When does it take for a man to be mature? What does it take to mature??

A person's maturity has nothing to do with age. When it's time to speak, don't say too much, don't talk about the point, don't have superfluous expressions; The movements and manners should be moderate and not too exaggerated; Don't dress too childishly, these are superficial. But it looks like people feel more mature, and if you want to think that you are mature, then pay attention to your own thoughts.

In fact, these things are slowly accumulated in life, a little more life experience, a little more life experience, and a rational view of things. External maturity can only be achieved by dressing up, and inner maturity needs time to be tempered, and you will understand it after experiencing it, even if you have not experienced it, you can also learn the principles of life from your elders. There are a lot of books about how to behave in the world, and you spend some time on them.

In the workplace, we must change the arrogance and bad habits when we were students, and be a conscientious and responsible person at work. In life, one's own experience is the best material to make oneself mature, even if the elders teach themselves, when they really face problems, they will deeply understand the truth of life. The attitude and values of life will also slowly change, and the thinking will mature.

Mature people will think and analyze their own path from multiple perspectives.

Have a certain age and some life experience. But no man is 100% mature. Maturity comes from experiences with the little things in life. But one thing can be recognized, every man has a mature side.

Maturity is just for your mind, your mind. The plan you propose when you are doing something or dealing with something. There are many factors that contribute to ripening.

A person's physical maturity is a natural formation as they age. But a person's psychological maturity must be related to experience and his ability to understand things, i.e., understanding. A person can understand from what he has experienced, whether it is good or bad, whether he is happy or sad, why he is happy, why he is sad, and why he has done it well.

Why did this go bad? When he understands, he will find out his experience, he will be more calm in his work, he will be able to deal with problems easily, and he will feel very sophisticated. But sophistication is not maturity, and sophistication and maturity have similarities but differences.

A person's maturity must have a good cultivation, and being sophisticated without cultivation is not maturity.

For a mature person :

When he is lonely, he can find something interesting to do and let the loneliness dispel.

When he is lonely, he enjoys the silence of silence alone. He was glad that he was inspired by the silence and Mo of that moment in his heart.

When awkward: He uses humor to defuse it.

Tricky: He handles it calmly.

When he's happy, he smiles.

When he is in pain, he heals himself.

When he succeeds, he feels that it is inevitable.

When he fails, he sees it as paving the way for success.

He is always sincere when facing friends, and he is always smiling when he meets opponents.

Bumpy is his only way, and happiness is the criterion for him to grasp.

The charm of a person is his maturity, he can say what he should say, and he will do what he can do. Not pompous, not ostentatious, not dull. Reliable, honest, optimistic, positive ......

That's all I have for my understanding of maturity, and I hope it will enlighten you.

May my friend understand and mature when he matures.

Why do girls like mature men? Because mature men can give them a sense of security and protect them in times of danger, how can they be mature?

1. Pay attention to promises: Mature men will never go back on their word, he attaches great importance to each of his promises, and carefully considers whether his words can really be fulfilled before making a wish. Every word he says makes you feel reassured and trusted.

The man who runs the train with his mouth, fires empty cannons indiscriminately, and can't take action for a long time, has nothing to do with maturity.

2. Don't talk exaggerated: A mature man never talks casually, he will grasp the appropriate silence, and speak clearly but not shouting. Just drink a little wine and tell a little story about your own little experience all over the table, and half a room can hear it without a loudspeaker, this kind of man, at most, will make the audience laugh, and no one will put your various so-called "road of struggle" in their hearts.

3. Knowledgeable and subtle and introverted: they read, accept new things and new information, and constantly enrich their connotation. But they are unassuming, their talents are only shown when necessary, and they are never deliberately showy in order to satisfy their vanity.

They are like mellow wine, the more you taste it, the more you taste it.

Fourth, broad-minded: mature men don't care, don't covet small gains, don't care about small losses, and don't chatter about this and that. Their vision is never stumped by trivial matters, and they are often the "angels who turn back first" when it comes to small quarrels in the family.

5. Not self-centered: Mature men respect themselves and know how to respect others. They are good at empathy, will consider problems from the standpoint of others, do not force others to accommodate themselves, and are good at cooperating with others.

All men who are "how I am", the typical little emperor's temper, have not grown up yet.

6. Have the courage to admit mistakes: mature men are not stubborn, can accept different opinions, and are good at adopting good suggestions. They have the courage to bear the consequences of their own inappropriate decisions, and never make excuses to prevaricate.

Seventh, the will is firm: mature men have the psychological quality of not messing up, once they determine their own goal, they will work towards it, encounter setbacks, they analyze the reasons, learn lessons, and correct the direction in time, but never give up easily. They will be tired, but after resting, they will set out with confidence.

8. Clean and tidy: Mature men respect their appearance. They have a hairstyle that suits them best, a clean chin without stubble, a face that is not greasy, and no long nails.

The clothes don't have to be brand-name, but they are neat and generous, and they won't be crumpled like a courier. They will never wear black leather shoes and white socks and wear suits to travel.

9. Respect the old and love the young: Mature men are caring, have a sense of social responsibility, and have the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation. He will give up his seat to the elderly and pregnant women, donate money and materials to the affected areas, help out-of-school children, and donate blood ...... voluntarilyThey don't necessarily do all of these things, but they don't do nothing.

10. Have hobbies: They are not robots who only know how to work, they know how to use hobbies to regulate their tense nerves, and work and leisure are not wrong, which makes them interesting. No wonder women say: Men with hobbies are not easy to become bad.

When you try to do something useful but not necessarily interesting, you are mature.

There is no standard answer to this, and the general perception in society is that it is mature to be able to take on the responsibility of a family. In my opinion, I don't care what I gain and lose if I become immature.

After falling out of love, after two years of hard work in society, after suffering great pain or sadness.

If you ask that, you are immature.

When a man's tolerance becomes bigger! When the temper and personality are calm, they will be mature.

Three points of stability, three points of ability, four points of responsibility!

By the time you know what responsibility is, you'll be mature.