How to understand the words of this blind date

The reason is simple. The first time I met you, I didn't look at you very closely. The second time we met, I found that you were not easy to see. So let's be another one with you 88 ... Don't take her seriously.

I think it's because she doesn't like you enough, she just doesn't look at you.

The cuties won't look for you anymore, and you don't want to dwell on it anymore, give up.

The meaning of her words is very clear, that is, she doesn't want to fall in love with you, she thinks you're not suitable, and she doesn't like you.

Girls, most of them may be reserved at first, but being too reserved means that the girl doesn't have feelings for boys.

Don't you understand that he's just afraid of hurting you, and what Andy means is that it's impossible.

How old are you, how old is she. What about other conditions for work? House? Family conditions?

If the blind date says "get to know each other slowly", it means that he or she is cautious about the development of the relationship and wants to assess whether they are suitable for each other to continue to develop by getting to know each other.

In this case, you can do the following:

1.Give each other time and space: Respect each other's wishes, don't rush the relationship forward, but give each other time and space to get to know each other slowly.

2.Communication: Through chatting, dating, etc., understand each other's preferences, interests, values, etc., and deepen mutual understanding.

4.Gradually advance the relationship: In the process of getting to know, gradually advance the relationship, but not too eagerly, respecting the other person's wishes and rhythm.

In conclusion, getting to know each other is a gradual process that requires patience and effort on both sides. Through communication and observation, you can get to know each other better and assess each other's suitability to continue to develop.

This woman is an absolute scheming.

Reason 1: He said that you are not suitable for a relationship, which means that there is no possibility of cultivating a relationship with you.

Reason 2: But it can be understood slowly. That is to say:

can continue to get along with you. But there is no possibility of cultivating a relationship, what are you doing with you, the purpose is to spend your money, and when he thinks you are unprofitable, or does not want to continue to see you with you, he will tell you: You are a good person, but we are not suitable.

If you don't believe me, you can do what I say, see if it's right.

I think that blind date is a very special emotional experience, and it often takes many interactions and understanding to develop a stable and mature relationship. Although blind date is seen as a traditional way of making friends in modern society, it is still a way for people to learn more about their physical conditions after initially paying attention to their appearance, body shape, etc., and in appropriate circumstances, it can also be a process for people to continue to grow and improve.

Blind dates, for people, may bring very high emotional investment and costs. In the process of blind date, we will spend a lot of time and emotion, constantly adapting to each other's temper, personality and living habits, in order to achieve the purpose of fighting and digging to know each other. Especially in China, society's expectations for romantic relationships are often very high, and blind dates have become one of the ways to get family blessings and recognition.

Such pressure and expectations will make people who participate in blind dates feel more and more nervous, and they are more measured to understand each other, often only focusing on whether the two parties have a common topic and whether their personalities are compatible, and ignoring the intrinsic value and potential advantages of the other party, such a mentality is the biggest problem that blind dates bring to people.

At the same time, blind date is also a process of growth and improvement. Through blind dates, we will not only better understand our emotional needs and expectations for a relationship, but we will also constantly adjust our mindset and way of thinking. This kind of growth may not be very obvious and immediate, but if we see blind date as a process of learning and experiencing, then we can draw more nutrients and dissipation from each blind date process.

Whether it is success or failure, blind dates will leave a deep impression on us, let us discover our shortcomings in love, and also strengthen our position and beliefs in interpersonal relationships. Therefore, when talking about the perception of blind dates, I think this process is not only a communication between two people, but also a direction of self-cultivation and growth. We need to see the opportunities and challenges in blind dates, and find a better self and lifestyle from them.