How can a woman be gentle and tolerant without being cowardly?

This question is very simple, first of all, you have to be clear about what cowardice is, others embarrass you, bully you, make you unhappy, you still blindly accommodate others, you don't know how to resist, you are cowardly, of course, the fault is not you.

Everyone has to be strong in their hearts, so that they can progress, after all, people must first live for themselves, so that you can help others, right!!

Show the gentle side to the people who care about you, the people you like, don't treat everyone the same, others will think that you don't know what to do, and gradually others will not be so good to you.........

You won't become cowardly when you're strong in your heart, your inner character is innate, even if you change how much you still have a certain amount of influence, since you're a little strong, there's no need to press your heart too tightly, when you feel a little inconsistent with the characteristics of gentleness, you have to be strong when you change your strength, this degree should be a little meaning for you!

The problem of maintaining a normal heart and dealing with the world is a very complex problem.

Don't be self-righteous, listen to the opinions and suggestions of those around you, be observant, and the best thing is to love yourself and be kind to yourself.

Learn to be calm, think before you act.

In fact, there is no need to change your character, because if you rely on your gentleness and frankness, you can win the approval of the boss.

A woman, in addition to her generous and beautiful appearance, her inner and temperament are also very important, and even if she does not have a flower-like appearance, for women, having a good quality is undoubtedly a compulsory course to improve herself.

Whether you're a man or a woman, socializing with friends, or living on your own, these qualities can make a difference in your life.

Kindness is a must for good qualities.

Kind women can shine, they are kind to others, know how to be grateful, and have a kind heart, which is the most beautiful quality. Kind women have some inexplicable affinity in them, which makes people want to be close to them, and this quality invisibly attracts the people around them, and it will naturally be popular.

A kind woman knows how to get along with others, values harmony, and respects both herself and others. But kindness also has a bottom line, and blind kindness is harmful to others and oneself, so kindness must also be laughed at.

In addition to kindness, carefulness and thoughtfulness are also the qualities that a woman should have. A careful and considerate person must also be a gentle and kind person, a considerate person knows how to love others, and can make the people around him feel warm.

Attentiveness and thoughtfulness are a unique charm.

A woman's mind is naturally more delicate, and it is easy to observe details that others cannot observe, which is also a manifestation of charm. Many times, it is precisely because you are more careful than others that you will make others look at you with admiration.

Everyone needs to be cared for, and when you can carefully observe his discomfort and care for him in time, he can feel your thoughtfulness, and at this time, your charm seems to be greater.

How strong you are, how gentle you are".

If you become more and more indifferent, you think you have become strong, but you don't, and if you are strong in your heart, you should become gentle, gentle with the whole world. As a woman, you don't need to have a strong appearance, sometimes you can overcome rigidity with softness.

To be gentle does not mean that you should be weak, although you are a woman, you should also have a strong heart. We must be able to withstand success and praise, but also be able to withstand setbacks and failures. Because life can't be smooth sailing, in times of adversity, you have to be strong inside.

When your heart is strong, you can learn to be more gentle. Be gentle, gentle. Gentleness does not mean that you dare not resist, when doing things, you must remember to "have a clear attitude and a gentle tone".

Gentleness is a woman's incomparable strength, under the appearance of gentleness, there should be a strong heart, how can a gentle and strong person not be confident?

A peerless face is not something that everyone can have, what we can improve and improve is our inner being. There are so many things worth learning, and you should spend more time on improving yourself.

Kind, strong, gentle, attentive and considerate....There are really many good qualities that a woman can have, and the more good qualities you have, the more attractive you are, and correspondingly, the more popular you are.

You must have your own principles and bottom line, you must be brave enough to refuse to do some unfair treatment, you must stand in the other party's perspective to ask Hu quietly questions, you must be particularly gentle, and you must have your own opinions.

Learn to be coquettish, rely on each other, but not attach to each other, accept his bad shortcomings, try to make him correct, express love, but don't indulge him too much.

When getting along with the opposite sex, you must have your own bottom line, don't always tolerate each other without care, don't always cry in front of each other, and don't always rely on each other.

First of all, the adjectives of tolerance and gentleness are very beautiful, if you want to grow up to be such a woman, then it must be inseparable from her family life environment and himself. If you want to grow into such a woman, you need to be patient in many cases. Only with patience will you become a very gentle person, when have you ever seen those who are very impatient or have a very anxious personality are more gentle, I think no, if you have a more gentle personality, then he treats him and his own character is very patient.

Only with such patience can you grow into a more gentle woman.

If you don't have enough patience, then you should cultivate enough patience, and only with enough patience can you grow into a gentle woman.

When encountering things, talk to those who are more open-minded and listen to their thoughts, so that you can slowly become a gentle and tolerant woman.

To the old, the weak, the sick and the disabled, and small animals, we must have love and kindness, so that we can be gentle and tolerant.

I think I can let myself read more books, because in books you can find a lot of principles for learning to be gentle and tolerant.

If a girl wants to grow into a gentle and tolerant woman, she must first control her emotions and not take many things that make her unhappy to heart.

The point is not to be an ungentle personTenderness at heart, does not mean that it is bad. The point is that I have my own boundaries of principles, and my gentleness does not mean that I can be bullied casually, and I can not care about my mood.

Gentleness is just my softness in my heart, tolerance and understanding of the world.

Be an ungentle woman :

Love the world too.

Learn to be kind to yourself.

Have your own boundaries.

Web Links. Be a gentle woman.

Strong want to get the approval of others, so that you will lose yourself more and more, what you have to do now is to put the heart on others back, put it on your own body, rest assured, even if you don't put your heart on them, you will not lack anything, you don't need any people to understand, and you don't need anyone to care, if the heart keeps asking outward, then what you get will always be suffering, if you come back and see yourself, you will find that everything you did before is just a vain.

Only by understanding oneself can one understand others and understand one's true position.

Why be a woman who is not gentle, how good is a gentle woman. You can only be a tomboy.

First of all, start with the appearance characteristics, short hair, clothes, in the personality, personality is innate, you can't change it, but you can learn from the boyfriend around you!

He is fierce to people all day long, and loses his temper.

He was fierce all day long, speaking foul language, behaving masculinely, cutting his hair short, and dressing up in disdain for anything.

Why do you want to be an ungentle woman, you can't be fierce to people all day long, otherwise you will be too fierce to get married.

Well, it's good, gentle for yourself and your family.

Don't give yourself a man face, that's enough.

If you can practice sanda and hand-to-hand combat to ensure combat effectiveness, bring ** self-defense, sticks or others.

Are you talking about the heart like stopping water, this realm is high, ordinary children can't do it, I think you're not very old, and your consciousness is eager to mature. In fact, maturity is related to age and experience (that is, it requires a certain amount of experience), and it cannot be forced. Don't worry, there is a way to alleviate it, that is, calm down, don't be impulsive in everything, don't be impatient, you can exhale deeply, if you are the kind of person who has a very open personality, as long as you don't value everything so much, you will be much calmer.

You can try exercise accommodation, such as jogging, yoga, or if you like art, you can learn to draw or dance. Don't you think that those artists are not very calm and calm in their own world (I know that what you need to deal with the outside world is, but it's not bad to start with this step, at least you have a good mental training). The tolerance you want to be shows that you are not stingy, you only occasionally care too much or are impulsive and a little more straightforward and a little less calm, tolerance is the easiest to do, for you.

Calm, it depends on whether you believe in yourself, and whether you take the results too seriously, in fact, after a lot of things (among which there must be a lot of failures and setbacks), people become calm, because they have seen more and experienced more, and they are not interested in bad results (sensitive meaning), which is very simple.

Yes.. In fact, I feel that you have something to do, and you have been under pressure recently, and you suddenly want to do something meaningful, but you are limited by your own conditions and cannot be very sure to complete it well. Sometimes you abandon weakness and pick up strength, it may be that you want to change, or it may be imposed on you by the outside world, anyway, it is a change that is beneficial to you.

But I want to say that in my own experience, I think that when you are not confident, you are cute, stupid and very kind, and people's sensitive personality may make you very troubled, but sensitivity makes you understand the feelings of others, and will take the initiative to understand others and comfort others. Although I am not a girl paper, but I can understand the idea of girl paper very well, if you think it is really difficult for you to change yourself, you can also find a good teacher and a good example, there are many adult women are very rational, calm, tolerant and calm, this is the fastest way, that is, there is one point: you may not be easy to see the essence, because you are not at that age.

In that realm, there will be some things that cannot be understood. It's hard to change on your own, but it's precious, and you're proud of it. I don't know what else can help you, I'm also begging for change, like you, but I want to be a calm and calm man, and with those who are tolerant and calm, you will be subtly changed, at least you will have an understanding.

Good luck