Is the one who loves more in love stupid or what?

The love in love is mutual, 100%, and dedicated! How can you tell who loves a little more or less? It shouldn't be considered stupid, unless you have other intentions!

The only thing that can be distinguished is who is more active than whom, and in the form of expression, the proportion of men is greater than that of women. ‍‍

He is not stupid when he loves more in love, which proves his persistence and single-mindedness, and the deeper the feelings he invests, the more he pays, the more he loves each other. ‍‍

Actually, it's not stupid! Love is genuine and requires giving. If you are really stupid in your calculations, there is no fool in love, only willing and unwilling, why do you want to fight your heart? Those who care are fools! There is also a kind of dementia who is really stupid! ‍‍

Used in love, the person who loves a lot is the one who takes the initiative, he is not a fool, he is an angel! He starts a relationship, and at the same time he controls the rhythm, and he is the most positive and lovable person in the relationship. ‍‍

Love is mutual, the greatness of love lies in the ability to awaken each other's sleeping power and hidden talents, if the other party really loves you, then you are stupid to love! Because it's worth it no matter how much you give, because you're stupidly cute, stupid and wise. ‍‍

He seems to be stupid, but in fact it is a manifestation of wisdom and wisdom, and the highest state of wisdom is to pretend to be stupid. If a person loves each other deeply, then he needs to know how to give, and if he wants to take it, he must give it first, and there is no return if he does not pay. ‍‍

Who you're with matters matters and has a direct impact on your well-being. It's not that a person is stupid, it's not that a person is smart, it's that he knows what to care about and what not to care about. ‍‍

Generally speaking, more reserved girls will not take the initiative to contact boys. This requires the other party, especially the boy, to take the initiative, especially the male side between lovers, and only in this way can the love go one step further.

Sincerity for sincerity, stupidity for stupidity. In exchange for two happy fools, not for a big fool! Happiness is sometimes so strange, not to get more, but to care less. ‍‍

I'm not stupid and I'm smarter. Why do I think that the active party in love is not stupid? I think the one who takes the initiative in love is wiser and more understanding, and the one who does not take the initiative to love the party who does not take the initiative to love. ‍‍

Because people have feelings, they often lose their minds in love, and they are not hindered by reality and difficulties! Because of one's wholehearted dedication, you won't think too much about selfish things; I am confused in love, and many times I feel that love emotionally, so many people say that men and women in love are fools, and they are really happy and happy when they become stupid in love? Because there is less harm and purpose, I just feel the love happily, and I am in pure love...

People in love are indeed fools.

In love, you can only say that you love very much, and you want to manage this relationship carefully, there is nothing wrong with it, but the other party does not cherish you when you are hurt, or this mode of getting along is not what the other party wants. Therefore, blindly accommodating the other party will not come to an end, and it is better to communicate more.

It's not really stupid, it's not what they say, your happiness and love are pursued by yourself, work hard, support you.

In fact, this question has connotations, becoming stupid is due to one's own psychological effect, loving or being loved to different degrees will make the excited cells active and should change, so there will be extraordinary manifestations, such as: becoming stupid.

But it's true that smart people become stupid when they're in love!!

Compromise to the point of losing yourself, remember the story of the hedgehog? I pulled out the thorns all over my body for the person I liked, but I didn't get love.

Love is not a stupid and clever statement, but a foolish when it should be confused, and clear when it should be clear.

This is nothing more than to say that because love is two people getting along together, due to their respective life experiences and different family environments, the two people are inconsistent in how they look at things and deal with things in many cases. And on some anniversaries and ordinary warm experiences, you should clearly remember and give each other care in time.

Love, when you love, you are not smart, both parties have a very low IQ, why do you feel happy when you fall in love, just because your IQ is at the lowest, why do people often say silly happy, stupid happy, what you say is that if you have a low IQ, you are happy, are you satisfied, adopt it.

Love is when two people are stupid together, and they are so smart when they protect each other.

Silly, the way of dating, silly is innocence.

Do you think that's all there is to the power of love?

In fact, love not only makes people stupid, but also may overestimate each other's IQ because of love!

According to a study conducted by the University of Western Australia and the University of Warsaw, heterosexual couples overestimate each other's true IQ on average of 7 points;

To put it simply, two people who love each other, the boyfriend thinks the girlfriend is smart, and the girlfriend also thinks the boyfriend is intelligent, but the truth is that in fact, they both beautify each other.

Although such an overestimation of each other's IQ is a "miscalculation", the result of this mistake is good, because research has also found that couples who overestimate each other's IQ have a higher emotional happiness index.

Interestingly, the higher the overestimated score, the higher the positive correlation between the happiness index of the partner's relationship.

Why do you have the result of such a miscalculation of the results?

Researchers speculate that this is related to the "endowment psychological effect".

That is, when a person owns an article or asset, he will be more valuable to the item or asset than if he did not own the item or asset.

Psychologist (Pros.)Kahneman) has conducted experiments on endowment effects, so let's take a look.

In the experiment, participants were randomly divided into two groups, i) one group was given a coffee cup as a "gift" after completing the questionnaire.

ii) The other group was given a box of chocolate as a "gift" after completing the questionnaire.

Both are of equal value. When they received the "gifts", the staff told the two groups that they could actually choose chocolate or coffee cups as "gifts" and asked if they would interact. And because the participants were randomly assigned, statistically about half of the participants should have chosen to interact.

As a result, only one in ten of the participants chose to interact, and the following conclusions were reached based on the interviews:

i) Most of the people who get the coffee cup think the coffee cup is better;

ii) And the majority of those who get chocolate think it's better.

Thus, psychologists deduce that human beings tend to like what they have, and when we have the feeling of owning something, the value of that thing will increase in our hearts accordingly.

In the case of this study, overestimating the IQ of the other half is actually a benefit, because the emotional happiness index will be relatively high, so there is no problem in continuing to overestimate.

But it should be noted that when making important decisions, do not blindly think that the other party is smart and agree with his opinion, but should be based on the facts, although believing in your own IQ is not necessarily more reliable, but at least it is your own decision.

Be silly. People in love have zero IQs, and many times, people in love will do things that make people laugh and cry.

I think it must make people stupid, because there are many details that you can't think of in love.

Successful relationships can make people smarter. Because a successful relationship will allow both parties to help each other and make progress together, but a failed love will be counterproductive.

Not necessarily, it mainly depends on your attitude towards love, if you look at the relationship correctly and don't indulge in it, you will become smart and happy.