Zhao Yun is obviously attracted to the Fan family, why don t you marry home?

Because Zhao Yun is in the way of face problems,I thought it was a bit embarrassing to marry a widow, so I didn't marry Fan.

During the Three Kingdoms period, there were many military generals, among whom they also married a very beautiful wife and started their happy married life. But Zhao Yun's marriage can be described as twists and turns, and in all historical materials, there is no result about Zhao Yun's wife. But in "Romance of the Three Kingdoms", it is mentioned that a beautiful woman once expressed her love for him to Zhao Yun, but Zhao Yun refused, what is going on?

Back then, the Battle of Changbanpo caused Liu Bei to lose miserably, not only losing his soldiers, but even his wife was compensatedBut one of the biggest beneficiaries in this battle is Zhao Yun, he became famous in a battle, and it is well known that this person can still retreat from the attack of 100,000 Cao soldiers, he is really a master. Therefore, for a while, many people were frightened of this Zhao Yun, and even the Taishou when he captured Guiyang heard that the attacker was Zhao Yun, so he quickly chose to surrender, which shows how powerful Zhao Yun's prestige is.

Later, Zhao Fan wanted to tie up with Zhao Yun, so he introduced his sister-in-law Fan to Zhao YunWhen Zhao Yun first looked for Fan's, he used four words to describe her as "alluring the country and the city", which shows that Zhao Yun's first time he saw Fan's was not an ordinary emotion, what man would give her such a high evaluation if he didn't have a good impression of a woman when they met for the first time?

So Zhao Fan wanted to push the boat down the river, marry his sister-in-law to Zhao Yun, and pave the way for himself by the way, but he didn't expect Zhao Yun to refuseAt that time, Liu Bei and Zhuge Liang were puzzled, both of them were single, and the Fan family was so beautiful, why didn't Zhao Yun agree? Later, Zhao Yun explained: "This may be a **.

As soon as Liu Bei heard this, he began to persuade Zhao Yun and threatened to help Zhao Yun and the Fan family be matchmakersAt this time, Zhao Yun said: "There are so many women in the world, but I am afraid that my reputation will be damaged because of this, how can I worry about not having a wife?" "The damage to his reputation can be understood as his fear that he will not be able to save face by marrying a widow; robbed other people's cities, and also took other people's wives, which is disgraceful to say; From the above, Zhao Yun has various shirks, so I focus more on the former.

I can only say that Zhao Yun missed a happy marriage like this.

Zhao Yun was obviously attracted to the Fan family, but he didn't marry home, because he was afraid that he would die on the battlefield one day, leaving their orphans and widows to live a sad life.

I think it's all for his own vanity, for his honor, he is afraid that marrying Fan will be laughed at, he cares too much about other people's opinions, and he is afraid of losing his face.

Because Zhao Fan surrendered, it is not clear whether it was a real surrender or a scheme, if Zhao Fan surrendered fakely, Zhao Yun would be in a dilemma on both sides, so Zhao Yun did not marry Fan for Liu Bei's sake.

<> "Why didn't Zhao Yun marry the beautiful Fan?"

When Guiyang Taishou Zhao Fan dedicated the widow's sister-in-law Fan to Zhao Yun, he was rejected by Zhao Yun. After returning to Daying, Zhao Yun told Liu Bei about the cause and effect, and listed several reasons why he did not marry Fan, "Zhao Fan has become a brother with a certain person, and if he marries his sister-in-law now, it will be scolded; His wife remarried, so that the big festival was lost, and the two also; Zhao Fan did it at the beginning of his life, and his heart was unpredictable, and he was also three. The lord is newly set in Jianghan, the pillow is not settled, and Yun'an dares to abolish the lord's major event with a woman", which seems to be dedicated to the country and high-sounding.

But Liu Bei saw at a glance that Zhao Yunyan was insincere, why?

It is true that Zhao Yun and Zhao Fan are brothers, but why can't they marry Zhao Fan's sister-in-law? Zhao Fan's brother is dead, Fan is single, and Zhao Yun is also single, who will talk nonsense? Fan's remarriage is also very reluctant, Fan's young widow, should he be widowed for the rest of his life?

In ancient times, widowhood was advocated, but it was not forbidden to remarry.

Of course, Zhao Yun's point of view has a strong moral color in the Yuan and Ming dynasties, in fact, in the Three Kingdoms in history, it was relatively open to women's remarriage. Later, when Liu Bei arrived in Yizhou, he married Liu Zhang's widowed sister-in-law Wu who was also a member of the Han family, so why not marry Fan at this time? Liu Bei's thoughts about Zhao Yun were not broken, but Liu Bei clearly told Zhao Yun:

Today's event has been decided, what if you marry him? ”

Liu Bei said, you are worried that Zhao Fan has bad intentions, now that Guiyang has been calmed, Zhao Fan is no longer a threat, and you don't have to worry about my great cause, now Liu Bei and I are the master of you and marry Fan, and others will never dare to say anything, how about it?

The reason is too simple

Because Zhao Yun is a woman.

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1.Because Zhao Yun was stationed in Guiyang, there was a Taishou Zhao Fan, and the Fan family was Zhao Fan's sister-in-law, because Zhao Fan was of the same clan as him, he felt that this was inappropriate.

2.Zhao Fan was forced to surrender, uncertain whether he was trustworthy or not, and Zhao Yun was afraid of being used and affecting Liu Bei's great cause.

3.It is said that there is another reason, when Zhao Yun defected to Liu Bei, he was middle-aged, and he was not a teenager depicted on TV, and it is estimated that he had a wife.

Zhao Yun is cautious and thoughtful, and in the treatment of Zhao Fan's sister-in-law, he is unmoved by the stunning beauty, and the first thing that comes to mind is his own duties and tasks, which is particularly awe-inspiring. Zhao Yun did this, not only to do his best to know each other since childhood, but also to avoid the suspicion of others, his intentions are very good, and he also sees that he is cautious and thoughtful.

One is because Zhao Yun is afraid that he will be tricked by Zhao Fan, after all, Zhao Fan was forced to surrender, which will affect Liu Bei's great ambition; The second is because Liu Bei's career was not stable at that time, and Zhao Yun did not have the heart to think about his family affairs.

Zhao Fan was forced to surrender, and at this time, the motive of marrying his widowed sister-in-law to Zhao Yun was not pure, it may be a fake surrender, and there is no need to marry a wife at this time.