My boyfriend asked me to choose whether to return to my home country or continue with my course

Don't go back, he can bear the loss of going back to China before he finishes reading, can you? He may be back and can work and live without worry, can you? Is the time and money invested in your bachelor's degree abroad in the past few years just because of his words?

There's only 1 year left, do you think it's worth wasting a few years for 1 year, and you'll have to start all over again when you come back.

In addition, I think that since he can return to China so firmly, he is ready to break up with you, but now he still wants to try to hold you in the palm of his hand. Can't he wait a year for your future? A year is actually not a long time.

Think about it for yourself.

You're also on probation, and when I first applied for a username, it was also for emotional issues. Why do you say that?

So do you choose love or study?

You can't choose, that's why you asked.

Studying is your own choice, and it is also your personal dream and future (or part of it).

And feelings are also your choice, but it is not up to you to decide alone, it is the two of you. If he asks you to choose him and give up your studies, knowing that you don't know what to choose, then he is selfish.

Okay now, half of your life challenges your other half, do you say it's reconciliation, or is it a long life?

Personal opinion: It's not easy to go out and study once, it mainly depends on your own opinion, and then think about how to say it, of course, you have to say your own reasons, if your boyfriend really loves you, I think he should respect your decision.

In a word, read it and go back.

Of course don't, this kind of man is inherently wavering because his ex-girlfriend is gone and uses you as a substitute Wait for that person to come back and kick away If you want to wait for him, even if he comes back, it's just that his girlfriend is gone again and you're going to be treated as a substitute again He can have the first time to comfort him when you're down, and give him so much. There will be a second time Then this kind of person is an irresponsible person Even if they are together, there is only pain You can't guarantee that his ex-girlfriend will come back next time Whether he will leave you again Instead of this, it is better to find someone who loves himself and is good to him Let him regret it Women also have their own personality It's not like a man will die without a man

It's not about waiting, it's about finding your love back!! He loves you, then he's yours, and if he doesn't love you, then don't waste your time!! His girlfriend comes back to show that he is worth chasing after you, but whether he is in love with his ex-girlfriend or not is the key to your success!

Chances are, he just wants to remember his former and present lovers, not for longer.

Don't wait for someone who isn't worth your wait! He has forsaken you!

If you love him so much that you can't afford to lose him, then just wait. If you care about him, then you go to him and ask him about it, and then leave or wait.

If he has feelings for you, you have to be brave enough to chase him back, but if he doesn't deserve it at all, then there's nothing to be nostalgic about.

It's not that I'm talking about you, you're so stupid and naïve, do you think he'll be able to come back to you, it's impossible, if he loves you, he won't be with his ex-girlfriend again.

I'm a man, I'm in the opposite situation to you, I gave up, and if I waited, it would hurt even more, in fact, I was the same as you thought at first, but then I figured out that it wasn't worth it.

Accept it slowly, isn't there any other good man in this world besides him?

Don't waste your youth for this kind of person, since he has made a choice, let him go.

Maybe your Prince Charming isn't really him.

Age is not the distance of love at all, just waiting for who makes the most wrong decision, perhaps, one day, you really waited for him, but you are still the original you? Is he still the same person? Can you ever go back to the past?

He loves his ex-girlfriend more, unless one day, she betrays him again, do you have a chance?

Let it go, slowly learn to forget, he doesn't deserve it.

If he doesn't love you, wait for him to be unworthy, what we love is one type of person, and it is impossible to like only one of him.

Don't be that kind of man!

If you want to wait stupidly, you will hurt yourself in the end!

Even if you once loved him, he didn't deserve it. He is not worthy

He is the heartless onion, why should he pay for an onion without a heart?

I'm a man, and to be honest, you're just a substitute for his ex-girlfriend in his heart, and it's not worth waiting for him.

There is no grass at the end of the world!

Why bother with him for a long time.

You're only 23, and you can meet a lot of good men. He is 33, like like who is in good condition?

He can abandon you later.

Do you think he's a good man?

I don't think I'm talking about anything.

When the interruption continues, it is chaotic.

Sometimes it is not a good thing for couples to see each other every day or even work in the same unit, and there are more opportunities for quarrels. There is a saying: Xiao Beisheng is newlywed, you can find a job in the local area, as long as it is closer to home. Because long-distance relationships are also quite difficult to maintain.

It depends on how far your relationship goes, feelings are very important, but don't let it hurt you, especially girls. Do you understand what I mean?

I think you have to choose these things.

Start by asking yourself a few questions:

1.Is it worth it for him?

2.Is your current job and his current job your dream job?

3.What kind of job can you find when you go to him, can you find a job that is better and more suitable for you?

4.Think about whether there would be a better development if he went to your side.

I suggest: If you are still young, it is better to resign boldly and go to his city, after all, true love is very rare, even if you feel wrong in the future, you must be willing, we can afford to lose when we are young.

When you ask this question, you have considered and compared your relationship with your boyfriend and the distance from home at work, and the answer is already in your heart.

This is mainly up to you, both masters should think about it.

It doesn't matter what the result is, whether you are satisfied with the result or not. To be honest, it didn't help either. (Because it was your choice at the beginning) see for yourself, if you really can't get along, then break up early, long pain is better than short pain!

It's good to look at everything. If your relationship is still very good in the future, then bless you, and bless you if you break up (because you have loved after all, and another point is that you found out in time that he is not your partner in this life, and you should be glad that you did not make a big mistake in this life).

Maybe you love him very much, but I can't tell from your description how he feels for you, for him, you quit your job, have you looked for a new job? Or do you just stay at home after living with him? Why is he not so happy with what you are doing?

What's the matter? Is it just a trivial matter at home or something that will affect future decisions? If it's a small thing, then you have to consider the other person's personality, and if it's decision-making, then whether you discussed it with him first before deciding.

It's good to love each other, but no matter how you love, don't lose yourself, you will always be yourself, you won't be the other party, he loves you as a character, a person, if you love him to the point of losing yourself, maybe even his love will be lost together, you weigh the relationship between the two people yourself, it's best to continue, everyone is not hurt, but if you really can't maintain it, then break up, after all, it's reluctant.

I wish you happiness.

Men are too career-oriented.

will ignore the women around you.

People tend not to value what they have around them.

His excellence may be the reason why you are reluctant to leave him.

If you break up, you can say it casually.

Then he doesn't have any feelings for you.

You can be separated from him.

If he still loves you.

He will find out without you after you leave.

He will also be unhappy.

If he doesn't love you anymore.

Then it's okay to break up.

Don't waste any more time on your part.

Emotional problems.

If it appears, it must be solved immediately.

Otherwise, the more it drags on, the more troublesome it will be.

He still loves you, because he loves you very much, so he feels that there is no money, and there are no good conditions.

Can't just give you what you want.

belongs to life, can't give you happiness, although you don't mind, but a person with very good conditions, suddenly plummeted, feel uncomfortable, I think, you should all calm down, and when there is no emotion, then make a decision, persuade him It seems useless, should let him, spontaneously strive to be strong, rely on himself, work to make money, to take action, work busy will forget a lot of things, at this time to talk about emotional matters, everyone is calm, it will be much better, if not, forget it, I think, Two people together, this courage is not at all, after getting married, encountering greater difficulties, what to do, as the head of the family, he will not be able to cheer up at that time, what should I do at that time, failure is not terrible, what I am afraid of is not being able to get up on my own, the greatest wealth is not money, but the determination to never be discouraged.

It's understandable that your boyfriend is feeling this way right now.

I don't think it's entirely wrong.

From a purely love point of view, of course.

Of course he was completely wrong.

But now everything is based on reality.

It can be seen that your boyfriend is really nice.

After all, he knows responsibility.

He's in that state right now.

I think you can say yes.

Just stay by his side silently.

But before that, he also needs to be quiet by himself.

After all, this loss of falling from the top to the bottom.

No one can easily come out of it.

Your boyfriend doesn't want to give up on you and the relationship between you, but because of his current situation, he has the idea that he can't continue to bear this relationship, and he can only choose to give up for your sake.

You should encourage him and say what you should say

After speaking, it must be zhi

Words from the heart. Then give him some time to adapt to the status quo before the goal, maybe he has never experienced setbacks in adversity, and he can't build up the will to persevere, which can't blame him. This may be the inevitable experience of his growth, give him some time and space, on the other hand, I think this is also the best opportunity to test your feelings for him, and it can also let you see for yourself whether you love him or not, and how deep you love.

If you love, don't let go easily!

Yes, he became discouraged because of the unsatisfactory life. You're right, he lacks courage and retreats when he encounters reality, then, if you really love him, use your own behavior to make him understand what true love is! What does it mean to never give up!

Otherwise, what's the difference between you and him?

Every good man has a bottom line in his heart that cannot be tolerated. Since he can't give you the most basic happiness, he will only feel very miserable and useless with you. His heart for you shouldn't change.

You can tell him that you are waiting for him, and it is better to give a deadline. I wish you happiness.

There are so few selfless men like that, I think it's all an excuse, your feelings are no match for the changes in his family situation. Let him calm down;

Accompany him silently, not necessarily by his side, so that he feels that you are supporting and paying attention to him, and he does not necessarily have to say anything or get out of the predicament immediately.

Passing by, if you don't send it for two days, let him calm down for 2 days, and then care about it after two days.

If your boyfriend really gave up on your relationship only because of a business crisis, you can calm him down for a while and give him some encouragement. If there are other complicated reasons, such as his lack of affection for you, or he... Then I advise you not to waste your feelings in vain.

He must have been in turmoil lately, he loves you, but his current situation can't give you much! Upstairs is right, don't text him every day, calm down, and give him comfort and care from time to time.

Hello, in fact, your boyfriend is not giving up on you, nor is he giving up the relationship between you and him, but he has not come out of the predicament for a while, you slowly encourage him, calmly let him think about it.

Let him calm down alone for a while, and you can wait for him, which is good for both parties.

If you still can't calm down in the future, then forget it.

Why can you only contact him online or **, don't you know how to find him, where can you meet him, don't you know his home? If you still want to fight for it, go to him, talk to him face to face, ask him what he really means, and then make a decision.

Be by his side, now he needs you the most, there are difficulties to face together, what can you do without money. It's good if you don't dislike him, he loves you.

It depends on which party said this, if it is the party who took the initiative to break up and continue to be friends, it is okay, because he brought it up, so he has a certain amount of guilt in his heart and wants to make amends, and he has let go, so it is nothing for him, and even he is happy to continue to be friends. But if it is the party who passively accepts, she can't accept it at all, because she passively accepts, that is, she is hurt, and she can't accept this result in her heart, and she wants to continue to be with the other party. That is, she did not let go at all.

If she chooses to continue to be friends with him, he will be comfortable because he is all that feels this way, and she will be more and more miserable and entangled. If she can't control the feeling of wanting to be in a relationship with him and chooses to accept it, then her pain will continue until her next boyfriend appears, and if he finds a girlfriend in the process, she will watch him with his girlfriend... All in all, unless he has a girlfriend, or she has a boyfriend, don't be friends because she can't afford to play.