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I think it's good, because it has always been a tradition in our country to celebrate the New Year, and it should be continued. The New Year's money is not only an expression of the elders' hopes and blessings to the children, but also the children will be very happy. Children can buy some of the things they need and want when they get the New Year's money.
Parents can also see whether some of the children's behaviors and habits are correct and reasonable from how the children treat the New Year's money, and the wrong parents can put forward to educate and guide the children. In general, it is good for elders to give children New Year's money.
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That's great! In this way, children love their elders more! Who doesn't like adults to give money when they're young! But you can't give it all to the child, because money is sometimes not a good thing, and if it can bring the child bad, you can give it to him every day
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As for how much to give, mainly according to ability and closeness, parents only need to guide their children to have a correct view of money, for example, you yourself is a money box that sees money, and if you want children to pick up gold like Lei Feng, I am afraid it will not work.
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Good! New Year's money is a Chinese tradition. It's got a long history. But I advocate giving but not too much, otherwise it is easy for children to develop flattering thoughts!
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Well, because this is the main pocket money for the child**. Let the children have fun and look forward to the New Year.
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That's great! Children prefer to use their pocket money to buy things! This will also strengthen the relationship between adults and children! Kids will love you even more!
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Chinese traditional customs, there is no big problem, just pay attention to the amount...
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It feels like it's customary to give it, but it can't be too much...
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Hold no objection and no objection.
Care for minors, friendship between the old and the young, the future is ta, hope is pinned on them!
It's also a custom to give your children New Year's money, right?
In the past, it was to shorten the distance between the elders and the juniors, so that the filial piety of the upper and lower generations could be passed on forever, and the children had rules. But now it's different, as if the elders are born to owe the juniors, and the children they teach treat the seniors as cash cows. It's really not like a system. Sigh.
Giving children New Year's money means that everyone has money for the New Year, and they can't be poor ghosts for the New Year with empty bags. How much money to give to a child is a matter of one's own financial permission, and a child who gives money to someone else is called a lishi.
When I was a child, my parents gave me two to five cents of silver, and when I was a teenager, it was a dime or two cents. When I give the New Year's money to the child, it is two to ten yuan, and after the child is a teenager, the New Year's money is more than 20 yuan. Now it is hundreds of yuan to give red envelopes to other people's children, and the old man has his turn to give the New Year's money back, and it will cost hundreds of yuan if he doesn't give thousands of keys to call the world.
It is a tradition to give children New Year's money during the Chinese New Year, which reflects the care of the elders for the younger generations, and it is also a continuation of the habit. The younger generation will be very happy to receive the New Year's money from the elders, and they will also feel face, and some will show off outside. However, many children will use the New Year's money as the tuition fee or pen, ink, paper and inkstone money for the new semester, and most of them will not use it indiscriminately.
I think that giving children New Year's money is also to let children learn to save money and cultivate the habit of not spending money indiscriminately.
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The customs and habits of any country and nation have their historical origins. However, after the baptism of the years, some customs have disappeared, and some customs have adapted to the changes of the times.
For example, Christmas in Western countries is a traditional holiday for their family reunion throughout the year. In France, for example, parents in France will quietly prepare gifts for their little ones before Christmas, and when the children fall asleep on Christmas Eve, they will put the gifts next to their shoes under the Christmas tree under the name of "Santa Claus".
However, in recent years, there has been a controversy over whether to tell children the truth that "there is no Santa Claus in the world". To tell or not to tell, both sides have their own words.
Telling your child the truth may mean that there are no Christmas presents. In France, there are really many parents and families who choose not to guess what Christmas gifts to buy, and reach a consensus with the children of the Sui tribe.
February believes that in fact, each family has the right to decide whether to buy Christmas gifts or not according to their own family situation and education style, and there is no need to follow the crowd and add to their worries.
Let's talk about our "New Year's money". Judging from the legend and historical changes of the New Year's money, it was originally produced by parents in order to pray for their children and express their deep love for their children.
Is it unlucky not to give New Year's money, and it can't prove how much parents love their children? That's certainly not going to be. Auspiciousness and bad luck are all subjective consciousness of people, and the best love is companionship.
If the love and blessings of parents are expressed by a red envelope, then a small red envelope will inevitably "bear" too much.
Instead of worrying about whether to give your child a red envelope, it is better to spend more time with your child and cherish the good time your family has together.
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During the Chinese New Year, the elders give the younger generations New Year's money, which is a long-standing tradition. Some people feel unbearable because they give too much New Year's money to their younger generations during the New Year, so they are disgusted with this tradition, and their personal view of this phenomenon is that giving New Year's money during the New Year reflects the care of the elders for the younger generation, the tradition of New Year's money should be maintained, and the New Year's money should not be given too much.
1. The elders give the younger generations New Year's money, which reflects the care of the elders for the younger generations.
It is a long-standing tradition for our elders to give money to younger generations during our New Year. ......This tradition itself does not focus on the New Year's money itself, but a kind of care and love from the elders to the younger generations. ......It is for this reason that the tradition of New Year's money can be continued for a long time and continue to continue.
Therefore, we should not be disgusted with this tradition, but should understand it from a positive perspective.
2. The tradition of New Year's money should be maintained.
It is precisely because of the tradition of New Year's money that it reflects the care and love of the elders for the younger generations, so it reflects family affection and is a warm existence. ......Therefore, instead of being disgusted by this tradition, we should continue to maintain it and form a good habit of caring for and loving the younger generation, and respecting the younger generation, which is beneficial to each of us.
3. The money given by the elders to the younger generations should not be too much, and it should be reasonable and moderate.
The reason why many people are disgusted with New Year's money is because of the ...... caused by giving too much New Year's money during the Chinese New YearEveryone's financial conditions are limited, and if you give too much New Year's money, you will feel unbearable, and you may feel disgusted ......However, if we can achieve reasonable control when giving New Year's money, the New Year's money given to the younger generations can not only reflect the care for the younger generations, but the amount of the New Year's money is not too large, so that we can solve the problem satisfactorily, and we will not feel disgusted.
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Although I am not very disgusted with the traditional custom of giving red envelopes or New Year's money during the New Year, I personally think that in many cases, this way should also be changed.
After all, if during the New Year's greetings, their children greet other relatives in the family and they give their children red envelopes, then they also need to give red envelopes to other relatives, although some people think that this can reflect the happy atmosphere of the Spring Festival, but this also invisibly increases the ratio, eats, burdens, and even forms a blind comparison, for example, they give a relative's child 500 yuan New Year's money, such as their own relative, it is likely to give their own children, 1,000 yuan of New Year's money, so that he owes the other party more favors, and his heart is naturally uncomfortable, and for the other party, this is also invisibly increasing his burden.
And during the New Year, if you give a red envelope to the children of the relatives, it will also make this kind of New Year's greeting, to a certain extent, it will make some children think that the purpose of greeting the elders in the family during the New Year is to get the red envelope and New Year's money, and do not realize that it is their own and should do to pay a New Year's greeting to the elders, so it is said that for the New Year, the tradition of giving red envelopes and New Year's money during the New Year. Personally, I think that to a certain extent, you can consider changing it, for example, children pay New Year's greetings to the elders in the family. Elders can give children some useful books or school supplies, so that on the one hand, they can experience the joyful and festive atmosphere of the New Year, and on the other hand, they can also play a better educational role for children.
So I don't averse to giving red envelopes or New Year's money during the Chinese New Year. New Year's money has a good meaning, and it is said that New Year's money can hold him down. The younger generation can spend a year of peace and security when they get the New Year's money, and now some people are disgusted with the New Year's money, mainly because now the living standard has improved, and the gap between people is getting bigger and bigger, and the situation of each family is not the same, many different problems from the past will emerge in endlessly, not to talk about the early and happy New Year's Day, the gains outweigh the losses, and the New Year's money is generally sent to the children by the elders, and the children are also very happy to receive the New Year's money.
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The particulars of giving children New Year's money are: singular and even numbers, taboo numbers to avoid, and how much money to do.
In the customs of most regions, double is joy, single is mourning, and singular numbers will make the other party feel very unlucky and cause dissatisfaction. To wrap a red envelope, you must first figure out the local digital taboo. For example, some places don't like numbers such as "4", "3", "7", etc., so when giving red envelopes, you should avoid making embarrassment and making you unhappy.
Generally speaking, to give red envelopes, you need to give a little more or the same amount than the other party. However, if the economy is more difficult and the pressure of red envelopes is relatively high, you still have to choose to do what you can, and you must not exceed your own tolerance, but make yourself unhappy during the New Year.
Tips for giving children New Year's money:
Nowadays, most of the New Year's money for children is a whole number, and the amount is large. Parents don't really feel comfortable letting their children take the flowers themselves. Therefore, the child seems to have a lot of money for the New Year, but he can actually spend very little.
Instead of giving the child New Year's money, it is better to give the child change that he can dispose of, so that he will be happier.
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