After being with my boyfriend, he really thinks about another person, what should I do? 20

If you can still save this relationship, you will save it, because there are many such examples. But if your boyfriend has a woman in his heart, it's hard to say, and it will inevitably do something sorry for you, you have to think clearly. So there are some things you have to decide, you can do what you want, and it's up to you to decide.

If we tell you to divide it, then if you try to be happy with your efforts, we are not sinners. Right, think for yourself.

Yes, if the two of them finally come together, it is actually very uncomfortable to say that they will be divided, and we also understand your feelings, but the long pain is better than the short pain, even if he is like this now, can you guarantee that he will treat you in the future? If a person is ambitious, yes, it is very difficult to do.

If you think you can keep him, just do it, but it's better to divide it like this, some things are only precious when they are lost, maybe he can feel it after the breakup, if he can reconcile at that time, he will not have other thoughts, but don't report too much hope, the fate is over.

Dare to ask what the world is like, only let people promise life and death.

You're trapped in it now

In fact, when you walk out of that alley, you can actually see a wider sky My former girlfriend is not following me, but also with n people!

But I still didn't give up because I had reached a dead end, and in the end I actually got along with my good friend

So I suggest you divide it early

Don't deceive yourself, you have to learn to look at the outside world

Summary. Kiss.

This is normal.

Keep everything in your heart, try to adapt to life with a boyfriend, and manage the emotions you already have.

Give yourself a period of adaptation, and if you can't adapt to it, you choose to break up. Loving someone but choosing to come together with another person is really difficult to manage.

I have a boyfriend and I still think about what to do with the other person?

Kiss This situation is normal, keep everything in your heart, try to adapt to life with a boyfriend, and manage the emotions you already have. Give yourself a period of adaptation, and if you can't adapt to it, you choose to break up. Loving someone but choosing to come together with another person is really difficult to manage.

Ask yourself in your heart, love and don't love, you know better than anyone else.

Sometimes I don't know.

Dear teacher, I understand your feelings.

Who's the other person you're thinking about?

No. Kiss, you have a boyfriend but you think about another person.

This situation is normal to adjust to your boyfriend first, adapt to it, and ask yourself about your heart after a while.

Dear, I hope the teacher can help you You can talk to the teacher about the details so that the teacher can serve you better.

The two of you should communicate well, talk well, and find out why. It's normal to feel fresh at the beginning of love, but after a long time, it will become boring when it's too familiar. We must trust each other, tolerate each other, and understand each other.

Men and women both attacked when they first started together.

That's the case, as the saying goes, if you don't see each other every three autumns, it is to describe the little lovers who have just fallen in love. Now you think he doesn't want you anymore, or the two of you have to communicate well, talk to each other, and find out why. Maybe it's because he's been busy with work or something lately and doesn't have time to look for you, as long as he has you in his heart, he doesn't have to talk about you every day, looking for a boyfriend is just to live in the future.

If you choose to put him in the position of your most important friend, you should know who he is, not know your good friend from the mouths of others, if they can say a few words.

Whether it's friendship or love, too much distrust will.

Zhi makes them collapse in the end, if you really treat a person as a friend, don't always distrust him, and easily believe those words that others provoke you, since you choose to put him in the position of your most important friend, you should know who he is, not know your good friend from the mouth of others, if they can worsen your relationship in a few words, then there is no need for friends to be deep.

If the person you like is good enough, it's normal to have a rival in love.

Then it depends on whether you are good enough to let your heart be in you.

If you are good enough, show your excellence, and if you are not good enough, try to be good to them and strive to be moved.

When the "rival in love" appears, we must first know ourselves and the other in order to "win all battles". If you only know yourself and don't understand each other, you will only be busy; Only understand each other, not yourself, obviously lack self-confidence. In general, your "rival in love" is basically an order of magnitude from yourself.

Because its conditions are too high, you will never fall in love with your girlfriend; If the conditions are too low, your girlfriend will not fall in love with him. This is the basic principle of the balance of all things. Since you are the same as him in front of your girlfriend, then, you should not be hotter with your girlfriend, otherwise, your girlfriend will feel worth doubled, which is an extremely dangerous signal.

At this time, only if you remain condescending in words and behavior, your girlfriend will think that you are better than your "love rival".

At the same time, suddenly reduce the number of contacts, or even simply not see her for a while. At the same time, attention should be paid to maintaining a certain amount of contact, including ** way. At this time, the woman will reflect on what she did wrong in some aspects, what offended you, and so on.

The more self-blame the woman has, the more her feelings are inclined. Note that refusing to meet altogether will only hasten the woman's death.

In addition, during this period, the man may also wish to "moderately" increase normal interactions with other women, but he must grasp the scale. Jealousy is a human weakness, it exists in men, but also in women, and if you let your lover see you with other girls once or twice, she will be angry. Being angry proves that she cares about you, and on the other hand, it also proves that you can attract other girls, and that you are no less attractive than her, and that a competitive woman in turn throws herself into the battle against your "rival in love", and sticks to her position, so that the man can take advantage of the fisherman's advantage, and achieve the ultimate goal.

Good luck.

...It depends on whether they want to be with you or not.

It depends on whether people really want to be with you, and how sure you are that you can give her happiness? Think it through before you decide.

If you want to be together, you can chase it, but it's just a boyfriend, and you're not married. As long as you're good enough, she can see it.

The reason why your relationship is like this is because you are extremely immature, irrational and unintelligent. You rely on him to love you, play with a child's temper, mess with him, be willful, and toss him physically and mentally exhausted. Does he love you?

If you were him, a girl tossed like this every day, would you have to hide away no matter how much you love her? To be freed.

You are still struggling with the question of whether he loves you or not, or even whether to break up, and you are not aware of your deepest problems at all. Why can those who love you leave you? Why is he so sorry for you but so far away from you?

When he gives you love, he gives you the most vulnerable and soft side of himself, but you use this warm bed to hurt him fiercely, and continue to be willful and immature, completely ignoring your boyfriend's feelings.

You hurt the heart of a man who loves you, don't rely on him to love you so much, you have to know that feelings can't stand the toss, people are tired to a certain extent will make up their minds to leave you, at that time, you have no place to cry, you will regret everything you have done, then you will be able to mature a step, but how painful is the price to pay? Instead of waking up at that time, why not take advantage of everything now and keep this love going? Think about your own mistakes and give love a sweetness in the right way.

Wishing you happiness!

Didn't you say that you want to grow up and be independent, just let yourself grow up quietly and then face it. It's yours that can't run away. It's not that you can't force it. Now change your own bad habits. It's not very big yet. Everything was in time.

If he can't adapt or tolerate your willfulness, you will break up even if you say yes.

Tell him that to love you is to love everything about you, including your bad temper.

Visually it's him waiting for you to change.

Are you sure the reason for your breakup was because of your willfulness and bad temper? Find your own ** and then go and correct it slowly, everything else will go naturally, but just read these things you wrote, it seems that he still has feelings for you. Hope you do well!

I still love you, just waiting for you to mature a little.

Then you can change it and talk to him directly.