I can t be together, but I don t understand why I love him so much all the time

I think now you have to make a choice.

Some love will be happy together, both people are willing, both want to develop in this direction, and the difficulties in front can be overcome, such love must be fought for, to work hard. Are you having an affair with him? Does that mean you're pretty sure he has feelings for you too?

Even if you have the other half of the other party, if you find that you love more, choose it! When you are in junior high school, you will add these 5 years to a maximum of 19, what can you choose. Try to ask him how he feels.

There is also a kind of love, two people also like each other very much, but a lot of things in reality, there is a lot of resistance, can't be together, even if they are barely together, they won't be happy, some time ago I was troubled, go to my blog to see it, I'm quite willing for everyone to give me advice, and now I'm letting go of me and letting time forget all about it, downplaying. Now I'm busy with myself, and suddenly I realize that I really don't think about it every day, I don't think about it at all, I can move away immediately, so that people can relax.

You need to choose what kind of relationship you have, I think you can choose well, hehe.

I did a psychoanalysis of you, I don't know if it's right or not. I think you should be dissatisfied with the current love, so I miss the feeling of my first love in junior high school, you have not been in touch with your first boyfriend for so many years, even the gods have no feelings, what you are in love with is a feeling, a kind of power that allows you to find your original self, because you are unwilling to love in reality. You should learn to grow up and forget about him, but occasionally remember that child.

Because you're growing up and need more mature feelings.

Normally, loving someone doesn't have to be with them.

I'm the same as you, listen to a song sung by Li Zongsheng, "Ghost Lost Heart", which is written, and I like to listen to it the most now.

Awesome .........After so many years, if you like it, then be bold and chase it! Remember: don't regret it for life.

Dizzy, do you still like someone else when you have a boyfriend? Then why are you with him?I don't understand

Say directly: Let him come back to you, that is his destined fate in this life.

It is said that there is no reason to love someone, but with a person, you must be suitable for each other, otherwise it will be disastrous.

Some people have a more easy-going personality, so they are easy to get along with others, know how to tolerate others, and are not easy to get angry. Some people have a strong personality, and they like to have the final say in everything, and if they happen to be alone, it's not a big deal.

If both people have this kind of character, it is a disaster movie, and the two people will quarrel at any time.

It's easy to like someone, but if you really want to be with someone, it's important whether the personality is suitable or not.

Love without material support is difficult to maintain.

Love in reality, in my opinion, is mostly unable to withstand the test of material. Of course, there will always be exceptions.

When you are in love, you may not mind these things, but once you really get to the point where you plan to get married, it's a different story. Some people she is unwilling to suffer with you, even if there is love between you.

Some are more excessive, maybe she will find someone with good conditions, but she will always have a connection with the previous man, even if she can't marry him now, she will choose to be a lover with him. This situation is unacceptable to any man.

This kind of is more realistic, although they like each other, but because they can't meet the material of life, they can only choose to leave.

used to love, but now each other is no longer the man and woman they once were.

There is a kind of love, like the book I said, once loved to death, but because something unforgivable happened, I could only choose to leave. But those feelings are always there, even if they have become memories.

It's just that when love becomes a memory, you may have a little pity because of the love you once had, but you are no longer the two people you were back then.

Lost love, only to realize later, will only make people sad. When love becomes a memory, all we can do is to stop making the same mistakes again. There are many ways to fall in love, and there are many reasons why you can't be together, maybe it's emotional discord, maybe it's loving the wrong person, maybe it's the wrong time to meet the right person, and there are reasons why you can't be together.

Hello, I think this situation can only be said to be fateful. You obviously love someone, but you can't get along with him. Because there are so many things in this world that are too much for you to bear.

And there is too much helplessness and too much sadness in this world, so that you don't have the strength to perceive happiness.

obviously love each other, but in the end they can't get together. They love each other, but they also hate. There are probably many reasons why two people can't get together. Because it's not accidental.

The reason why they can't get together may be because the fate of the two people is not enough. They love each other but can't face the various realities of the world, so they can only escape and eventually give up. Helpless and sad.

In real time, we have a lot of problems, such as parents on both sides who will object to the two of you walking together. I have examples of this all around me. The girl's parents objected to the two of them walking together.

The reason is also very good, it is nothing more than that the two of you are not suitable, and this boy's family cannot give you happiness. No matter how the girl resisted, her parents just wouldn't agree. So in the end, the two can only be separated.

There are many couples in the relationship who are obviously in love with each other, but they can't get together anyway. Maybe it's sad, maybe it's regretful, but it's an experience in life, and we have to go through it. No matter how much your heart hurts, you have to go on.

It sounds like you're in a relationship that makes you feel tormented inside, and you should love each other a lot. So you want to get a response from the other person, and you want to feel the same passionate love.

Generally speaking, if you don't feel the other person's love for you for a long time, it can be divided into several situations:

1. The other party is not good at expressing emotions, that is to say, there is a type of person who has been emotionally ignored since childhood, and when he grows up, he will be emotionally isolated, unable to feel the feelings of others, and at the same time unable to express his feelings, he will never be able to arouse his emotional fluctuations, and he will not be able to understand your emotional fluctuations against him. It's not that this kind of person doesn't love each other, he just doesn't know what it feels like and doesn't know how to express it. This kind of person also includes straight men, who don't know what girls think in their hearts, and they will never be on the same channel as you.

2. The other party has not grown up yet. This kind of person still belongs to the psychology of children, and will simply enjoy your care and care for him, but he does not pay for his own branches, because his parents' love for him does not need to be paid by himself. It's not that such a person doesn't love you, but because he doesn't know what the real love is.

3. The other party is more selfish. This type of person is self-centered and more likely to be a PUA person, who will make you feel that it is your fault and that he cares about you. This will lead you into the misconception that he is good to himself and that he is not good.

But at the same time, you are very insecure in your heart, you can't feel a little bit of his love for you, and in the end you may not know what it feels like, only that you feel very uncomfortable.

Of course, there is also a possibility that it is not the other party's reason, such as your own high requirements for the other party, and the phenomenon of evading and withdrawing after the other party can't reach it, it will make you feel that the other party doesn't love you at all.

Personal opinion, I hope to give you some help

In a relationship, sometimes you will encounter situations where two people have been together for a while, but you don't feel the other person's love for you. In this case, the following aspects can be considered:

1.Direct communication: Communicating directly with the other person is the most effective way to solve a problem.

You can be honest about your feelings and ask the other person how they feel about you. During the conversation, you can mention that you want the other person to show more care and affection, so that your relationship is more stable and intimate.

2.Observe the other person's behavior: In addition to direct communication, you can also observe the other person's behavior to understand his feelings.

For example, whether the other party will take the initiative to care about your life and work, whether they will arrange to spend time with you, etc. These actions are often a sign of love, from which the sincerity and enthusiasm of the other person can be felt.

3.Pay attention to your own feelings: While paying attention to the other person, you should also pay attention to your own feelings.

Lu Qing If you feel that you are not happy in this relationship, then you need to consider whether you want to continue the relationship. Remember to respect your feelings and don't give up on your happiness and joy just because you're in love.

4.Revisit the relationship: Sometimes, it may be because both parties do not have the same expectations for the relationship, resulting in not feeling the other person's affection.

In this case, the relationship needs to be revisited to determine if both parties have the same expectations and goals for the relationship. A stable and happy relationship can only be built on the basis of shared goals and values.

5.In conclusion, in a relationship, direct communication is the most important. At the same time, it is also important to observe the other person's behavior, pay attention to your own feelings, and re-examine the relationship to find a solution to the problem.