What does it feel like for a woman to earn ten times more than a man?

What's that, when I got married, my salary was ten times that of my husband, he worked in a public institution, and I was a foreign company but busy. His unit is very relaxed, and he enjoys this kind of work, which I think is good. His work is not stressful, he has time to accompany me, he has time to do housework, and most of his sons are led by his husband.

No matter who makes more money between the husband and wife, there is no problem, as long as there is a sense of responsibility, how can the sugarcane be sweet at both ends.

My total annual income is twice that of my husband, and I have a lot of potential for promotion, and his job is relatively stable. But we all think that there is no problem, he wants to do a stable job that is his character, he doesn't want to work too hard that is his own philosophy of life, why force him? It's good that everyone is an adult, it's good to worry about their own careers, it's good to be able to collaborate with each other at home, and he can enlighten me when I need encouragement, so that's good.

If it's ten times, it's nothing, no one stipulates that men should earn more than women, everyone has different earning power and different attitudes to life.

Marriage is to help each other, whether men are strong or women are weak, men are weak and women are strong, there is no need to divide high and low. No matter who makes more money, there is no need to look down on the other party, the important thing is to have the heart to pay for the family, and it is enough to be conscientious. So in my opinion, women earn ten times more than men, and that's not a big deal.

My wife got married to me after graduation, I worked early, I was already a supervisor at the time, and my wife officially took up the post after getting married, and after a few years, my wife's business was almost developing rapidly, and I became my boss in less than three years, although my wife did the manager level, but she still relied on me very much, and she was neat and tidy at work, and she was still a little woman at home. In fact, since I got married, all the things in the family are joint advisers, and the housework is also done together, because I am a good cook, basically I have been cooking, and my wife has been doing other housework, and I have always been happy, although my wife has earned a lot, I don't feel that my dignity and status have been degraded.

It doesn't feel anything special for me, after all, we all live together, and it's okay if one person works more than the other. Both of them are paying for the family, it is good for a woman to have the ability to earn more, and it is not impossible for a man to earn a little less if he has the ability, as long as he lives happily.

I'm a woman, and if I were your daughter-in-law, I'd see if there were any ways to make your income gradually increase, provided you weren't disgusted. If I were you, I would make more money on my own, and the family and society need to be balanced, and something practical, not just find a few people to find the same feeling and find psychological balance. Otherwise, home will not be far away.

In a family, it is common for men to earn more than women, and it is necessary to make a fuss about women who earn more than men, everyone's earning power is different, and husband and wife can be happy as long as they balance family work, when men can do more housework to balance the contribution of both husband and wife to the family, there is no need to have inferiority complex.

When I first met my wife, I didn't know what kind of job she did and how much she earned. But when I knew that she had her own company and made more than ten times more than me, to be honest, I began to feel a little inferior, but after a long time, I felt that her ability was much better than mine, and she deserved to make more money. The most important thing is for two people to live happily together, although life is inseparable from money, but the amount of money is not the key to life.

The title is obviously wrong, I don't know if it's the data from **, it's complete nonsense. Our country is a country where men and women are equal, both men and women as long as they do the same work, the remuneration is the same, if the unpaid labor refers to the contribution to the family, it can not be said so, although in family life women will take on more housework only to move, but the money earned by women in the workplace can be spent 100% on themselves, that is, all for themselves to buy what they like, not for the family to spend, but men are just the opposite, Almost all of the money earned by men is used for family expenses, and because men have to bear most of the family's expenses by default, it leads to men having to accept greater psychological pressure and work pressure at work, these invisible efforts seem to have never been mentioned, in addition to greater psychological pressure, men often take on more ambitious things at work, just because they are men, so they tend to hand over more laborious things to men to do, and more laborious will not necessarily have more pay, Women, on the other hand, are a bit of the opposite, sometimes given easier and easier jobs but are treated the same as men who do more, so how can men who are psychologically and physically burdened with more money be recognized as unpaid work only half of that of women because they do less housework, which is both unrigorous and unfair.

In China, whether in rural or urban areas, the phenomenon of gender discrimination cannot be said to be absent, but it is absolutely minimal, and sometimes even women have a higher social status than men.

This varies from person to person, from gender to gender. If the boy's income is higher than that of the girl, not only will it not affect the relationship, but on the contrary, it will enhance the relationship.

If the income of girls is higher than that of boys, it will generally affect the relationship, most boys will care that they are not as good as girls, and will feel inferior, even if girls don't care, but boys will still secretly rub and think that they are useless, and even use other ways to vent or find confidence in other places to maintain the gap is no problem, once the rice is hard or the wings are hard, the problem will come.

1.Self-esteem is affected. Salary represents a certain level of ability and value, and the lower salary may have a sense of impaired self-esteem, while the other party may also have a certain sense of superiority as a result, which can affect the equality of feelings.

2.Lifestyle differences. Differing levels of salary mean that it is difficult to agree on lifestyles such as consumption, entertainment, and travel, which can become an obstacle to emotional communication and affect the common experience between the two people.

3.The pay gap can create some potential problems between couples. For example, for low-income parties, they may feel inferior, insecure, or powerless.

3.The salary gap can lead to different lifestyles and expectations between couples. For the higher-income group, they may have higher expectations and requirements for consumption and entertainment, as well as higher standards and quality of living.

This can lead to low-income parties being unable to meet each other's demands, leading to conflict and dissatisfaction.

4.The pay gap can affect the sense of equality and respect between couples. If the other party is too financially dependent on the high-income party, this can lead to the low-income party being emotionally and strategically disadvantaged, eroding their sense of equality and trust.

5.Divergent plans for the future. Salary represents a certain career development potential, and it is difficult for two people to agree on future career planning, further education, real estate investment, etc., which will lay hidden dangers for long-term development.

Of course, the relationship between couples does not change solely on the basis of salary. The stability of the relationship mainly depends on the emotional foundation, trust, communication ability and problem-solving ability of both parties. The salary gap is only one of the more objective factors.

Therefore, the two need to make necessary compromises and adjustments in lifestyle, financial responsibility, and long-term planning. In particular, more efforts should be made in communication to promote understanding and prevent disparities from triggering bias. Only by doing so can the pay gap not become a real threat to feelings.

6.Tendency to economic dependence. The lower salary may have a certain tendency to become financially dependent, while the higher salary may also feel the pressure to be dependent. This can also undermine the equality of the two in the relationship.

7.Uneven sharing of responsibilities. It is difficult for the two to reach a fair balance in the responsibility of family expenses and other financial responsibilities, which will cause certain grievances or complaints, and affect the harmony of life.

It depends on the personality of this male land-raider, and more importantly, how this woman treats this man.

In our country, usually men earn more money and women earn less money, and everyone thinks that it is natural that once a pure man does not earn as much money as a woman, he will face all kinds of pressure.

In fact, this is an abnormal phenomenon, every day it is said that men and women are equal and men are equal, so there is such a result?

Most people in European countries are not like this, they think that each has their own strengths, a family, husband and wife can work hard to fulfill their responsibilities, and the income is based on the industry they are engaged in, the environment and even luck and many other reasons, and they should not blame each other for this.

The fact is also the case, the ancient science and technology are backward, most of the work is manual, physical strength is productivity, at that time in terms of earning money men's relatively strong body does have priority, but now it is not a manual labor-based production model, men have no advantage over women, and even many industries women have more advantages than men, at this time men want to earn more than women, the difficulty is indeed not much greater.

In this regard, the attitude of most Westerners and Easterners is completely different.

The result of the Western attitude is that it is normal for both sides to earn more, and the most important thing is that two people love each other; The result of the oriental attitude is that the woman will complain that the man is incompetent, and the man will become more and more inferior, and in the end, Lao Yan will fly apart.

I am not belittling Orientals, I myself am Orientals, there is no need to belittle my own people, this is an objective fact. Of course, this refers to a large number of people, not all of them.

It takes time to change the concept, and when the day comes when Oriental women can really abandon the concept of "marrying a man, marrying a man, dressing and eating", the equality of men and women will really come.

Therefore, my question is: In the final analysis, it depends on the attitude of both sides.

More and more single women are starting to buy a house for several reasons:

2.A change in outlook on life. Modern women's outlook on life and values have changed, pursuing a higher quality of life and greater autonomy. Buying a house can meet this life needs and spiritual appeals. Stuffiness is the source.

3.Planning for the future. Women's home buying behaviour reflects their more proactive and long-term planning for the future. No longer think that marriage is the only way out of life, but plan for your life and old age in advance.

4.A change in the perception of marriage. Women in modern society have a more egalitarian and rational view of marriage. Buying a home and stability are no longer seen as life goals that must be achieved through marriage. Buying an independent home exemplifies this change in values.

5.Pursue a sense of security. In the case of unstable love or marriage, buying a house can bring a sense of security to women, which is conducive to psychological and life stability. This is one of the motivations for women to buy houses.

Therefore, in general, women's independent home purchase is a symbol of social progress and changes in women's concept of life. This shows that modern women no longer regard marriage or attachment as their only life choice, but instead pursue autonomy and independence, both economically and spiritually. I think this change is positive and reflects the emancipation and progress of women in all areas of society.

Women should have equal opportunities and rights to improve their living conditions, and should not be limited by traditional attitudes. Women's house purchase should be understood and supported by the society, which is conducive to the improvement of women's living conditions and status, and reflects the direction of social progress. This will also contribute to the further achievement of gender equality.

Therefore, on the whole, women's independent home purchase is a very positive social phenomenon that is worth advocating and developing.