My friend introduced me to a girl I m about to meet, what should I do please help me figure it out

It is inevitable that there will be tension when you meet for the first time, so give yourself a deep breath. Control your emotions well, and treat it as an ordinary class reunion. But a reminder, first impressions are important, you can't dress sloppily, you have to be handsome and steady.

Make a good impression. Also, don't be too anxious to talk, don't be too gentle, and don't let the girls think that you can do it easily. Cool point.

Familiar experience, I just helped my sister introduce a man, they have been chatting on mobile phones for more than a month, in two cities, and are ready to meet recently

Here's what I said to my sister: meeting is a qualitative leap, from fiction to reality, whether this person is the person you imagined, maybe it can be seen in this meeting.

So I'm sure your other party thinks the same way, so, it's important not to confess or anything the first time, how fake it is, it's to chat, talk about your own things, ask her about things, and the first time you get along shouldn't be too long, that is, let's see, if there is a second chance to meet, it means that you both look at each other, then it's your turn to talk about things that don't matter...

Not a chance now? How can you talk about love when you meet! I can't eat hot tofu in a hurry!

you know?See each other first. Do you care what she looks like?

Maybe just a little bit of affection, and curiosity. But that's how love develops! Take your time!

Anyway, if I were you, I would take my time, and if I wanted to meet for the first time, I would secretly hint at her love first. See if she's disgusted, happy, or neutral. As long as it's not disgusting, you should have a chance. +u

It's okay, if you don't feel good to meet, be friends, and if you feel awkward to be friends, don't get in touch.

It's normal, but it's actually more common to see men, and it also allows you to get to know men better.

You take your time, if you go straight to the point at the beginning, it will freak people out, start with friends, and naturally take your time.

What's there? That time we met, we should see if the two sides were in harmony or not!

If you don't have anything to say, don't forget it.

In short, the first one to wear that day was handsome.

Maybe the other party is your future wife, oh (is it too far), if not, just be friends.

Anyway!! Ordinary heart, normal heart

There's no need to be restless.

I have similar concerns as you, but we haven't seen each other for eight years, and we don't know how much we've changed from each other. But it's better to hold on to a normal heart first!

My experience, how much hope, how much disappointment!

Ordinary heart, the most ordinary state!

Gently I went and took away my darling 2 points.

The first time it is better not to say the opposite.

There are many opportunities ahead.

If a friend introduces you to a girl, it is a good thing to introduce the girl to you for whatever reason. If you don't know what to say when you first meet a girl, you must think about what topic to talk about in advance, otherwise it will be very embarrassing to become dumb when you meet. Let's share what topics you can talk about:

The first topic: Tell us about yourself.

In general, if a friend introduces a girl to you, then for whatever purpose, introduce yourself to let the other party know you well, which is also a polite behavior.

Only after describing your general situation, you have the right to understand the girl's situation, and after the basic situation of both parties is understood, you can understand whether you are suitable for yourself, and whether there is no need to talk.

The second topic: talk about your interests, and it's best to ask the other person to talk about them too.

Some people say that having the same interests and hobbies can make two people become familiar quickly, and it is also more conducive to the development of future relationships. It is difficult for two people with different interests to have a common topic, and even if they become friends, they will be very strangers.

Talking about each other's interests can not only shorten the distance between the two parties, but also allow each other to determine whether they can communicate well.

The third topic: talk about your life plan or preferred lifestyle.

Some people say that they don't have any big plans for their lives, just go to and from work every day, and it would be good to be able to meet the needs of food, clothing, housing and transportation. Some people say that their life plan is to make their life more exciting.

When two people can talk about their life plans, in other words, talk about the life they want to live, there is nothing wrong with it, and when two people have the same goals in life, we are more suitable to be together, friends who go together, which is particularly precious.

Introduce yourself briefly, and then you can talk about each other's interests and hobbies, find common ground, and communicate in the future. Tell her jokes and make her happy.

The first detail"Before she could finish speaking, she gave me her **"If she is disgusted or bored with you, then she may pause to think about it, or refuse directly, and it can be seen that she has a good impression of you, so she is ready to give you **, or she thought of this step before meeting.

The second detail"Hurriedly tell me yes"First of all, the first time we meet, it is inevitable that I will be a little embarrassed to bring you home at once, "hurry" is shown on the basis of refusing you to enter the house, indicating that she is worried that you may misunderstand "your impression is not good, I am not interested in you and don't want you to enter the house" (this is a psychological reflex, she may not know that she thinks so, but it is true), indicating that she still cares more about you.

That's a great start. You're in a rainy situation now, and she refuses to let you enter the house and makes you think a lot, it's okay, that's because she's embarrassed to see you, and she has all kinds of heartbeats, and she doesn't take into account the rain, she's very nervous, believe in yourself. I wish you success