it is tantamount to asking for trouble, she will only bring you eternal pain, it is better to withdraw in time. My younger brother used to fall in love with a vain girl, and when he was poor and white, the other party empathized and said goodbye, and my younger brother was sad and depressed for a long time.

Boys are looking for empathetic girls when looking for a partner, those selfish and greedy girls are not worthy of your love at all, and when a girl makes you miserable, you must understand the following points.

First, the girl who makes you miserable doesn't love you at all, you might as well let go in time and find your love.

The girls who love you can't bear to be sad and sad at all, they will occasionally lose their temper, but they will definitely know how to stop in moderation. A girl who gives you endless troubles, doesn't love you at all, and only consumes your time and energy.

Love needs to be happy with each other, but also needs to understand and tolerate each other, wrong love will only hurt both, so you must know how to let go and meet a new life.

Second, you should not be blinded by love, in addition to love, there are ideals and careers in life.

Men must not regard love as the whole of life, but to have their own ideals and careers, love is just a small episode in life. If the other person doesn't love you, you must know how to withdraw in time, and then work hard to become a better version of yourself. When you become excellent and strong, you will be full of charm, and there will naturally be girls who will fall in love with you, and love is also a natural thing.

Thirdly, if you fall in love with a vain and selfish girl, there is no need to bother yourself, because she is not worth cherishing at all.

Some girls are selfish and greedy, when you have money, they will be coquettish and cute, and when you are poor, they will abandon you, and then climb another branch. Boys should not be blinded by the beauty of girls in love, but value the inner beauty of girls, only gentle and kind girls are worthy of your love.

Because of a girl, let yourself endure torture, at this time you can do something else to distract yourself.

I'll find a bar to be presumptuous, then hang out with a few good friends for a few days, relax, and finally muster up the courage to confess my heart to the girl.

If you are tormented because you like this girl but you can't love her, you might as well distance yourself from her first and calm down. If you still like her very much after calming down, then boldly chase her, and even if you fail, you will not regret it.

But if you're so uncomfortable because that girl isn't the type you like, but she's been harassing you, go and make it clear to her. Even if it breaks her heart, it's better than wasting time torturing each other.

If you love her, you can't feel her love, you can be separated, love is complicated, as long as you love, small setbacks are nothing.

Put all your energy into your career, don't let yourself have too much time to think about that girl, when you have developed in your career and time has passed long enough, you will find that you will not remember what that girl was like.

Distract yourself, do what you like, do more exercise, or write it in the form of a book, and vent your heart, but you can't keep it down.

If the girl doesn't have a boyfriend, you can pursue her, and if you work hard, you may have good results. If she already has a partner, put love in your heart, work hard to divert your attention, and you will meet better girls.

Of course, you have to face this problem positively and see if you can pursue this girl, or give up completely, so that you will not be tortured.