Chinese are most willing to pay for education, what burden does it cause to children?

A recent survey report pointed out that the biggest aspect of Chinese spending money in 2020 is education, accounting for more than 130%, it can be said that Chinese are most willing to pay for education, and parents hope that their children can study seriously to fulfill their ideals and ambitions. However, while parents hope that their sons will become dragons and their daughters will become phoenixes, they ignore the burden on their children and blindly increase the burden on their children, which is not good for their children.

Our parents send their children to various cram schools after school, and the children who were supposed to leave school at 6 o'clock have to continue their studies in the cram school until 9 o'clock. Some parents don't actually want to do this, but other children go to cram school every day, and their own children don't go, so there will naturally be a gap in learning, and they can only be forced to send their children for the sake of their children's grades being much worse than others. The child is not yet in junior high school, and he has no entertainment time for himself every day, which puts a lot of pressure on the child's academics.

Some parents, after each time their child finishes the exam, because the child does not do well, will criticize the child, which further increases the child's academic pressure and psychological pressure. Children's psychological growth is also very important, not only to ask children to learn, but also to let children grow up healthy and green.

Many parents also help their children sign up for interest classes for the sake of their children, so that their children can grow up in an all-round way. But many children actually do not have much sense of interest in what they are learning, parents do not give their children the right to choose their own preferences, but force children to learn a popular interest, these phenomena seem to be for the good of children, but in fact children are not happy at all. When parents educate their children, they should consider their children's interests, but also consider the children's psychological and physical endurance, health and happiness are the first in children's growth, and not all children must learn the top, children cultivate good three views and excellent morality, healthy and happy growth is the most important.

Cause the child to be stressed. Parents have great expectations for their children, and some parents sign up for a lot of training classes for their children regardless of whether they like it or not, so that their children have to be busy with the tasks assigned by the school teachers all day long, and they also have to complete the homework of the tutoring class, so busy that they have no time to do what they like.

Chinese are most willing to pay for education, a large number of interest classes and study classes, so that the burden of children's childhood becomes very heavy, so that children's childhood is very unhappy!

Education, too much. It will make children feel that they have no time to play, then they will also be very tired of learning people, which is more annoying, too stressful.

Chinese pay too much attention to education, which leads parents to give their children a lot of learning pressure, so that they think that learning is the only way to get ahead, resulting in both physical and mental pressure and burden.

The child sacrifices a lot of playtime and is under a lot of mental stress. Children who are supposed to play carefree after class are now having to do their homework all the time.

The 2020 survey of China's economic life shows that one of the areas where Chinese spend the most money is education. Education is the foundation of the country, education determines the cultivation of talents, no matter what kind of family, the education of children is regarded as an important aspect. Therefore, parents in every family are willing to invest a lot of money and time to get their children to receive a better education.

Among all age groups, middle school students should be the most spending. There are many aspects to investing in education, the most basic is the cost of school tuition, books, and the other is the cost of attending tutoring classes. Secondary school students also have heavier learning tasks and often need a variety of tutoring materials.

Outside of class, there are also some tutoring institutions, which will also have high tuition fees to pay. Because many students will participate in various tutoring after school in order to achieve better academic performance, parents will try to prevent their own children from falling short of other children, even if the family situation is not very good, they will also try to let their children participate in the same tutoring. With the rise of the Internet, there are also a lot of learning aids on the Internet, which also cost money and increase people's investment in education.

For middle school students, they often have more than just academic tasks, and their parents will also pay attention to and invest in cultivating their interests. Nowadays, many middle school students know a variety of musical instruments, such as piano, saxophone, violin, etc., which are not only expensive for tuition, but also a large cost for buying musical instruments. There are also students who have the interest of learning cross talk, painting, vocal music, etc., which also require a lot of expenses.

Parents hope that their children will not lag behind other children in education, they all hope that their children can have a good future, good development, and hope that their children are excellent, so Chinese are willing to pay for education, and at the same time, as children, we must also live up to the expectations of parents, study hard, work hard, and realize our ideals.

In fact, the consumption of each age group in the education stage is very large, in order to let children win at the starting line, from primary school and even kindergarten, various tutoring classes are emerging in an endless stream, which is also due to the current education system.

Parents in their 40s and 50s really like to pay for education. In order to keep their children from losing at the starting line, they desperately enroll their children in various cram schools, specialty classes, summer camps, ......In order to go to a key school, he even went bankrupt to buy a house in the school district. This obsession can be described as crazy.

Wishing for a child to become a dragon and a daughter to become a phoenix is the thinking of most Chinese parents, especially between the ages of 3 and 15.

Yes, the 30-40 age group spends the most because their children are just the time to lay the foundation.

The rewards of education are very considerable, and we can quickly feel the power that education brings us, so many people spend their lives paying for education.

Because with the development of society, people have gradually realized the importance of education and know that knowledge can create wealth, so they do not hesitate to spend money on education.

Because education in China is the only way for most people to change their destiny, ordinary people know that education is very important, so so.

Because paying for education is to invest in the future of their children, parents hope that their children will live better than themselves in the future, knowledge changes fate, only learning things, more, wider, deeper, the possibility of a better life in the future is greater, and another is that the children around you are learning, if you don't learn, will you be left behind, parents' anxiety is also one thing.

This is because education is very important, this is an era of information education, so people are more willing to pay for education and are more willing to spend money on their children's education.

Knowledge can change fate, and those who graduate from junior high school are now called illiterate.

This willingness to be trapped in the army is based on the reality of Chinese society, and China's social environment and the employment requirements in it have very high requirements for academic qualifications. In order to give their children a better foothold in society, most parents will try their best to provide their children with the best education and let their children have a higher level of education, so that they will not be eliminated by society. There are many people in their generation who are unable to send all their children to school due to family financial problems, so they do not let their children be affected in this way.

Most parents are thinking about their children, and there are many parents who think that they live to pave the way for their children. Therefore, most of them do their best to give their children the best learning environment, such as spending a lot of money just to let their children go to key schools, buying houses and buying school district houses with high housing prices. Parents have worked hard to earn money just to give their children the best education, and they think the money is worth it, and they are willing to pay for their children's education.

I have to say that the current Wanghao children are really under great pressure to study, they have to start learning English since elementary school, and think about me at that time. Although we also have English classes, we just watch some of them and don't take English exams. I started learning English when I was in the seventh grade of junior high school.

In addition to these compulsory courses, some parents also sign up for some interest training courses that their children are not willing to learn, which greatly increases the burden on their children. And these interest training classes are only those that parents think are useful for their children, and they are not really liked by the children, which will cause some physical and mental exhaustion to the children. Therefore, although parents are willing to pay for their children's education, they should also ask their children if they are willing to receive such education.

For example, in a hobby training class, you can ask yourself what your child is interested in, and then sign him up for a course he likes according to his hobbies.

There is a saying that no matter how hard you are, you can't suffer your children, and the education of your children is a problem related to future development, so the Chinese people are most willing to pay for education, all out of love for their children. It's just a pity for the hearts of parents all over the world, from the moment the child is born, he began to think about the child's early education, not all because he can't lose at the starting line. Education is so utilitarian, not because I am afraid that children will enter society in the future and will not be able to compete with others.

Of course, some parents let their children learn this and that out of selfishness. For example, this parent used to have a dream, and then he couldn't realize it, so he passed it on to his child. You see, hobby classes are blooming everywhere now, not because there is a huge market.

A kindergarten child, during the weekend holiday, can't wait to be full of schedules, such as piano lessons, Lego lessons, chess lessons, and painting lessons. Looking at it, they all feel tired for these children, but some parents think that everyone else is learning, and their own family can't fall behind.

If others learn a lot and their children don't learn much, parents will also have an inexplicable anxiety, like their own children will be left far behind by their peers. So a happy childhood is really a scarce commodity for children. Children go to some endless cram schools, and it is all the parents' wishes.

Some parents are purely for their own vanity and cannot be compared to other people's children. There are all kinds of comparisons openly and secretly, the so-called paying for education, the parents are willing.

All in all, the reason why this is the situation is that one is that I hope that my child will have a good future, how fierce the competition in society is now, and there is also the vanity that may be out of comparison, and some parents really care about their own face. Chinese people also attach great importance to the education of their children, so they spend money and effort in this regard, which is all brain-blowing and not distressed. It's better to suffer yourself than to let your child lack a little bit in education.

Because of China's overall educational environment and ideology, from ancient times to the present, from the imperial examination to the current college entrance examination, all reflect the feeling that as long as you learn well, you can get ahead, so Chinese attach great importance to education, so they are more willing to pay for education.

Because our country's education system and methods determine our future development, if we do not study hard, we will fall behind others, so Chinese are willing to pay for education.

Because Chinese always feel that getting into a good school is the best way out for their children in their lives, Chinese are most willing to pay for education, and Chinese parents are very willing to spend money for their children's learning.

Chinese-style teaching refers to a common teaching method that exists in China. It is widely used in schools in our country and has made a great contribution to the cultivation of talents in our country. However, it shows that the teaching is relatively rigid, the differences between students are too small, and the standards tend to be single.

In the education of our school, it is easy to form a rigid approach to the test-oriented education inherited over the years. In the Chinese education model, group teaching is:The main way to impart knowledge is rarely practical. As a result, "the students we train are like factory-made table tennis balls"Traditional education is not conducive to the development of students' personalities.

Let's take a look at how children are taught in the West: in Washington, USA, a mother with a small child is walking in the snow. Suddenly, the child slipped off the ice and the child cried for help.

The mother turned around, looked at the child, and said, "Jim, well done, get up!" Remember, you are a man.

The children stopped crying, and his face was full of happy smiles.

In today's era, China's national strength is developing rapidly. However, in order to have a place in the world and continue to grow, it is necessary to cultivate innovative talents. In my opinion, primary education and pre-school education should be studied in the category of innovative talents.

It is well known that our country has a high high high dropout rate in high schools. In addition to personal reasonsThe most important reason is still from the social atmosphere. Now,

In the vast rural areas, there is a saying that "reading is useless", which has an impact on the reality of many children and their parents. Some parents say that going to school is also about making money, so it's best to go out and work after graduating from junior high school!

Chinese-style education,DesireThe mentality of quick success and immediate benefits keeps many promising children from becoming talented. In addition, the development of the Internet also affects the education of schools, especially young students. There is great potential for development from the county to the township.

Despite the rigorous investigation carried out by the state functional departments, there are still violators who have provided convenience to primary and secondary school students, resulting in the slow implementation of basic education, quality education and innovative education. Innovative talent has become empty talk. Therefore, we should:Strengthen social reform, establish a good social atmosphere, let the whole society take action, create a good environment for the development of children and young people, and reserve innovative talents for the society.