How to make yourself better How to make yourself better?

Hehe: If you decide to give up, don't think about it.

Distract yourself by doing what you love.

As soon as I think of him, I immediately do something else and don't think about it.

The reason for breaking up is that two people are not suitable, and it hurts to be together again.

You can say something like:

I'm sorry, my parents already know about us, and they say that I'm not very suitable for a boyfriend right now, and we can be good friends, because my parents have been in charge of my business since I was a child, and I can't help it, I'm sorry.

Don't think about it, you can't just divert your attention.

If both of you like each other, then go on well, if you are afraid that you will be hurt, then break up, and when he proposes to break up, you will be more painful, and it will hurt you the most.

I hope that the time after that will be innocent, flowing quietly like water, shallow and clear, and what you experience is the kindness of the world, not touching the sorrow and difficulties in the depths of life, and life is all love and beauty.

How can I make my life better? Then let yourself learn some things with positive energy, learn more valuable knowledge, enrich yourself, improve yourself, recharge yourself, make yourself strong and excellent, have positive energy, so that you can adapt to the development of this society and better contribute to the society.

I was born in 93, working in the system, and now the unit is a middle-level cadre, my parents are in business, the family conditions are okay, and the daughter-in-law is also in the system. Locust resistant.

Happy point 1: There is no stress in life. This is thanks to my parents, before I got married, I bought a house and a car in full, I didn't have to repay the loan, and I was very happy when the provident fund went to ** every month.

It turns out that I have been in the company for a year, and I have no right to refuse leadership, even if it is a small leadership type). So after working in the system for a few years, I hardly work overtime, I leave at the point, step on the point to work, no one can control me haha, the salary is still paid.

Happy point 3: the happiness of dual workers. The dining card issued by the unit, the supermarket shopping card, snack shop card, cake shop card, movie card, and clothing store card issued by the guild cannot be used up at all, and the double income is two, and the daily necessities at home do not cost money, not only us, but also my parents' daily necessities are bought by us.

Go to work together, get off work together, be on duty together, and have holidays together, although we both have cars, we usually ride a small electric donkey when we go to work, I take her, and the unit charging is also free. Moreover, the three views of the two of us are also quite compatible, how to rise together if we have nothing to do, and we have quarreled with passers-by together, and the husband and wife are invincible in the world.

Happiness point 4: Work itself is happier. I am now the deputy director of the office (the leader and director in charge are in charge, and there are staff members working in the lower section, everyone thinks I am busy), the secretary of the Youth League Committee (there is a branch committee to do things), a member of the trade union (responsible for publicity, all the propaganda manuscripts are available), a member of the party branch (responsible for publicity, as above), and every year all the awards and evaluations will consider me, because I seem to be busy.

And my job is more about facing leaders, and to be honest, most of them are more approachable, which makes me feel good at work every day. My daughter-in-law works for the enterprises and the masses that she faces, and she basically has to remind herself every day not to be like them.

Happy point 4: The material and spiritual worlds are relatively full. As for the material life, thanks to my and my daughter-in-law's parents, who support our little two (now my daughter-in-law and I rent a house near the unit, and then go back to our house on weekends to clean the villa and sweep for a day).

The spiritual world, we have nothing to do to have a romantic activity, playing cards, making an appointment with a hot pot, barbecue at home, flying chess, chasing dramas, watching movies, shopping, traveling, writing poems and publishing publications, and recently researching and writing**, and we are both more worried about the country and the people, pay attention to current affairs, we are both law majors, and can theorize a hot event overnight.

Happy point 5: Happiness from colleagues. I have a good relationship with my colleagues, I like to engage in small groups Hey, hey, usually make an appointment for breakfast together, make an appointment for dinner in the evening, make an appointment with cards, and travel on weekends, and complain about the "old pole" of the unit together if there is nothing to do, and study how to make them bad and crooked.

Find a stable job, take regular breaks, and commute to and from work on time.

Some time ago, a friend asked me that women have to pay more than men all their lives to get the same respect, women should make themselves live better, but how can they make themselves better?

I asked her, what is better, and how do you rate it? If your good refers to materials, then let yourself learn how to make money and manage your finances well; If your goodness refers to the spirit, you need to learn to calm your mind first.

But why didn't women get better?

1. Economic independence.

Everything is done on the basis of the economy, and if you don't have the means to experience independence, any ideological independence is a hypothesis, and in the end it will fail because of your own lack of independence. So if a woman wants to live her own life, the first thing is to be able to give herself a certain economic **, we can earn very little, we can have very little, but we have to learn to work and make money, so that we can integrate into society well, we can be rookies, we can experience ridicule and failure, as long as we take that step, every day in the future will not be more difficult than at the beginning, we will always get better and better, as long as you complete the experience of independence can it be possible to establish your own ideology and thoughts, If you keep looking up to others, you will learn to read words and feelings, learn to compromise, and learn to be the person others like, not the person you want to be. I work hard because I can afford to buy everything I like!

2. Have your own world.

There are thousands of lives, each with its own appearance, no one is smooth sailing, but some people are willing to work hard, some people are very smart, some people are very smart and very hardworking. Every time I chat with excellent people, it's already eleven o'clock in the evening, and in their world, it's actually a time to work hard, and they are still working hard. And I'm afraid we've already gone into the dream!

Was it because they were good and too smart, or could we have done the same, but we all ended up losing to the game and procrastination. We lose to our emotions and laziness, and then helplessly say that this is fate, in fact, it is not our own cowardice and laziness that make us like this! We have given ourselves an impeccable reason, but in fact, this reason is fragile, as if you fell and didn't get up, and you said that you didn't eat this morning.

So life never writes down the answer before you choose. You have to learn to build your own world, your own values and worldview, and learn to have an independent outlook on life. Life is unknown, so it's worth trying and trying.

God gave the power of creation to women because you are brave and strong enough, decisive and persevering enough, so you can start your happy life at any time if you want, and if you are not happy, go find a job now and start a new life! You remember, you are very good, you deserve to be treated with sincerity and sincerity, you deserve to be loved! I will bless you, pay attention to you, and love you deeply in a certain corner of this world!

3.Take courses and training: If you want to learn new skills or improve your abilities, you can take courses and training. These courses and trainings not only increase your knowledge and skills, but also expand your horizons.

6.Develop good habits: Developing good habits can make you more disciplined and focused. This can help you complete tasks more efficiently and make your life more meaningful and fulfilling.

7.Reflect and adjust: Regularly reviewing your progress and problems as you progress toward your goals can help you better understand yourself and make the necessary adjustments.

In conclusion, to live a better life, you need to keep learning, improving, growing, and building good relationships.

Life is actually about coaxing yourself, coaxing yourself to understand, and everything is solved.

Every choice in life is like a gamble, winning or losing is your own, since the pain and happiness are borne by yourself, why can't you face it calmly, less complaining, more casual and peaceful, maybe this is the life we have been pursuing.