My boyfriend comes to see me once every two weeks and my heart aches every time I see him off

Hey, I don't think it's a big deal! I know it shows that you love him and love him! Either you go to him, or he comes, you don't leave!

Otherwise, there will always be separation, and there will always be heartache! Actually, it's nothing, it's good to be in the past! When you can be together every day in the future, don't quarrel over some small things!

I used to be too, I wasn't in the same city as him. Whenever we are together, I always hope that the time can be too slow, and the day before he is going to separate, he will be unhappy! Now that we have been married for more than a year, we are together every day, and sometimes we quarrel over some trivial things, I feel so annoying, and I can't help but think of the time when we were separated before.

Then you will feel that he is the greatest happiness by his side, why quarrel?

So bear with me. It will be fine in the future!

When you go, you have to think, "He's still coming."

When the feelings are deep, the feelings are deeply related, and the limited thoughts are stretched for a long time, and the heart will naturally hurt. . .

Wait, when he doesn't have to go.

Now that this psychological suggestion has been formed, it is very worrying that you are like this, even if it is not what you think. It is recommended that you think of a way to open this knot, such as finding an opportunity to talk to him in depth.

I'm in the same situation as you, most of us only see each other once a month, and we can only trust him, believe in ourselves, and trust us.

What a girl! What a rarity! (Alas!) How does my wife know how to eat, play and wear) You tell him: Use the money now to the edge, and you will have to earn a lot of money to support me in the future.

To tell you the truth, if you have ambition, you will have fighting spirit, and besides, when are you like this, you are a head.

Let's make an appointment at the right time.

If you are true love, you won't care about the cost of travel and food.

Is it possible to solve the problem of missing?

Do you want to see him?

Don't just think he's going to go hungry.

And think about what will happen when he comes.

Give it up!

Let's be realistic, that's it!!

A little less hope, a little less disappointment, in fact, I'm the same as you, the more I care, the more disappointing it is, don't let yourself get hurt in the future, in the end... You'll regret it, you have to learn to love yourself from today, and if he cares about you, you'll feel it. And now it's the open-mindedness that counts.

Why don't you want to see his family?

If you really want to be with him, you don't just want to see him, but you have to behave better. Then you will go more smoothly.

If you go to his house, you can go out and play again, and you don't want to face his parents all day, right? You may not be able to imagine how much trouble it would be for your parents to disagree, so learn to be smart at first. Don't let your parents regret it when they oppose it.

Maybe your boyfriend is watching you handjob himself this week, and I'm like that, and I don't want to see my girlfriend when I get a handjob, and I don't want to be considerate of him.

Don't be afraid, go to his house just like you go to an ordinary friend's house, go if you want to, don't get along with yourself.

He may have something to do, I feel like you can understand him, or maybe he doesn't care about you as much as he used to, don't guess! Don't just say something hurtful to each other, love him and believe in him, I wish you happiness!

Maybe he wants to introduce you to his family and get married or something.

Poor boy: Ah...

I can understand your feelings, and often I am so wronged. Girls, it's better not to be so proactive. Leave some dignity for yourself.

and so on......Maybe he has someone else'......

You don't like this feeling. It's a habit.

You're used to the feeling of being with him, and you can't get out of it easily.

Now that you already know that you don't love him anymore . Just be bold and let it go.

You also need a new life.

It's really eating in the bowl and looking at the pot, if you like it, you don't like it, don't you just mess with yourself.

Sympathy, pay will be deeply engraved in the history of your life, forgetting is impossible, after all, has been experienced, our future is the past bits and pieces of the convergence, but have made a decision, you have to accept the possible kind of pain, experience more, as a tempering for yourself, life needs courage, look at tomorrow's sunrise, the mood will be good.

When everyone does something wrong, it depends on what he does wrong, and if you have a deep affection for him, you can tolerate everything about him. Why can't we be together, forgiving one's mistakes is tantamount to liberating one's own heart.

No, the most important thing for people is self-love.

If you exceed the bottom line and still blindly accommodate him, you are sorry for yourself.

It's not so much that you love him very much, but that you should take good care of yourself.

People who love themselves will love and let others love.

Say goodbye to him handsomely, and then don't give up on yourself.

I think, it depends on whether he touches my bottom line, the more sad things I do, the more alienated I am from his relationship, and after a long time, it becomes a big knot, and if I can't untie it, I will break up, in fact, if I have such a boyfriend, I will break up with him when he does the fifth thing that makes me sad.

No, the pimple in my heart will stay with me for a lifetime.

If it's not a matter of principle, and you love him so much that you can't let it go, then it doesn't matter if you continue to be together until you can't bear it anymore.

It depends on what it is, I can forgive if I can forgive 1 time, if it is unforgivable, it will not work once, if you love him again, he doesn't love you, is it useful to decide that you take it yourself, no one can help you thank you.

Ask your heart, is this the happiness you want? If the answer is no, give up!

Splitting legs, domestic violence, this kind of intolerable, even if you love him very much, you can't.

But if there's a little problem or something else that makes you wronged, you can change the way you use it.

It depends on how much you love him!

If it's a lot, then leave! If it's me, once or twice, three times is fine, and if you have more, you can say goodbye.

Love covers all faults.

But if love only brings pain and sadness, why should we be together?

If you love enough, keep loving, and if you don't have enough, then leave early.

Won't be someone who doesn't cherish you, so why bother!

It's not necessarily his fault that makes you sad, maybe it's that you're thinking too much?

Love him and tolerate him

Don't go to him next time, if he asks you to go, you will find a reason to prevaricate, if he really loves you, he will come to see you, if he just plays with you, I guess he won't care too much about you. It's not easy to meet a good man now, if you think it's good, he's good for you, just stick to it.

Divided. He doesn't care about you at all, just a little bit.

You try to snub him, ah if he doesn't react, break up decisively, otherwise you will die of sadness, lest you be dumped, it's still okay to grab a tail lottery, at least you dump him.

You have to understand that my boyfriend is a soldier and we have seen each other for no more than two days in half a year, so you are already very happy For me, I am willing to see him and do anything.

You can try to snub him, if he doesn't coax you, it means that he has changed his mind, if he coaxes you, you can spread out and talk. Maybe he has some unspeakable reason why he can't go to see you