I haven t had a job for 4 years after graduating from high school, and I m a wreck

You have this thought that proves that you are still realised.

The solution to this problem is very simple, it is to get out of the self.

Get out of your own little world.

Try to find a job, no matter what kind of job, do it first.

Push yourself to do it.

Today's young people are often not high or low.

You have to break this confusion first.

With a job, there is a wide circle of life.

Very helpful for you.

Get a job just after the New Year.

First of all, I wish you a happy work.

First of all, first turn yourself into not an otaku, then you can start to go out to exercise and play basketball at your height. After that, talk to some friends who play basketball to strengthen your spoken language, and you can also increase your circle of friends, so that you are not an otaku. After that, of course, you have to find your favorite technical expertise.

For example, stir-frying, car repair, a lot, a lot. After more than 1 year of study, you may be able to achieve something, but if you can't do it, it means that you are too bad.

Mr. Lu Xun said that "dissatisfaction is the upward wheel".

You should now take out a pen and paper.

1. Write down your strengths and weaknesses (which can include appearance and height).

2. What you want to do (you can make money).

3. Things you can do.

4. What do you need to do to raise your "3" to the point of achieving "2".

5. Tomorrow I will start to do the content of "4".

The most important thing is: persistence.

If possible, be patient with your parents.

They can endure you for four years, which means that they are doting on you enough, and they also show that they have enough love for you.

We believe that labor creates a better future.

Hehe, little white face, after a while, you will find out that handsome has a fart! I can eat it as a meal! Only naïve little girls like handsome guys!

Kindness! Get out there! Open the window of your heart!

Upgrade your skills! Game! Playthings are demoralized!

Internet! Everything is nothing! It doesn't matter, we can't change it for a while, we are all self-aware people, what we lack, what we lack is perseverance!

Perseverance! Let's set a goal! Be optimistic!

Be cheerful! Be a living treasure! Joy for everyone!

If you have an idea, you can make it happen. Committing suicide will only be more sorry for your parents, your parents brought you into this world, they don't owe you anything, and they don't think about what you owe them, as long as you can live well and live happily, it is the greatest reward for your parents, come on.

What do you regret after graduating from high school?

It is useless to regret what has already happened, it is better to think about the development that follows. I suggest you learn to be a chef.

First: there is a shortage of chefs.

With the steady development of China's national economy, the people's living standards are improving day by day, which has promoted the vigorous development of China's catering industry, and the specialization, marketization and characteristics of the catering industry have become increasingly prominent. In addition, with the importance of health and nutritional hygiene, there is a shortage of professionals in nutrition and catering.

Second: the chef is well treated.

Chef is a professional, technical profession, and the success of a hotel is inseparable from a good chef. Therefore, employers attach great importance to the welfare of chefs. As the head chef and executive chef of the hotel, the salary package will be even higher.

Third: there is a lot of room for chefs to improve.

At present, chefs, executive chefs, catering managers, catering administrative directors, etc. are all talents in short supply in the market, and they are also the direction that chef students have been working towards.

Fourth: the success rate of entrepreneurship is high.

The catering industry has few requirements for entrepreneurial capital, a broad market, and a high success rate for entrepreneurship. As a technical chef who understands management, he has a unique advantage in entrepreneurship.

What kind of job you are suitable for, which direction to develop, only according to your personal ability and quality, preferences, market demand and other factors to a comprehensive analysis, we can only give you suggestions, say the general direction, you have to consider it yourself.

When you first start looking for a job, you just need to avoid being too picky. What is certain is that your confusion is temporary and normal at the same time. Everyone feels more or less lost in the process of growing up.

To get out of this situation, it is recommended that you set a goal for yourself, that is, planning, according to your own ability and the future needs of the market. Then set some stage goals, the kind that can be achieved by jumping on your own. When it is achieved, set a goal that can be achieved by hard work, so that the final goal is reached step by step.

The goal should not be too big, but it should be within reach, so that you will not be confused and discouraged, and in this way, you will be able to get happiness from the success of achieving your goal.

The goal can be any aspect, such as finding a job you like, or determining a skill training you need, and then setting a work-study goal, so that you can make a little progress every day, work and study steadily, and accumulate experience, so that you will definitely gain something; After that, set a new stage goal and work hard. Give it a try, instead of being confused and entangled, make something that will be beneficial to you in the future.