What should I do if my parents don t love each other and cause me to be afraid of marriage?

Psychological fear, which is caused by the environment and people, should change the psychology of seeing things. Get out and see the wonderful life out there and see how others are living. Watch some short videos of model couples and give yourself a glimpse of your future life.

The influence of the original family on oneself is really great, but we still have to adjust our mentality, our life is our own decision, we will not be similar to others, I believe that we can find the right person for ourselves.

If your parents don't love each other, it has no direct impact on your love world, just love yourself. Love needs to be managed, and family marriage needs to be managed. You should learn from the reasons why your parents don't love each other, and better manage love, family, and happiness.

You can guide your thoughts and tell yourself that if your parents don't love each other, it doesn't mean that you can't meet your true love, and tell yourself to believe in love.

At this time, you must correct your view of marriage, encourage yourself to face life positively, and not lose hope for a better future because of a small setback.

I don't want to get married to a large extent because I haven't met the right person, and my parents don't love each other is just one of the small reasons, don't dwell on these things, marriage should go with the flow.

You should be brave, your parents' bad emotional state does not mean that you will be like that, you can first try to find the right person for you, get along slowly, and care for each other. I believe that there is love that will resist these.

It has nothing to do with your parents not loving each other, you can still find someone who loves each other, and you must have hope and believe that you can live happily.

At this time, you need to relax yourself, go to your friends and ask them to enlighten you and watch more love stories.

It doesn't matter, when you meet someone who loves you, you will change your mind, and you will feel that it is okay to love each other when you get married.

At this time, it is best for you to see a psychiatrist, untie the knot in your heart, and don't affect your happiness because of the grievances of the previous generation.

In the face of this situation, we must believe that although marriage is not as good as imagined, it is not as bad as the parents' marriage, learn to understand and tolerate each other, and believe that you will be happy.

When you meet the right person, you'll know. The marriage of parents does not represent all marriages, and you can't generalize to a partial one, so you still have to work hard to catch up with happiness.

You should know how to change, you should accept this marriage yourself, and you should know more about what to do, and the marriage will be happier.

Personally, I think you should be in a relationship for a longer time and understand the benefits of getting married.

Be full of information about your feelings and believe that you will be happy.

In response to your question, I suggest that you consider the following aspects to ease your confusion and anxiety:

Explore the causes of fear of marriage. You may have a certain distrust of your marriage, or you are worried that you will not be able to handle the responsibilities and pressures that come with it. It is recommended that you first understand the root cause of your fear and anxiety, and try to find the root cause and solve it by communicating with your close friends or family.

Establish your own career plan and life plan. While your job and personal lifelong problems can be stressful, creating a realistic career plan and achieving it step by step can help you increase your confidence and security. At the same time, you should also consider your life goals and life plans, clarify the future you want, and establish goals and plans.

Seek help from counseling. If you feel like you need more in-depth help, consider talking to a psychologist or counselor who can help you clear your mind, reduce your anxiety and fears, and help you find a solution to your problem. At the same time, you can also consider joining some group activities, such as volunteers, clubs, etc., to help you better integrate into society and improve your social skills and self-confidence.

Develop a sense of responsibility in yourself. A sense of responsibility is one of the important qualities of a person's growth and development, which can start with small things, such as self-discipline in living habits, completing work on time, and so on. At the same time, it is also necessary to pay attention to self-awareness and self-reflection, and reflect on whether your actions and thoughts are in line with your own values and goals, so as to cultivate a stronger sense of responsibility.

Finally, don't blame yourself too much or self-denial, everyone has their own growth and development process, and it is important to keep learning and making progress, and keep exploring and trying.

First of all, you need to recognize your problems and want to improve them. It is recommended that you seek the help of a professional counsellor to understand your inner fears and insecurity, and learn how to deal with emotional problems and self-growth. At the same time, you can also quietly cultivate social skills and a sense of responsibility through social activities and participation in interest groups, so as to better face the challenges you may encounter in the future.

The important thing is to give yourself time and opportunities to grow and develop, don't give up because of difficulties, persevere, and believe that you will get better.

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The power of parents' role models should not be underestimated!!

Parents are their children's first teachers, and their words and deeds have a profound impact on their children.

Parents have a bad relationship, as long as it is not because of family trivialities, then it must be emotional disloyalty.

Family chores should have less of an impact on children, as one generation has a different way of life than another.

Emotional problems have a greater impact, and the special file is that after the child knows that his parents are good, he will fall into the quagmire of choice!!

This is what it is: marriage may only be once, but there must be more than one chance to meet a good person, and good people have their own strengths, and there is no best option.

Yes, the subtle impact of the vertical is huge, but it can't be absolute. Shenda's current online sales are developed, and all kinds of negative news will have an impact on unmarried young people.

Some of them are because of their parents' families, and some of them are cases where they have seen news about the surrounding and society.

Yes, the influence of the family of origin is very large.

A person's growth is inseparable from his family environment, and if a person's family environment is already unhappy at the beginning, then his growth is destined to be affected to a greater or lesser extent. Parents have always been the most important person to influence their children, because parents do not guide their children correctly in the earliest period, it will also lead to children's inner distortion and different views on the future life during their growth. Therefore, as parents, if there is a problem with the relationship between parents, then it will also change some children's views on their future marriage and relationship.

For children, what they want to feel most in the family is the love of their parents for themselves and the love between their parents. If at the very beginning the parents do not agree with each other, then they are only giving the child a so-called home, not a complete home. Such a family only has the title of father and mother, but it can't give him real family warmth.

Even if both parents love their children very much, but their feelings affect the child's view of their own feelings in the future, because they can't feel their love between the two people they love the most, then what will happen to their children if they have a home in the future?

Especially now that the divorce rate between parents is getting higher and higher, and some families have children together, but because of the emotional discord between the two parties, the child becomes a single-parent family. So even if parents are very good to their children and can make them feel their love for their children, there will always be a layer of emotional loss in the hearts of children that single parents can't see. They will envy other families on the way to grow up, because they gradually grow up and understand more and more things, and when they see other friends and parents are harmonious, the family is harmonious and the atmosphere is harmonious, so they can feel the warmth of home that they can't usually feel.

It's like a crack between feelings, once it appears, no matter how much it is stitched, it can't be compensated.

Because of the unhappiness of the marriage between the parents, it may have a huge impact on their future feelings, so they do not want to get married or are afraid that they will be like their parents after marriage. Even after being together, they will suffer emotional discord and separate. may also choose to escape and choose to divorce like parents because of emotional disagreement with the other half.

In fact, those children seem to be as positive, optimistic and happy as they seem, but because of the lack of family affection when they were young, although they always live carefully. They will not easily believe in the good of others and will not easily accept the good of others, which not only makes it difficult for them to accept a person's love for themselves in the future, but also makes it difficult for them to communicate emotionally with others normally.

Yes, I will definitely not find a man like my father, nor will I be a woman like my mother, I am afraid that I will also be unhappy, there are too few examples of happiness around me, I don't want to step into marriage at all.

I won't be unmarried, and I'm not afraid of marriage. Since he knew that his parents' marriage was unhappy, he would avoid such a thing. Will carefully choose a marriage partner.

Yes. Because the relationship between the two of them has a certain shadow in my mind, and I have not seen a happy family, they will feel that all families are the same as theirs.

The fear of marriage is indeed related to your current family. But not all fear of marriage is related to the previous family, including the marriage of the parents.

So, in addition to the fact that the marriage of the parents will affect my fear of marriage, what other reasons will affect my fear of marriage?

1.I'm worried about the future.

Unsure about life after marriage. Now more and more people will say that before marriage, they marry into the door with a smile, and then they are all women who cry and cry, which is too much. In fact, it is really so panicked every day, and it is not so exaggerated.

When you decide to marry this person, I believe that you also have very, very much trust in this person, and you are also very confident in this person.

Most of the life after marriage depends on managing each other. Marriage is another starting point in life, so from the beginning, it is necessary to start managing marriage.

Such a marriage will not be bad, solve problems when encountered, instead of escaping problems, and the two husbands and wives will work together to naturally move towards happiness.

2.I'm not sure about myself.

Marriage is the second major event in life, especially for women.

It's the first time you get married, and you don't have much experience, so you're worried that you won't be able to do it well, and you feel at a loss. Actually, don't worry, although you have to pay attention to it, you don't have to be too nervous, everyone is like this, and whoever you marry has to face it alone.

And marriage can be said to be the second thing that changes a woman's fate. Many women are very happy in the second half of their lives because they marry the right person, and of course there are many women who have no worries about food and clothing because they marry the right person and get married right.

Of course, there is another point, I used to be at home, my parents were there, and I was not afraid of anything. Now I have to face each other's strange family alone, and integrate into it, some confusion and panic are because there is no parent behind me.

Everyone has to experience marriage, instead of panicking, it is better to work hard to improve the relationship.

I'm not married yet, but I'm afraid of falling in love now, my parents are happy even though they fight, and the lives of my sister and brother-in-law are the envy of many people, but I don't even dare to fall in love.

I have low self-esteem and are also very precocious, I had a crush on my table mate when I was in the fifth grade of elementary school, but I only dared to have a crush, and I didn't talk to him again after the homeroom teacher separated us from the same table, and then in junior high school and high school, I had a crush, but I didn't dare to say it.

My friends around me will share with me about their love, almost the ones that have a good relationship with me, I know their emotional history, know how they get together, how they break up, how their object flirts with other girls, and there are few couples I know who are long-lasting, almost all of them break up because of the boy's messy hookup, so I don't believe that there is a long time.

Love. I tried to fall in love once in high school, and I had a little bit of a feeling for that guy, but just as I said let's try it together, I felt uncomfortable. I can't say that it's uncomfortable, and when we're together, I feel that the eyes of the people around me are not very optimistic, and I especially value the eyes of others looking at me, and others often ask how you two are together, which makes me even more uncomfortable, so this trial is over in just three days.

Now I feel that I have no desires in my heart, no one I like, and no idea of having a partner, so I don't need to talk about getting married in the future. I feel that no matter who I am with, the previous phenomenon will happen and I will not be happy, so I will not be able to be with people at all.