What is your position among the people around you?

The family is not a place to be reasonable, it is tolerant and mutually friendly, caring for each other, every member of the family has equal status, including children have the same right to speak, not because of eating your food, wearing your clothes, using your money, you are superior, always condescending, suppressing children, either overly worried, everything is all-inclusive, or laissez-faire, children need more respect, there is something to say, do not nag about old things, family members who speak with measure and weight, love to listen to your views on things, deal with opinions, you are naturally the backbone of the family.

I am an elderly person, I was born in the countryside and relied on the elderly with a monthly income of more than 100 yuan living allowance, you can imagine my status, but in the family I rank second to my grandson, and deeply loved and trusted by the grandchildren, the son and daughter-in-law are fighting on the front line, although their status is the leader in the family, but they are very hard, if I change places and retire in the city I should be the leader of the family.

My position among friends seems to be becoming more and more transparent now, even if I am the best friend who has ever played, there is no reason, it seems indispensable among all people, in fact, no one has found out without me, I always have a weak position in the end, and the person who is against me will never lack the people around me, as if a person is against me, and the people around me are all against me, but I think that I can be a person, never pick trouble, and often help others, I did something wrong!

Householder! However, our family is more harmonious and democratic, and we all have the right to speak to whomever listens. Usually there is something to discuss and implement the best plan!

Whoever controls the money will have the leading power in the family, and in the family, I am the main income laborer, and my position is not small. However, my wife has the most right to speak, because I love her. Later, when we had a child, he cried the loudest, and as a result, the child had a greater status than his wife, because he was our little baby.

Let's talk about my own, the privileged class, the daughter, the sophomore in high school, the whole family is at her service! The management class, parents and parents-in-law, also hold the sovereignty of the family! The commoner class, the wife, can supervise the privileged class and give some pressure, and can also lead the fourth class, the coolie me!

In the family, it is the mediator in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the playmate who can ride and take him to play in the hearts of children, and the friend who can talk about wine and sorrow among brothers.

I am a programmer ape over 30, the father of a two-year-old child, the chubby husband of his wife, and the honest and obedient son of his parents' children, but in the big family, I may only be a part of it, but I am an indispensable pillar of the wife and children of the small family.

Two people have a sense of existence from time to time, and three or more people will feel that they have become clear. It's as if the little sun doesn't need to be cared about. At this time, I really want to leave.