What kind of man will you marry a woman

Some people say: There is no pure friendship between men and women, and there is always one of them who has illusions about the other, but for some reason, he does not say what is in his heart, and continues to let friendship hide his love. 」

Only those men and women who have loved deeply and have been together for a long time, understand that they are fundamentally incompatible and cannot continue to get along, and break up peacefully without the existence of a third person, can there be pure friendship. 」

Whether you agree with the above paragraph or not, when you and your best friend of the opposite sex step into the following situation, your mood will always be turbulent.

1》When the other party has a boyfriend girlfriend.

If you don't regard the other party as an ordinary friend, when the other party has a boyfriend or girlfriend, you will definitely feel that it is not a meaning, and the other party will tell you about patting, you will find the emotions hidden deep in your heart, and the mood must be very complicated.

2 >> Your friend likes him and her.

You will feel like your friends are competing for your favorite toy, but because of friendship and friend's morality, you will still match them, but you must feel uncomfortable.

3》The people around you think that you are not an ordinary couple.

When others speculate too much about you, and the other party feels uncomfortable, you understand that you only have friendship, and there is no possibility to further deepen the relationship, and your heart will be sour.

4》When you encounter physiological changes.

During the period of development, you have great changes and differences in body and mind, and you understand what is the difference between men and women, although you know that this is a natural phenomenon, but it is still difficult to accept it for a while, and you have begun to have illusions about each other.

5. I like each other.

From friendship to love, it is a common occurrence, if the other party has the same feelings, it is usually a happy ending, if the other party does not feel, or do not rashly confess, otherwise even the friendship will be gone.

6 >> When you get a boyfriend and girlfriend.

When your boyfriend and girlfriend introduce you to a friend of the opposite sex, if the friend of the opposite sex is unhappy, you will understand that the other person is in love with you, although you will not consider the other person, your reaction will be to be happy and worried, happy that it is an honorable thing for one more person to like you, and worry that you are afraid that your pure friendship relationship will not develop again, and you will lose a friend of the opposite sex.

7》The other party likes you.

The other person wants your relationship to be more than just friends, which can be a headache for you, because you are not mentally prepared to accept the other person, and you don't know how to see the other person, and you realize that your friendship is a red flag, and in order to maintain a long-term friendship, you will try your best to adopt an unobtrusive and non-hurtful approach.

Be good to yourself. Don't hit me. Try to scold me as little as possible (preferably to make me happy after scolding) and be good to your own family. Be diligent. It will hurt me. Almost. Marry.

As long as I think of you all the time in my heart, everything is good to you, just like a friend who never leaves, I am willing to marry this kind of man! That's just what I think!

The years are ruthless, and for those beautiful relationships in life, it will always quietly remove its glamorous and gorgeous white veil, and put those dazzling and ugly truths across life.

Tu Lei once said: "A man who can only coax a woman is **, and one day his true form will be revealed!" A man who can only spoil a woman is a slave and will one day rebel! ”

So at this time, some people will definitely ask, those who can coax can't marry, those who can be spoiled can't marry, what kind of man should a woman marry, and the marriage will not be easy to deteriorate?

If you think about it, it doesn't seem that it is very difficult to marry a good man, as long as a woman is observant, she can find it.

1. Men who have strong learning ability and are willing to grow can marry.

I often hear married women around me say that in marriage they are like taking care of two children, one older and one small.

Such marriages are often accompanied by quarrels and helplessness.

When entering marriage, it is not only women who need to grow, but men also need to grow.

The role transition between a man and a man is not something that can be completed with a marriage certificate, it requires more learning how to love and tolerate his wife, how to take on the responsibilities of the family, and how to take care of young children.

Only men who are willing to learn and grow together with women will make women feel secure, and women with security will feel that their marriage is happy.

2. Marry for love, you can marry a man who has to be you.

If a man marries a woman just for the sake of getting married, has no love at all, and does not know how to take care of women, then this marriage is like a mapo tofu without chili peppers.

Maybe a woman will say that she and a man are very suitable, but men and women are like gears, and they can fit together, but there is constantly running-in in marriage, and if there is no lubricant of love, there will be constant friction.

Without love, men and women are improvised, and women's lives are like a pool of stagnant water, dull and uneventful.

And a woman who marries love, the man she loves will always give herself a warm little surprise every day, and the woman is like falling into a honey pot, sweet and happy.

Only with love can we resist the blandness of the years and go further hand in hand.

3. A man who knows how to introspect and is good at communication can marry.

Men and women are united because of love, they are two completely different individuals, the first twenty years or the first thirty years of men and women have never interacted, there must have been a lot of friction and misunderstanding when they were together.

If men and women don't know how to communicate, but just blindly blame each other, then men and women will only quarrel constantly, and the cold war will become more and more.

A man who is good at communication and knows how to introspect will not let the conflict escalate, he will constantly reflect on himself, find out his own problems and then correct and change.

Just for the woman you love to be happy, not just for the woman to change and accommodate herself.

Love you. Only by being loved can we endure life, and because of love, we will also give birth to products such as responsibility and maturity. Or you love, no matter how the years change, you remember the impulse to be by his side forever and be persistent.

The best one is actually to love each other, accompany each other, and work hard to be better and better. Either way, I want you to be happy. There is no standard answer, you will know that it is him when he appears, and now the person who is confused or right has not yet appeared.

Hope mine is helpful to you.

In general, there are three points; Good-tempered, assertive, and good to the elderly. A good-tempered person must be very gentle and can tolerate a woman's willfulness, tolerate a woman's shortcomings and take care of a woman. And a man who is very assertive will have courage and charm.

He will always know exactly what he wants most. Be filial to the elderly, he will be a very kind and careful person, and know how to take care of the elderly.

The first is to be sincere to yourself, and the second is not to be too poor. It's hard to marry a poor ghost and keep you from starving to death.

Even if a person has drawn up a standard, or fantasized about the other half, but if you really meet, you may not love but those who deviate from the standard occupy your heart.

All a woman needs is.

A man who truly loves himself and knows how to cherish himself and take care of himself.

Such a man will not let the girl suffer with him, even if he is not very rich, but he is very content, very solid, and very happy.

In fact, it's very simple, you don't have to do anything deliberately, just love it with your heart, as for those copied rules, 1,2,3... Isn't that tiring?

It should be easy for two people to be together.

I think as long as you put your heart into it, she can feel it.